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       Posted by FANDM1 Posted July 18, 2011 View Comments 70      
A Bush v. A Shaved Pussy

People ask why I won’t, like most swingers, shave my pussy. So I feel compelled to list my reasons: 1 Children that are 5 or 6 years old, have no pubic hair and their pussies look like a swinger’s pussy after she shaved. Little kids are not at all sexy. Unless someone has a fetish for child porn, there should be no reason for them to want to fuck a hairless pussy. When we reach puberty our pussy hair tells the world we are ready to fuck and be fucked. Until we develop that soft triangle, we are not ready. So why would anyone want to shave it off and look like they did when they were 5 or 6 years old?  2 To us, a shaved pussy looks like a Martin, or an opened wound that needs a Bandage. 3 When a girl starts shaving she has to continue. If she misses a day or two her pussy becomes a cactus patch and no one wants little pins sticking in their face when the go down on it. 4  If she decides to let it grow back, it grows course and thick, like steel wool. She will never again have that down-like or mink fur softness it had before she started shaving. 5 We like a pussy to look as Nature intended. That dark triangle of soft mink like fur is tantalizing and alluring. It is sooo soft. It leaves a little something to the imagination. Like a scantly clad girl looks sexier than a completely naked one. LETS NOT GET INTO A DUMB CONVERSATION ABOUT SHAVING LEGS OR UNDERARMS. WE’RE ONLY TALKING ABOUT PUSSIES HERE! 5 Some say they like a shaved pussy because it’s easier to lick and they don’t like a bush because they may get a hair in their teeth. We don’t know. We’ve never had that problem and my pussy has been eaten by a lot of guys, and girls. We have NEVER had ANYONE decide not fuck and eat my pussy because of my bush, but with so many women shaving I sometimes we feel like an outcast. I take a lot of insults! Some in the chat room said that, because of my bush, our pictures (which are very recent) look like they are from the eighties before most in the lifestyle began shaving their pussies. Of course they are not, and we will not ‘go with the flow’ and shave just to end this ridiculous thinking. 

by DUEPORCELLINI on December 11, 2013
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We prefere shaved with a thin .....

by GOODFRIENDS51 on December 10, 2013
We think its way sexy.

by GOODFRIENDS51 on December 10, 2013
We think its way sexy.

by GOODLUVN on December 2, 2013
We like some hair. Anywhere from full bush to thin strip! You have a beautiful body and a lovely bush. We regularly cycle through the styles with the Mrs. to keep it fresh. You should try the shave sometime. Mrs. Goodluvn really likes the extra attention down there!

by XNAUGHTYFUNX on November 14, 2013
Always been a fan of variety. 

by ATPACPL on November 14, 2013
We both like to see hair??light trim?.but hair?.it seems more like a adult than a kid?..but must also say?.a fresh shaved pussy see sweet to lick?.

by SFLFUN on August 16, 2013
My vote is for a natural bush.  Back in the 80's that's all we saw and a young adult that I was brought up with.  

by JEEP39 on August 14, 2013
I like a shaved or neatly trimmed pussy.  There's nothing wrong with a lot bush but it's just not my thing.

by SWEETJEAN2 on August 14, 2013
Hi all, to hair or not to hair...that is the question. I (we) like the bush. Hubby loves the bush, but it's hot here in FL and sometimes a shave just feels niceeee :)

by LUV2PLS on April 22, 2013
i cant agree more.shaved is like childs and it totally turns me off


by SHARPEI1 on April 8, 2013
I love a full bush


by SHARPEI1 on April 8, 2013
I love a full bush


by STACY2 on March 18, 2013
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by SUZIGEE on December 19, 2012
For us smooth is much more sensuous and sexy. We visit Cap d' Adge often,and the sight of a thick hairy bush,both male and female,on the beach does not compare.Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view

by HORNYHUBBY on December 19, 2012
Must be shaved underneath at the very least, trimmed, sculpted, be-jazzled or fully shaved is so sexy it shows how much care and attention a women has paid to the apperance of that beatifull part of her body, we also like it when the inner labia dont protrude past the outer it creates the mystery and a feast to the eyes as the lips are gently parted to reveal the pleasures that lie within.
G & G.  

by SEXYFUN4U on December 19, 2012
Ok...we of course believe that after all everyone is entitled for their preference; however having that said here is what we think:

1. Why do people have to go from one extreme to another. It seems that many either like a completely shaved or complete bush. What happened to in between?
You can shave all that apply, except leaving a little or a small triangle on top and clean everything below its that simple. That way you have the best of both worlds. Because yes its mostly true a woman looks far more attractive with that than none at all.

