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| Beginners in this life style |
My husband and I have just recently started in this lifestyle. We are in our mid 30's and after 13 years of marriage decided it was time for a change. I at first interested in having another female and then a complete swap. We have had 2 experiences since we started in November. One was good and the other was OMG FANTASTIC! Life with three kids is busy and planning is a big part for us. We both work and I go to college on top of work.
I must admit we are not super models even though getting into better health is something we both have started. I would like to be in better shape so maybe we will get more people interested in actually seeing us. Do you have any tips on meeting new people here? We are both pretty shy, though I tend to talk a lot more than he is. I would just like for us to meet people that we can hang out just not in the bedroom but maybe a dinner and movie as well. Is that something people do or is it just the great sex everyone is looking for? |
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| by LUVOUR420 on February 14, 2012 |
| I agree.. SexiJenni.. why do you need to be so harsh all the time? You are truly direct, but not everyone is going to appreciate such directness...I'm sure some people do...but it can be a turnoff for some. Live and let live..let's all be more mellow :-) Peace . |
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| by SEXYJENNI on February 14, 2012 |
Is this blog for real?? Here is a tip. Why don't you try putting what you want and are looking for in your profile or looki for couples that want the same or when you talk to couples why dont you tell them what you are looking for. Did any of that ever occur to you?? This is not rocket science and you two are freakin adults!!
This web site should be renamed : SDCforpeoplewhowanttoswingwithnocommonsense.com
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| by CHAMMY-FL on January 30, 2012 |
| Every couple is looking for something different. The only way to find out is to try. Meet people. Let them know what you're seeking, be frank and honest. Overcome the shyness (I had to, it's not that hard...). Communicating those things to other people is important, and so is the experience you gain from it, even those times when things don't work out (and those days will come!). It's just like everything else in life... there will be good times, great ones, and a few awful ones, too. IMO, those bad experiences aren't all that bad... after the fact, and - only if you learn from them. It sharpens your "radar" as a couple, so you can better try to meet people who have compatible agendas. Good luck... |
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| by TRYUS on January 29, 2012 |
If you put is some effort and send out emails that say more than "Lets Fuck" you should be able to meet people with no problem. Just remember do not take it personaly if you get no reply (some people are just rude) or if you get a polite no thank you. There is someone for everyone but sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a princess or princess even if only for one night or a few hours.
Best advice be your self's and share a little about your self's with those you are interested in. Yes some people will only be interested in what you look like (but everyones idea of beauty is not the same) other are impressed by money or what side of the tracks you are from and miss out on lots of great people and great fun but that is their choise. Then some of us think its fun to meet new people learn a little about them and even get naked (maybe before we learn a little about them maybe after).
Good luck and remember this is no diffrent than everything else in life some will some won't and most of the time this is more a reflection on them then on you. So keep smiling.
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