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       Posted by PRETTYDELICIOUS Posted July 13, 2012 View Comments 18      
Single Men - Is a GB not a Group?
I have heard single men say they are 'group' friendly however won't come if it's a gang-bang!?

When I ask them why 'group friendly' if they won't do a GB, it's a group and they reply "I do couples and clubs but no GB's, just not my thing".

So I ask the Single men as a whole instead of individually : What is the difference between a GROUP of single men with one woman, couples and a few single men, you with a couple only or a swinger club?

Is a GB not considered a Group? To me a group is a group, but that's just me I guess......






by BANANAMAN32 on August 17, 2012
well of course if you've suffered from false advertising Pretty, then that just is shit. Theres prob a high percentage of guys out there who say theyre into GB just so they can turn up and fuck a girl...afterall, a GB means guaranteed sex for a guy, all he has to do is say he's experienced at GBs blah blah blah. Im amazed at the SDC group ones though, i would have thought they'd have been proper ones, with genuine guys who are verified by full pics showing size and previous experience etc. You poor poor girl...all hose holes and nobody to fill em ;)

by SPICYINSRQ on August 14, 2012
 Hello PrettyD, I have participated in both GBangs and with multiple couples. I do feel that they are both considered groups. I have also spoken with other single males in the lifestyle who prefer only playing with couples. And the reason is that there are too many guys and they feel they are competeting. What is the difference? Aside from the fact that in a GB there are a bunch of guys and in a couples-bang there can be a bunch of guys and girls on one woman as well.
Just saying....

by PRETTYDELICIOUS on August 14, 2012
Trust I have even went to a proclaimed SDC Gangbang Group and given them WAY TOO MANY chances and still NO GB - NO DP - NO ANAL etc..... It's like the men are SCARED of a woman who can actually TAKE IT they prefer mediocre women who think 6" is a BIG DICK !

I relied on validations from COUPLES and have been COMPLETELY LET DOWN by the gb group of men who claim to be magnums yet only ONE out of 12 of their men were of MAGNUM size yet he still wore a Tuxedo condom didn't NEED a MAGNUM! I hate the false representation of validations on SINGLE MEN from COUPLES - it seems the single men who are with COUPLES ONLY are NEVER CAPABLE of handling me and they are SELDOM bigger then 7" which is NOT a BBC it's an ABC (average black cock) yet because a WIFE told them they are a BBC they advertise as such (FALSE ADVERTISING AT IT'S FINEST- if a man isn't willing to take a pix with a ruler and his HARD DICK then he is LYING about the size of it)

I get tired of women married to LIL DICK boring sexual partners telling MEDIOCRE AT BEST single black men that they are THE SHIT when they barely qualify to take their clothes off! IJS the wives make it impossible to rely on their validations testimonials or opinions because they don't know what a REAL GOOD LAY actually is. By the validations of the TX COUPLES they have NO CLUE as to what REAL QUALITY IS because so far I have only met ONE GUY from here worth the effort (and he WASN'T one the common Black men who have circulated among the Plastic Surgery CLIQUE GROUP OF Dallas Area couples  - Thank God there are some men left with PRIDE). The rest of the single men thus far, and I have met at least 20 men from SDC in all, have been A JOKE - ALL TALK NO ACTION or ALL TALK and ONE SHOT WONDERS! WTF is a night of sex when the man can only cum ONE TIME? Clearly not used to a SINGLE WOMAN we need more then just a POLE 4 our HOLE and we need it more then just ONCE - it's a night of DISAPPOINTMENT is what it is and so far has been my experience of SDC MEN - DISAPPOINTMENT 98% of the time.  They can't fuck, they are boring in convo and in bed (no special skills), they are always LATE, if they show up at all, they have SMALL dicks claiming to be MAGNUM men, they are over weight claiming to be athletic, they don't last 5min yet ALL their validations say WHOO WHEE you won't be DISAPPOINTED (all from COUPLES - not one single woman validation- go figure!!)

You SINGLE MEN are too used to WIVES to be capable of HANDLING A REAL SINGLE WOMAN who doesn't just LIE THERE and who is in this lifestyle to PLEASE HERSELF not her pathetic husband who can't please her!   A woman who is NOT submissive and WEAK!    A woman who can TAKE DICK in all 3 holes and always FUCKS BACK .............Where are the REAL SINGLE BLACK MEN who can handle that kind of WOMAN ??? Clearly NOT ON SDC they all want MEDIOCRE WIVES who won't challenge them so they feel POWERFUL



by BANANAMAN32 on August 14, 2012
Pretty, i think the difference is that some guys will say they love the GB scenario, but in reality, they only love the IDEA of of the gb scenario. In the few DP's ive been involved in, the other guy going soft has happened a few times, i can only assume its the proximity to another cock thats done it. Also, its only ever happened to the guy underneath so maybe theres something in that? Frankly, i cant understand how, for example in your situation, you would request air-tight and STILL its not being done for you...id suggest maybe you need to vet the guys better beforehand but you certainly dont need my advice, and i guess you can never really judge how someone is going to act until the fun begins. Great blog by the way...Jim :)

by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 15, 2012
@ ItalySwing thank you for your comments.

