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       Posted by KITCATRAY Posted December 31, 2011 View Comments 17      
Why do women like myself fantasize about big black cocks
i've never had the pleasure of being pleased sexually by a huge black cock. for the last year or so that has become my number one fantasy...a huge black cock being shoved up my pussy or asshole. ok, id really like to have two at once in each of my holes. we've even talked about two in the same hole at once. oops, im getting wet just thinking about it. my husband would love to watch as this fantasy is one day fulfilled. any comments?? any of you girls ever been pleased by magnumbbcs?? that looks like FUN!!!!

by THEJOYOFSEX on January 2, 2012

@FORNICATOR: Hello.

I agree. Darker skinned is not the same as being black. Personally, I don't read race or racism into SDC member comments about BBCs.

Don't look now, but you're not black, my friend. Yes, your race may be black, but your skin tone isn't in my opinion. Black people, as far as skin tone goes, are far and few between in Los Angeles. A very large percentage have Anglo blood mixed in somewhere down the , which resulted a wide range of beautiful dark skin tones. Further, there are some Black (race-wise) Americans that are lighter skinned than I.

As far as my preference to have a much darker skin tone to be what I perceive as more attractive, I do not associate it with the "Black" race. As there are many dark skinned races that have what I consider to be a more attractive skin tone than mine e.g., Mexican, Indian, Cuban, Colombian, etc.

BTW, I haven't read your other blog(s) so I'm not sure what you're referring to. Please enlighten.

Lastly, my perspective will always be limited as I'll probably never be a black man and therefore could never interpret such situations from your perspective. Unfortunately, your point of view has the converse limitation.

Thanks.

 


by MTANDERSON on January 2, 2012
First, the lifestyle is all about variety. My wife and I feel priviledged to have friends with benefits of different races that we simply adore. I have met many women who enjoy their time with my "average" equipment because they are more comfortable with anal and oral sex. Sometimes they just like to play with a smaller one. I also know black women who enjoy being with a white guy from time time-to-time. Race is never the issue with us, it's all about respecting, loving and celebrating our differences. There should be no place for racism, jealousy or envy in the lifestyle.

Chocolate, vanilla, strawberry, whatever flavor you prefer, it's all good. Vive le difference!

by SHASH on January 2, 2012
hi guys this is also a fantasy of ours we have been thinking about this for quite a while and like the idea .it s just a case of finding the right situation for it to happen

by THEJOYOFSEX on January 2, 2012

@ MRFORNICATOR:


To answer your question: Yes, it's not just about having a big dick; and, no, I would not choose to be a black man regardless of dick size. Well, how big are we talkin'?


Have you ever heard a woman say, “I prefer tall, pasty white and handsome.”? No. Women prefer tall, dark and handsome. No surprise there. And if you add a big cock to that formula you're golden, my friend. I'd be happy to be white and carrying a big stick. However, in order to maximize my sex appeal I'd definitely choose to be darker skinned.


And, as grotesquely sad as it is to say, racism is alive and well in the U.S. and many other parts of the world. As long as there are ignorant people with little to no self esteem who blame the rest of the world for their perceived bad lot in life it will remain prevalent. Therefore, in order to take the easier path, because I'm a lazy fuck, I would not choose to be a black man in America.


Thanks for your response.


by THEJOYOFSEX on January 1, 2012
@MRFORNICATOR:

I get what you're saying.

Curious to know: Have you EVER referred to yourself as a BBC in any of your lifestyle correspondence? On this side of the pond it's quite common.

Without marginalizing your point of degradation associated with the term, I wake up every day wishing I could be a BBC...wait...well...you know what I mean.

Maybe tomorrow...

by LOVEABLELICKSMS on December 31, 2011
 My dear it is The Dark Erotic Fantasy that has taken over the sexual hunger you have . MagnumBBC is a great guy very fun and surley can make that come true with quality very selected gentlemen who can repsect its your first expereince. Nothing will be hotter for you if it ls already making you wet to think about it . Really men are men Black or White what ever some have it  in them to really please a women some are just there for the free ride. Magnum and Dark Cavern real players club have everything you may need, can answer any questions you may have  and take the time to find the right fit if ya know what I mean. LOL .. Some times this monster tool can be overwhelming we see it all the time . So enjoy your fantasy , enjoy what makes you a women :).

by ADVENTUROUSDUO on December 31, 2011
I have enjoyed fun with a black guy and my hubby. It was fun.

by 3EXPRESSION1 on December 31, 2011
I'm sure when you are ready to make the fantasy a reality, you wil have plenty of offers for 1on1, 3somes and DP in the same hole. x

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