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June 19, 2012
Into The Rabbit Hole - The Newbie Chronicles
I recently decided to try this lifestyle of sharing the experience of sex with other people as I had previous experiences a long time into my past that might as well have been identified as a lifestyle experience. So my quest to explore my sexual boundaries started on Friday (6/15) after work as I started to research what it really meant to be a swinger.
My searching, clicking, and reading eventually led me to my first lifestyle club; Eyz Wide Shut. As a single male I figured right away that it would be very difficult for me to experience anything in the way of the lifestyle, but I was determined to find some way to explore that which made me so curious. I called the club to make sure that I would be able to visit.
I dressed according to the clubs dress code and made my way to the club. My intentions for the night was to strictly observe and have fun. I arrived at the club and made my way to the bar and then a table until the opportunity arrose for me to make myself known as a single male new to the scene. I took a chance and it paid off as I won a dance contest and a free year membership to SDC. The night was turning out to be a great success for me as I got to dance with a few beautiful women brave enough to take on a former dancer.
I met a very sexy couple that were also interested in getting to know me as I was to them. I provided my phone number to them in hopes of hearing back from them soon. I left the club elated; I had ventured out on my own with no plans to have a sexual encounter with anyone, let alone a couple, and I instead earned a place as a newbie to SDC, met a few people, and met my first potential couple.
The weekend went by as I had planned. I signed up and received my year membership, continued with more of my search and then left the 'LS' side of me alone to brew and figure out what I wanted out of it all. I still had no idea what it was I really wanted; truly wanted. I was nervous and a bit scared of what I would find.
Sunday I spent at the beach with my son and got a text message from the couple I met at the club and they wanted to see me. I was beside myself and could hardly contain my excitement. I made arrangements to with them, knowing that I did not want to pass up this opportunity as it might be my last.
I met with the couple in Sarasota, had some drinks, and was further invited to their home. I brought a bottle of wine to show that I cared about the invitation and that I was being genuine.
The rest of the night was one of the most exhilarating and pleasurable experiences when I was not trying to analyze the situation and my previous experience paled in comparison to this true 'LS' experience. As I was leaving, the feeling I received was that they would invite me back, which I would readily accept, and I headed home with my head in the clouds as my ideas of what I wanted were coming into focus. I want to experience true pleasure.
And so, I gracefully venture deep into the rabbit hole knowing full well what awaits. Pleasure!
by KNTCNRG on June 20, 2012
Thank you all! I will hopefully have another post this weekend as I have just been invited to my very first party for Friday night. I hope to recount my experience there if I still have the energy... Lol.
by FLORIDACURLS on June 19, 2012
"I was beside myself and could hardly contain my excitement. " - cute :-)
I am curious as to what brought you to want to try the LS? For myself, I came to this arena as a single who was tired of the BS in the dating world, and feelig like the men said whatever they thought you want to hear just to get into your panties. So many were married or attached dn passing as sinle, i figured I rather just know from the start who is with someone and whether it is just for sex. I figured if I was within a swinger arena, there wuold not be such a need to lie on their part and I could have more sex. Thathas not necessarlly been the case , but yes, one can have ore sex in this arena! I see soemone regualry ove rthe last few years that i met on here and we have had many adventures adn I have earned a lot. One surprise is that I seriously question my ability to be polyamorous now. Not sure what will develop. I am not sure how I would like being a the girl in a lifestyle couple lifestyle...not sure there. It is one thing to be the extra and the other to be the primary..
by STONEMANE on June 19, 2012
There have been some posts lately from new SMs frustrated that they cant meet anyone on here. Seems like they can learn something from you. Good post.
by BLOWNBULBS on June 19, 2012
Great blog. Keep the updates coming.
by RENEE6 on June 19, 2012
Very well written, luv your articulation.
Glad your first experience turned out to be a positive one for you!
Always remember your P's & Q's as a SM and you will go the distance in this LS...
if thts your wish)
Hope your adventures and 'SAFE' fun continues
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