2. think about it....when you look at a naked woman in a nude resort or a nude beach or even on TV, those who have a defined hair on top of vagina, always looks so much sexier and you sort of feel that there is a sexy woman that is naked or its sort of a confirmation that she is.

3. having a little hair there does not mean not clean or clean enough, it just create a character to the vagina, or in a funny way sort of an identity. while the other way around all look the same and may be not as attractive. But make no mistake, everyone that we played with so far just happened NOT to have hair there at all so we are fully open minded to all, but both of us will find the female half a lot more sexier if she had a little . (Guys of course must clean all that apply as well of course like balls..etc)

4. Another proof that its really more attractive: the porn industry. If its really better the other way around, how come most porn actresses have a of hair on top of vagina?

5. We believe that somehow at some point someone invented the bald vagina look, as a claim that they are clean, then it became a trend, But we know that does not mean anything. Of course, again there is a difference between completely bald or a little hair on top vs so much hair around there all over the place.

6. So, for those who read this comment, go ahead and enjoy your femininity by having a nicely trimmed or a triangle or whatever sexy shape you like to have. Almost as if as you are having a sexy haircut and you change it once in a while. Think about it like this:
would a woman shave her hair on her head so she can be kissed better on her mouth?
well why would you shave all the hair on top of the vagina since really the oral takes place way below?
(well... it may be funny to some people, or a little exaggeration of a point), but it is a similar idea..lol...so go ahead indulge yourself and look in the mirror before and after and take pictures and see which one look sexier to you...



by EUROMAN on November 12, 2012
a nice hairy pussy is very sexy ....... it`s all in the eyes of the beholder right and if i`m not wrong we were all born with hair somewhere ....

by LEXYALY on October 15, 2012
Big fan of the bush here!  I agree with the original post - definitely more womanly.  It's not easy in today's culture to sport ... most people seem to act like it's a bad thing, but I think it's extremely sexy!

by GRINGONLATINA on August 8, 2012
I think there is an age divide here.  Nearly all of the Bush lovers are in their 50's and you would be hard pressed to find anyone in their 20's or 30's who doesn't shave...

It's a generational thing...
The music is different, the clothes are different, the hair is different, and yes, the pussy is different...

The Mrs has had full laser and the Mr. keeps everything nearly hair free.  We wouldn't consider playing with anyone who has an abundance of pubic hair...We wouldn't insult someone for having hair down there, we just don't find it attractive and it is one of our deal breakers...

It is always difficult trying to gather support for a preference that is in the overwhelming minority, but here, there is something for everyone...good luck...

by EDDIEP044 on August 6, 2012
Ty for takeing the time to blog about this I personally like it all natural but I will also enjoy shaved its my preference not a hard llimit Ty everyone for posting your opinions was a great read

by TRIFUL on July 27, 2012
I can understand arguments against shaving but there are other options... I won't be guessing - I KNOW neither I or my hubby are into child porn (the thought of it makes me sick!)But I got a laser treatment years ago and now wax every few weeks (some soft blond hair).Before laser I used to wax on regular basis.As long as remember I found hair elsewhere than my head very unattractive, but that's just my personal preferences.I leave a small landing strip - so no doubt, I'm a fully grown up woman :-) I'd not eat hairy pussy, neither would my hubby.

by SAILOR153 on July 26, 2012
we prefer the soft hair too, too hard to get a stubble free finish down there.We also feel the soft downy hairs under the arm are a turn -on too,all those shaved pits are missing out on one of the most erogenous zones on a woman's body.A clean armpit is a delight to nuzzle in the height of passion

by WIDEOPEN101 on July 26, 2012
I couldnt agree more
I love it natural

by TEXAN on June 1, 2012
 I again would like to call on someone to revive the old Beavers community that used to be on SDC. I would do it myself, but I already have a community, and you can only have one. It really doesn't take that much effort to run a community.

by ACTIVE2SUM on June 1, 2012
 Like both shaved and non shaved. My preference is smooth for me but he goes for all pussies. The covering he says is not what matters but how it works when the curtains are opened.

by ACTIVE2SUM on June 1, 2012
 Like both shaved and non shaved. My preference is smooth for me but he goes for all pussies. The covering he says is not what matters but how it works when the curtains are opened.

by HEDOCOUPLE4 on March 15, 2012
A big shout out to this couple for giving their opinion on the 'BUSH' subject. Everyone has a preference, and is entitled to such. Certainly, pussy looks/feels great hairy or shaved. Nothing wrong with either, unless you have an issue with parting the hair from the lips and licking away. Doesnt take THAT much skill!