I get it because I love a group of people but very selective on which people those would be.... not everyone is sexy to me not every BODY should be naked and NOT all people CAN FUCK to save their lives LOL

I think they should either make a GB category on these sites or SINGLE MEN need to be MORE SPECIFIC and STATE on their profiles GB or NO GB

by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 15, 2012
Exactly NL225E that would be the BEST scenario !  lol

thanks for the interaction and comments

by NL225E on July 14, 2012
agreed, in your case, it seems an over, under and infront, would suit  you just fine but like you said, finding the right men willing to help you achieve it is rare.  best of luch though. 


by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 14, 2012
@ NL225E I have had the gents together but they either
1. Don't stay hard (claimed they were a GB Group also here on SDC)
2. Hard but rather jerk off then make me AIRTIGHT which has been a VERBAL REQUEST a few times and still not achieved (again did this with a specific SDC GB Group and they NEVER did 3 on 1 or dp or anything that I ASKED FOR)
3. Are afraid of touching balls so won't do DP what is a GB if one of the holes is empty?
4. They didn't even do ANAL (again the SDC GB Group just stood around)

I don't like it when men stand around and the way I look at it is I have 3 holes and if you came to a GROUP even if there were more then ONE woman chances are a woman is going to want DP so you need to be 'BALL FRIENDLY' with men to be able to do that and LOTS OF MEN ARE NOT.

Lots of MEN in this lifestyle think a GROUP is them with a couple.....NOT ! that is not a group that is cuckold - fuck while I watch stuff.

Again I just think SINGLE MEN should be more specific on their profiles as to WHAT TYPE of GROUP is their type of Group so as to not MISLEAD the women on these sites. Because a lot of men say GROUP friendly and only mean they will be with a COUPLE that is a 3some NOT A GROUP fellas....just so ya know ;-)




by NL225E on July 14, 2012
 if you're the type of person that just wants a pump and go, then a gangbang is perfect. if you want to take time and explore a woman and take all she can give you, then you're not going to want to be part of a gang bang.   

at a party, why not get a few guys together and see if they can facilitate your request.  i just feel that more than 3 guys gets a bit crowded. 


by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 14, 2012
@ PolitenessMan funny 'assembly '  

I stopped trying to arrange gang bangs a while ago...however once i stopped and started looking more towards women and couples the more men show up!  yet they are not the GB friendly type all the time... i have had some very fun evening with the select gentlemen I've shared them with and some not so great but made the best of what I had 

I realize it's not for everyone and I get a lot of men like more intimacy or when in a group more females to look at and enjoy, that is understandable.

by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 14, 2012
@ NL225E I have heard that a couple times now that MEN act a fool and that's why. hmmm I haven't had any issues with the men acting fools yet Hopefully I don't. A GB though is still a GROUP of men there is just one woman ;-)

@ AustinXMan I agree with the VIBE thing too. That's why when we host a party we try to do the 1-2 hours in the beginning of vibing instead of just walking in and getting naked, but once the clothes come off then just JUMP IN.

@ Meat2 That's what I think....but wanted men's opinions on it

@ Jaxx a GROUP by definition is more then 4 people I believe because 3 is a 3some and yes there is a 4some but that is a GROUP. I do not believe it has ever been specific to having more then ONE female. One female being satisfied by a GROUP of men in a GB is still a GROUP OF PEOPLE ;-)


Thank you all for your input and comments. I think SINGLE MEN should be more specific on their profiles and STATE NO GB's if that is REALLY NOT YOUR THING or SITES should put a category pick 'what you're looking for' GB's separate from GROUPS since many do not consider a woman with 3 or more men a GROUP (by all definition Webster's and all it most certainly is a group lol ijs). It is misleading to a woman like myself who enjoys a GROUP of both men and mixed with other women but all in all a GROUP of people around me. I have satisfied 5 men with no one complaining or standing around very long, after all I have 3 holes and 2 hands who needs to be BORED unless they are BOARD STIFF !

I think that the 'right people' can make any party work no matter one or ten females. That's really the purpose of my blog is to get the feel for the men so I have the RIGHT PEOPLE at the parties. Women in this lifestyle are very FLAKY and finding Interracial Couples in this lifestyle that actually meet COUPLES not just Single Females is very hard also! I get tons of requests from couples for JUST ME lol....


Your comments were very helpful thank you again!


by JAXX on July 14, 2012
Not being all that experienced, I always thought that "group friendly" meant just that...a group with no one person as the focal point. A "gang bang" has but one recipient.


Of course that's just my opinion...I could be wrong

by MEAT2 on July 14, 2012
No difference at all....its all good group sex

by AUSTINXMAN on July 14, 2012
Just my 2 cents for what that's worth(about 2 cents), but I have been in several over the years. I have found if the group of guys was well behaved and well vetted for lack of a better word by the host(s) then they are a lot of fun. If its just a random group or everyone's not laid back, there always seems to be some dimwit that wants o be there alpha dog ( usually more dog). These types are never the sort I would want in any kind of leadership role by he way. But you are correct, they should be group fun.

by NL225E on July 14, 2012

I can only speak for myself but i do not enjoy GB's as a pack mentality will kick in and men just go dumb and do stupid things.  I like a group atmosphere sphere as there is normally more than one or two ladies and the vibe is a little more relaxed and not that rush feeling of waiting your turn to be next in . 


by PRETTYDELICIOUS on July 13, 2012
are there ANY SINGLE MEN HERE................ or do they not answer blogs ?


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