I was told this week that theres loads here who are not real swingers but on the game? Escorts  for me swinging sex is fun ,,, when money comes into it the funs all gone ....... its then a job and jobs are boring its not swinging  ?? Weird thing after i had this chat  next person im me in chat room about taking my pic  ,,,, saying it would be free  if i had sex with him if not i had to pay ,, lol  jo xxxx mrs Game... xx

J is doing the P90X to get in shape for a fun adult vaction. She is wanting to go to either Hedo or Desire in Sept.. Which is better and why?  Thanks
Jenbar

having been swingers for longer (almost) than some of you have been born and having met some of the nicest people that you can imagine,we ran into a problem this weekend and perhaps someone can help us.to start with we just love threesomes.this weekend we hooked up with a  young man that we were both impressed with,nice looking,well versed on many subjects and just a really nice guy.the problem?he was really well endowed and for the most part,things went well but after a few hours as he became harder and longer,he would bottom out(my wife is really tight and i guess not a bottomless pit)to make a long story short while making love with this stud he went deep enough to hurt her to the point that we had to cancel the rest of the evening and it has taken several days for her to get back to feeling ok.any suggestions?this is a really nice young man and we would love to hook up again.have any of you encountered this problem?any suggestions?thanks for reading this and thanks for any ideas.have a great day

 We have now left the Hellfire club after 3 years working with Mr Hellfire we have decide to part company this does not mean we will not be interested in running other parties in the future. We have enjoyed helping to build the club Ed doing all the building work and me the interior design and even if i do say so it is a pretty stylish place. We are still around so say hi to us as we have met a lot of amazing people over the last 3 years. 

We have planned our first vacation to the Caiente in Tampa since we decided to try the lifestyle. We are new to this and hope to meet some real fun people to party with. If you can be there and would like to show us the ropes then let us know. We look forward to meeting some other attractive couples and select singles to experiment with.

Voluntary ejaculation is a Toaist/tantric practice where the orgasming male consciously avoids ejaculating, thus preserving his recently stimulated homones and sexual energy,not to mention his hard-on,eventaully becoming a multi-orgasmic "sex machine".   The storing of the hormones/energy has a wonderful positive effect over ones's health and well being ,  even overshadowing the  mind blowing sexual boost. Can the SDC male (or female ) get their mind around such an "esoteric" Eastern belief ?

While doing a spot of perving last night I came across a wonderful (serioysly hot) profile video and I started to wonder who has the best profile video on the site?

So my nomination for the May award goes to; CHARDONNAY

Help fulfill my Fantasy?

I am currently looking for an out of town wife to have a LTR with. I want to fly her into Houston once a month or as our time allows. I would take care of her hotel and flight arrangements..she would come into town one day and be back home to hubby all used up the next day or even back home the same day. Plain and simple. Not that I can't find local people--remember this is fantasy.

Can you handle that? Can your husband handle that? A dominant bull who wants to use his wife's pussy for his pleasure. Turn her out and make her a BBC slut and use her to his liking..then send her back home all used up and stretched out? I know you say you want it..but do you really....
A bbc that can fill that pussy up and pound you hard from the back while gripping that ass with one hand and pulling your hair back with the other? Giving it to you the way you really need it and fulfilling your every sexual desire. I want a real wife...a real wife who craves a bbc...I want that pussy to be dripping wet when she thinks about me.

Are you game?

SDC is getting ready for its next hotel takeover event in the South of Spain in Cadiz. This beautiful port city will be host to one of the most beautiful upscale swingers events in the world. Cadiz is the perfect place for this type of event because of the privacy it offers along with the beautiful beaches and top rated golf course. There will plenty for everyone to do during the day with all of the pool events, and the hotel is just steps away from some great shopping and dining.

Last year’s event was such a success that this one sold out months ahead of time. If you missed this year in Cadiz we’ll be starting bookings for next year soon, so don’t worry. You can check out our previous swingers events video on YouTube to get an idea of what this is all about. We’re bringing more and more great swingers events so keep checking back with us!

 We have been off the site for a few years starting a family and recently rejoined. Looking through many profiles since we have returned its like taking a step back in time as so many people have kept the same photos up that they had on here 3 years ago and maybe have had on even longer than that!! Surely like us you have all aged a bit, added some pounds? (unlike us..lol!). 

We think it should be a new site rule that everyone has to renew their profile pics yearly that way at least we can all keep a fresh and honest view on each other :-) It would also keep profiles interesting to re look at.
In this day of digital photography, its not exactly hard to snap away and post new pics is it!

What do others think?