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       Posted by DARKCAVERNMAN Posted October 18, 2011 View Comments 1      
Gang Bang 101 - A Guide to Doing Your First Gang Bang Part 1

Gang Bang 101 - A Guide to Doing Your First Gang Bang

Part 1 

A great many women have a fantasy of being the center in a gang bang - an event where several people are fucking one person simultaneously or in a train. And though many have this on their sexual “bucket list,” very few actually go through with it (for a variety of reasons). 

Those who do, find themselves facing a daunting task. Gang bangs are rarely spontaneous events, save for the occasional bang that happens in a swinger environment, and the amount of time and effort that goes into ensuring a successful, rewarding gang bang can be quite extensive if done correctly. It is therefore important that you understand all of the necessary measures you need to take to ensure your safety and to make it a good experience for all concerned. Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience. 

This guide is intended to be a brief “how to” for the gang bang newbie. You could literally write a book on all of the specifics about how to plan and conduct a bang, but this is designed to provide you with a basic outline of issues and concepts you’ll need to consider as you give thought to planning (or participating in) your first. 

Note that a gang bang can involve any combination of genders, though they are most often organized as several men fucking one woman. For the purposes of simplicity, and so I don’t have to expend massive amounts of time and effort ensuring every sentence is gender combination-neutral, this guide is written with a “female center being used by men” construct in mind. 

Note that this is a fairly lengthy post, and is targeted toward those wanting to be the center in their first gang bang. The subject matter is such that this is necessary to ensure everything has been covered, however.
 

Terminology

So we’re all operating from a common framework, let’s define the terms we’ll be using. 

Gang Bang: A gang bang is a sex session where four or more people fuck one person known as a center (or “guest of honor”). This is usually four+ males fucking a female, but it could involve any gender combination. It is also possible to have multiple guests of honor in a single gang bang event as well.

Center, or “Guest of Honor”: The center in a gang bang is the person who’s being fucked by the other participants (known as bangers).

Bangers: These are the people fucking the center(s).


Gang Bang Coordinator/Host: The Gang Bang Coordinator/Host is a person who sets up the bang and makes all of the logistical arrangements. S/he can be one and the same with any other positions (including the center). Generally, it’s a good idea to have someone other than the center do all of the logistical and preparatory work so she can concentrate on enjoying the experience, however.

Monitor: The Monitor is a non-participant whose role is to keep an eye on the center and the participants to ensure that all of the rules and safety precautions are being followed, largely for the personal safety of the center. The Monitor can be one and the same as the Coordinator.

Fluffers: People (usually women) who work to keep the participants in an aroused state when they’re not actively engaging with the center. In a GB where you have more than 5 men working with one center, the others will not be engaged with the center, and will usually require/desire some assistance in maintaining an erection. Though Viagra and other performance enhancers have alleviated the need for these in some cases, they’re still nice to have. They may also be responsible for dispensing lube, condoms, and other supplies during the event itself.

Is this something you want to do?

The decision to participate in a gang bang should not be taken lightly; you need to make sure you’re in the right mental state to get the most out of it. Gang bangs are typically high-energy, rougher, more athletically oriented sexual events, usually much more so than the standard single-partnered or threesome sex. 

There are a variety of reasons why one might enjoy being in a gang bang, including, being the center of attention. It’s an awesome feeling to be lost in a sea of other people using you for their sexual pleasure.


The Challenge

Some people like to challenge themselves sexually and a gang bang is the ultimate challenge most people will ever face.

Exploring Your Slutty Side. Group sex is a big taboo in our society, so many people get a rush from indulging in a sex act that is seen as the ultimate in slutty acts.

If you’re overly concerned that people are going to think you’re a slut (if you consider that a negative), or if you’re not 100% emotionally confident with your decision to engage in a gang bang, you should hold off until those are no longer issues. You don’t want this to be a bad experience for you or the other participants. 

If you’re unsure about whether or not a gang bang is something you wish to do, one option you may wish to consider is serving as a fluffer at someone else’s fuckfest. This will allow you to observe what happens through the actual bang itself and give you a feel for what it’s like. At that point you can make a decision about becoming the guest of honor in your own special event.

 

Your Significant Other

If you have a spouse, life partner, or significant other, you’re obviously going to need to take his/her feelings into consideration. This is NOT something you want to hide from a partner - the after effects and potential ramifications are far too great to do that for most people. 

Some partners will not care (and perhaps might even encourage participation in a bang), but others may have some issues knowing or watching a partner be used by multiple other people; that’s just human nature. You need to discuss your desires with your partner and get him/her on board from the outset. It is essential that the two of you be secure in your relationship and arrive at a mutual understanding of feelings associated with the event. 

In some cases, the partner may wish to participate, either as a banger or monitor. Assuming they’re comfortable with your participation in the gang bang, significant others make excellent monitors since they’re usually rather familiar with you emotionally and physically and are in a better position to notice problems in those areas. 

If you are the partner of a potential guest of honor, be supportive, especially from an emotional standpoint. She’s liable to be very anxious about the event and you should help alleviate some of this by letting her know that you’re behind her and will do what you can to help her through it.


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