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June 25, 2012
What is your success rate in the lifestyle ????
We have been in the lifestyle 10 yrs living in SFLA, we frequent MV,TRAP,ROOFTOP and occassional
parties. One thing has been constant throughout is we never expect that we are going to meet anyone to
have sex with when we go out. If we do great, but if not we always have a great time.
Other things have been a constant throughout such as....
1-These websites are dominated mostly by men ,sometimes I think its just a bunch of guys with their
girls pictures on it,emailing eachother back and forth.How many ladies get on the site regularly?
2-Endless flow of emails back and forth only to meet a very small percentage of people u communicate
with.How many true friends have u made in the lifestyle???
3-Lot of rookies show up when u do meet, where the man is into it and the woman is not, or they pull the ripcord when things get heated.
4-Also have seen many couples that go to a club and make no effort in talking to anyone just waiting
to be approached. Remember you have to have fun with people before u have sex....
Its easy just say hi....
5-People who are unjustifiably picky. The people trying to meet u are not supermodels, but quess what neither are you....
Sometimes the no so good lookin are the biggest freaks in the bed.
by BADBOY35 on June 26, 2012
Mrs Mojo is stunning so u guys should have a 100% success rate!!!!!!
You'd be surprised. It's hard enough to get two people to like each other. It is even worse to get 4 to do it.
The times I have been in LS as a couple, my gf and I always made sure we both liked the other couple fully before moving on. The female half could be gorgeous but if the male half didn't appeal to my gf's tastes, she wasn't gonna take one for the team and the same happened to me on occcasions when it was the other way around and I didn't feel the chemistry flowing with the other wife and yet my gf wanted to play with him.
by BRAZH on June 25, 2012
"These websites are dominated mostly by men ,sometimes I think its just a bunch of guys with their girls pictures on it,emailing eachother back and forth.How many ladies get on the site regularly?"
Most of the time we are on the site together
by SPONGEWORTHY on June 25, 2012
Before we met, we both went on 2 other dates and decided that we didn't want to bother dating anyone unless they were exactly what we were looking for. We met and are still together 21 year later.
For us, the lifestyle is no different. Since we already have a good thing going and are only in the lifestyle for a little added excitement, we are not going to compromise our selection process just to get laid - we can already get laid any time we choose! Trying to find couples our age who are in shape and both attractive in our area is like finding a needle in a haystack!
Granted, we rarely hookup with other couples and if we do it is never from a scheduled meeting from a lifestyle site. We find that trying to email and set up a meeting with someone is normally a waste of time. Either they don't show up, they don't look like their photos or they are creepy. Most of the time, we only end up playing with other couples while on vacation at lifestyle resorts. Parties don't work very well for us because normally the 1 other couple that we are both attracted to is with a circle of friends and we don't really like the group thing for obvious reasons.
by PGXCOUPLE on June 25, 2012
We all have different strategies. Some look to fuck as much as they can and they will try to fuck everything that moves. Others are highly selective because there is more to the lifestyle than just sex, and they want to make sure there is a good possibility of compatibility before they meet and go out with others.
For us, it is a mixture of both. We have sexual fantasies that may or may not include beautiful people, or people with special characteristics. For example, I (Mrs. PGX) had a fantasy about having rough sex with a much younger guy, preferably someone very athletic - did it, enjoyed it, next fantasy, so we go on to select the people we like for our fantasies.
We invite others into our fantasies and plans but we don't always get positive responses, which is something we expect. Like other things in life, some fantasies may become a reality and others won't, but you always need to have your feet on the ground. We have seen some of the things you describe above, but again everyone is different, don't expect everyone to act the way you do.
by SEXYJENNI on June 25, 2012
Success rate is high.
by EUROMEXCOUPLE on June 25, 2012
If you see a couple at a club that might just be waiting to be approached, and you find them attractive, why not approach them?
For us this is a game of visualization, so if we do not find the other couple to be visually attractive for both of us, in a manner similar to us, we would not approach them. We are not looking for freaks in the bed, nor are we looking for long term friends in this lifestyle so we would not reduce our expectations just to get laid. We are looking for sexual diversion with other attractive couples. If we repeat with them, that would be great, if not, its not an issue.
We go to the clubs whenever in south Florida, and the
couples we both find attractive are already in small cliques, with no apparent interest in expanding their group. If we recognize their faces on SDC, and send them a note of interest, and we get no response, pretty much says move on, so we do.
But to each their own.
by BADBOY35 on June 25, 2012
Well Gosh SWT, and here I was expecting sex with you when we meet. There go all my hopes LOL.
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