| by XTCCPL25 on January 30, 2012 |
Hi Guys
Intresting post, For us meeting new people is a big part of the fun of swinging, That being said there is something really sexy about having a "regular" (not exclusive) couple, who you can trust to turn up, be sexy, share a fantasy or two even try something nuts with, Or be normal go to a concert dinner or movie with.
We are not exclusive but we do have "Regular Friends" hmmm maybe they are just favorites
As long as its all fun i guess
Anyway i just wanted to share
Luv
Mrs X
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| by FOUR on January 29, 2012 |
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| by LOVEABLELICKSMS on January 26, 2012 |
Really it is simple we are in this life style for the adventure the fun and the opotion of choice with out judgement. I would think it is unreal question to ask of any one who truly play .
I was with a very sexy male half of a couple who said he want's me to be exclusive to him alone and is not happy with me having other partners. I looked at him and said well what about your wife he said no no we are very happy and secure - I ony want you for me. Wow , that sounds off the wall and that couple is out of and not true Swingers. |
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| by NEAM on January 26, 2012 |
| Like sum of the comments say we don't want to be Exclusive to one couple but also don't want bed notches. Just to meet some couples that we can swing with more than once knowing that we have other regular playmates also. |
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| by PLZHER on January 25, 2012 |
Well you are quite beautiful so I would understand wanting to be selfish and have you to themselves :)
It is odd about being exclusive. We been fortunate to have met some incredible hot and sexy couples in South Florida...and they are quite generous in mixing it up with others! The more the merrier I suppose!
It is their loss and I can't imagine you're not getting plenty of invites to meet! |
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| by PLZHER on January 25, 2012 |
Well you are quite beautiful so I would understand wanting to be selfish and have you to themselves :)
It is odd about being exclusive. We been fortunate to have met some incredible hot and sexy couples in South Florida...and they are quite generous in mixing it up with others! The more the merrier I suppose!
It is their loss and I can't imagine you're not getting plenty of invites to meet! |
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| by DFWFITCPL on January 25, 2012 |
| To each is own in the LS. As long as your having fun and all are comfortable with it, either choice is good. |
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| by MSSEXUALCONDUCT on January 25, 2012 |
I am exclusive with hubby, not sex buddies.
Carrie
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| by COUPLEFORFUN19 on January 25, 2012 |
Oh, and Neam, your smoking hot, how about an "exclusive" weekend at our place? Wink, Wink.
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| by CHAMMY-FL on January 25, 2012 |
This isn't about exclusivity for us. It's about variety. This sort of thing happens. We've had them flake out on us, had them take us off their friends list, and had them act like we weren't in the room at parties despite having fucked us in the not-too-distant past. We never understood the behavior... and at this point, nor do we care. We just move along and add them to our ever-growing bag of nutty stories.
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| by BLOWNBULBS on January 25, 2012 |
| If we wanted exclusive we wouldn't be swinging. |
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| by COUPLEFORFUN19 on January 25, 2012 |
| We enjoy playing with the same couples, but do not want any "exclusive" relationship. We find that our relationships become more sexual after we have swapped with a couple a few times. With our regular playmates we offer meet and immediately swap, strip and fuck! When mixing with couples that we are not that close to it often requires several hours of conversation and flerting, assuming the swap even happens. With our regular playmates we are more open and fell free to just start stripping.......it is just more comfortable. |
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| by NEAM on January 25, 2012 |
@Tonyncarm,
That is exactly are story in this situation as they were are first but not are last and we thought friends. Hey hell yes we would love to meet you two. yum yum
@flintstones
You are so right great to make good friends in and out of the bedroom. But does not mean you stop meeting new ones. Must catch up soon guys for that promised drink! |
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| by PEMCPL4FUN on January 25, 2012 |
We have seen couples that are exclusive, and usually this is because they don't like using condoms and would rather be with one or two other couples that have been tested and they only swing with them. However I can't see where an exclusive relationship with another couple being soft swing would be a plus in the lifestyle?
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| by TONYNCARM on January 25, 2012 |
When we started out, we really liked a couple and had a bit of an exclusive thing for a few months. It wasn't stated as such, but it just turned out that way. As we get used to things, they broke it off and hooked up with another couple exclusively. We were a bit shocked that they "dumped us", but moved on quickly.
We realized that, although it can be fun to be exclusive for a time, it's not always a good thing. We do like to be "friends" with whomever we like, but it doesn't mean that sexual things will happen with them every time. Indeed, for us, it's good to have a wide range of friends that may, or may not, be a couple that we could go for at any moment. And, we think that we have a few of those now.
But, we're glad to have more. How about you two? <wink, wink>
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| by THEFLINTSTONES2 on January 25, 2012 |
| Takes all sorts but can't see the point of being on sites like these if that's what they are after ? It's good to make sexy new friends to socialise and have fun with . don't think we would want to be exclusive to anyone , we like to have fun together and sometimes it's with regular friends aNd other times it's with sexy new friends . It is all just a naughty extension to our already great sex together x |
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