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       Posted by WHYNOTBITE Posted February 1, 2012 View Comments 9      
Excuses for family and friends
Looking for some ideas on alibis for what we are upto when doing lifestyle activities. For instance for an upcoming trip to Desire we need to come up with which resort did we go to, where are the pictures etc. What do you folks typically do?

by CHAMMY-FL on February 3, 2012
It's rarely a problem now. With our cell phones, family has direct access to us 24/7, they just don't question much since they can pick up a phone and call at any time. We've always managed a clever answer when necessary, simply leaving out certain tidbits. Our vacations are "resorts", we leave out the nudist part. When we head out-of-town for a party, it's "to visit friends", we just leave out the "with benefits" part. They know where we're going, they just don't know the whole "why" part of the story.

by LORDLUCAN on February 3, 2012
I tell the truth, but just miss out one key detail.

So if I'm off to see a couple I just say I'm to meet friends for dinner and when I go to a club or party I say that, but leave out that it's a sex club.  Telling a half truth is much easier than lying

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by VOODOOWOMAN on February 3, 2012
Tell the truth just miss out the swinging bit...you never get caught out if you tell the truth....
We tell our friends and family that we go clubbing, we do go clubbing its just a swingers club....

And when we go to a 'Swingers resort' we tell them its an Adult resort like 'Sandles'....No Kids..!!...it works and they dont ask any more...


by PEMCPL4FUN on February 3, 2012
We have been going through this for years!!! "We lie" and have gotten busted, but just laugh it off, I think by now most family and friends don't drill us on where we go and what we do..Thank God! We suck at lying!!

by WHYNOTBITE on February 2, 2012
Thank you BETHRYAN, appreciated. Didnt know about the vanilla resort number.

@SEXYJENNI: Apologies for lacking common sense, half the people have to have IQ below 100 for the median to be that. You sound irritated, please excuse if my blog contributed to your feeling miserable today. Was not my intention.

by SEXYJENNI on February 2, 2012
You can't figure this out on your own??? Come on. Another daily "lack of common sense blog of the day". 

by BETHRYAN on February 2, 2012
Have been to Desire twice and learnt early on that they have a 'vanilla' phone number and resort name.  You can give that to family and they will answer it discretely and take messages.

Maybe a safe yet honest approach!  Have fun its a fab place

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