Thank you to all those that have blogged their interest in our "Swing Poker nights". SDC is currently building us a community and we will email you as soon as it is complete. The community will povide a forum for not only the games we host but for anyone else that needs a place to advertise for a "Swing Poker" game in their area.

Wife and I have been in the lifestyle for 10 years and remember well our newbie times. We are still shy at heart and not real good at approaching others when we go to swing clubs. We also find ourselves a lilttle skittish when we get approached on the swing websites because we feel like the only purpose is to end the night swinging Of course we understand that it is the purpose of the site but it never really solves for the problem of mood. How do you plan for how you're going to feel several days before? Or how ou handle it when a couple wants you but you don't feel the same. This is why we created "Swing Poker".

We developed the rules of "Swing Poker" to create a no pressure environment that was fun and sexy but also allowed anyone not finding themselves in the mood a chance to still be part of the fun. When we thought up this version of strip poker we didn't only do it for those that didn't want to create a lame excuse when they were not feeling sexy, but also for those couples that like to get better acquinted or where the desired participation is not equal.

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