There is just something about the scent and feel of that dark triangle between a womans legs and feeling/watching your dick disappear into it. 
Good job!

M & A

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by PHILOUMARY on December 7, 2011
100 % agree  with you !!!

And i would  just say  that   all shavec pussy lovers  are often  turned on   my our pics  withan hairy  pussy...

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by LUCKYTWO on October 8, 2011
We love a nice HAIRY pussy. It feels great rubbing your face on it. While in our car, my hand is on my wife's crotch. Running my fingers in between all her pubes. That's why we carry a good car insurance policy.LOL

This BUSH will always have our VOTE...

by BODYJEWEL on August 16, 2011
we like it both ways, in the 70's/80's it was forbidden and the shaved experience was way cool.today it is 90% of all women soooo, we find it very sexy to see a full bush on a sexy girl today . bodyjewel lets hers grow out about every 2-3 months,it is a sexy variation ans she can still grow a huge bush(sexy in itself) yours is PRIMO!!! DON;T DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT we will send an invitation--bodyjewelExplicit image available, join sdc.com to viewExplicit image available, join sdc.com to view


by MSSEXUALCONDUCT on July 25, 2011
I never did understand how someone can look at an adult pussy and think of a child, just because it is shaved. 

Carrie

by ROCKSTEADY69 on July 24, 2011
I just want pussy, if it is too hairy then I will help you shave it.

by WHBKSSEXY on July 24, 2011
love a nice clean shaved kitty!! trust ladies itd to your benifit.. what pleasures u will receive

by FANDM1 on July 24, 2011
Thank you SHARETHE LOVE for your flattering and supportive post. You sound like very nice people. And thank you SUPER7 for your observation concerning dye. I guess I’ll cross that Bridge when I get to it.

by SHARETHELOVE on July 23, 2011

FANDM1 I'm glad you posted this blog as it gave me the opportunity to see a very beautiful woman like yourself, who happens to be my own age. Please don't say that you want to explain your reasons. As considerate as that might be, you don't owe anybody an explanation. It is difficult to be part of the minority in any community, but from where I stand there is not a thing wrong with you, nor a need to provide reasons for what you do. It is definitely a personal preference. I hated my pubic hair so much that I went through a very painful and expensive laser treatment. However, I love hairy men. I love my guy's hairy chest and I'm not too happy when he trims down under to be more appealing to other women. I don't fault you for reason number 1 either. Once upon a time, in my teenage year, when shaved pussies were not as popular, I had the same thought cross my mind. Now days, I find shaved pussies very sexually appealing to me, but beauty is undeniable and you got it lady.

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by FANDM1 on July 22, 2011
Thanks Texan and Super7, but No Thanks. While we would join a Beavers community, our plate is too full start one. All we want to do on SDS is have SEX a lot of sex. I only wanted to explain “my” reasons for not shaving. Not start a war; or a community.   

by TEXAN on July 21, 2011
Super, I already suggested the idea to them in a private email.

by TEXAN on July 20, 2011
There used to be a Beavers Community on SDC but the person who ran it left the site and it was taken down. If someone wanted to resurect it, I am sure that "Party" or "Helpdesk" would be happy to oblige. (Of course, I am just assuming they would.)

by SAILOR4 on July 19, 2011

Like em shaved the most, but at least trimmed and neat....just saying....

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by BROWNSGR26 on July 19, 2011
 I like it shaved. Luuuuuvvv the landing strip!!!

by OKCFUNCPL on July 19, 2011
Have to say that we agree with everything FANDM1 have said.  Adult women were meant to have hair on their pussy just as men were meant to have hair around their cocks and that is the way it should be.  My wife has had a nice bush all her life and has never had a single complaint from either another man or woman in fact they love the was her pussy gets dripping wet and the hair either matted down with cum, pussy juice or both.  Everytime we have been to a party or club my wife has had her pussy eaten by more than jus one man and as a rule by several women and they all seem to enjoy it.  I love her lovely bush and eat her pussy as often as possible.  Guess it is just a case of to each his/her own.

by REVERSECOWBOY on July 19, 2011
Shaved Pussy please.
I agree with SUPER about your comments regarding children. I think that was bang out of order quite frankly...

by KNOTYEAGLE on July 18, 2011
Understood, I'm sure both of you get plenty of oral attention. Sexual attraction comes from how well you mesh with the other person. Both of you look good.

by FANDM1 on July 18, 2011
I hope my blog did not offend anyone! We have many friends that shave. I just wanted to explain why I will not.

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