Ummm...We're back on the sex = death argument.  Can someone explain to me how you can die from sex...unless, of course, we're talking some old geezer dying of a heart attack from exertion, which doesn't really count; it's the exertion that killed him, not the sex.

So, how does sex kill? 

HIV = nope

Herpes = nope

Syphilis = nope

Gonorrhea = nope

Chlamydia = nope

HPV = nope

Hep C = nope

Hep B = nope

Hep A = nope

Bacterial infection = nope

Pregnancy = nope

Yeast Infection = nope

Sure, some of these, in extreme cases, and left untreated could kill ya, but, so can the flu...

None of these are too pleasant, I think everyone would agree; but, let's not get carried away with the death threats...

Just here to debunk the death part...And after that way-to-long dissertation...Sweet is still touting the “die” word...Hmmmmm...

And I'm not advocating anything but the facts...I don't think everybody "needs" no do anything.  I think adults should be able to make there own decisions.  Protect yourself and you'll be fine.  Those who choose riskier behavior do so by choice...

Some are here go to the point of insulting other for their personal choices, often times, based on being misinformed or simply wrong all together.  It's like the extreme alpine skier calling the skydiver a moron for jumping out of an airplane. 

Risks, as in all things, should be calculated based on logic, factual information, reason, and common sense.  For some situations, the good outweighs the bad and the decision is made based on that alone which is fine, so long as the one deciding accepts the consequences with no regrets. 

How many times have we all climbed behind the wheel after having too many drinks or glasses of wine at dinner?  We do so based on our own evaluation of our own "drunkenness", ability to drive while intoxicated, and hoping like hell we don't get stopped.  In the end, it's still a roll of the dice, only in this case, you affect the lives of all the other drivers around you. 

I don't see any one preaching about DUI's on here and last I checked, every swing party I've been to has had plenty of alcohol being served.

The bottom , it's not necessary to get caught up in what others are doing...worry about your own ass (literally) and chances are you'll be lucky enough to live out your last days in the nursing home at the ripe old age of 100 shitting on yourself with applesauce on your chin...

In the end, the worms are gonna eat your ass anyway...

Hasn't this "wear a condom or you will die" been preached into the ground on here already?  It's actually not even true as there are very few scenarios where fucking will lead to death; unless of course you're into some extreme bondage shit or asphyxiation or you're just too old to be fucking like a teenager and keel over of a heart attack i.e. coitus-heartattackus!

Yes you can get Hep C which trashes your liver and could possible kill you but most people do not die from Hep C, A, or B.  Syphilis is taken care of with one holy shit it hurts shot of penicillin and herpes is pretty embarrassing but very controllable.  HIV doesn't kill ya and doesn't cause AIDS in everyone who is infected even without treatment.  Some HIV patients just never get sick.  With early detection and treatment, most who are HIV+ will never acquire AIDS and will most likely die of old age (whatever the fuck that is). 

Truth is, they all suk but ain't none of them gonna kill ya. 

Scare tactics are fine but tell people the truth and let them make their own decisions.  It's like telling little Billy to stop jerkin' off or he will go blind.  Well, Billy is still yankin' it at 45 and can see just fine...

Also, in Sweden they have already done studies to show that HIV+ individuals cannot pass it on to their HIV- partners although this study has not yet been accepted in the USA.  The condom companies would never let that happen anyway.

For those who like to gamble, (although the stakes here are pretty high) your odds of HIV infection from unprotected sex with someone who is HIV+ is about 1 in 1000.  A random act where the status is unknown jumps to about 1 in 200,000.  Yes all you Einsteins out there, you can be infected on the first time equally as probable as the last yet even statisticians argue that any event with odds greater than 1 in 8000 will never occur...but...people win the lotto everyday!

And BTW...get tested if you are in a high risk lifestyle...it's easy...and it's free!  Don't you at least want to know???

Ummm...considering the situation with the economy and unemployment, if it takes $$$ for a guy to show you a good time, you might be waiting a while. 

I'm also not sure why a friend or friend w/ benefits would expect someone to pay their way anyway...isn't that what marriage and/or relationships are for? 

If the sex is mutually satisfying between two people that have no emotional commitments, why would there be any other expectations from either person?  Both would seem to benefit equally.  Not to be insensitive but men typically "wine and dine" women who they are emotionally attached to or ones they haven't fucked yet but want to.  Typically she would get a fun night out on the town and he would get some pussy at the end of the night and everyone goes home happy.

It's been a while since I was in college and booty calls were common but I remember those 2 o'clock in the morning phone calls and late night rendezvous.  There were never any strings attached and it was all about the sex for both parties.  I presume that is the case between singles on a site such as this.  Guys looking for girls to wine and dine would be more inc d to look on match.com and not a sex site.  Likewise, girls looking for more serious, intimate encounters with strings attached such as: dinner, clubbing, dancing, movies, etc., are probably not going to find that on a sex site.

In South Florida where the gold diggers are as common as cafe con leche, I disagree with anyone (male or female) who feels they are deserving of anything material, I don't care how good the pussy (or dick) is.  Just browsing through some of the profiles on this site, it is obvious that gold diggers and sugar daddies are very common in the lifestyle.  I can't really blame the guy because if the only way he can get a hot chick is by paying for it, more power to him.  I don't even have a problem with the gold diggers taking the cash...It's the sense of "entitlement" that I have a problem with.  

It seems that many women want equality in most areas yet they still want to be treated differently when it is to their benefit.  If as a member on this site, you are looking for more than sex, you'll probably end up disappointed as it seems is the case here.  Not that it isn't understandable, just maybe unwarranted.

I'm not sure who made the rule that the guy always pays.  Quite possibly it was initiated by a woman.  Fortunately for me, when I met my wife we we're both flat ass broke and it didn't seem to matter.  On our second date she had to help push start my Geo as I couldn't afford a new starter at the time (in high heels of course).

Just my opinion...I don't imagine too many will agree w/ me...