| by FOUR on April 20, 2012 |
| GG49 .... ofcourse women in their 40's are the best. Men know that. Just try to convince women about it. |
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| by GG49 on April 19, 2012 |
| Funny four, but I disagree - women in their 40's are the best - hot looking and (generally) finally out of the 9th grade competition with other girls and actually into men :) |
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| by FOUR on April 19, 2012 |
| Women's geography Between the ages of 15 - 18 a woman is like China or Iran. Developing at a sizzling rate with a lot of potential but as yet still not free or open. Between the ages of 18 - 21 a woman is like Africa or Australia. She is half discovered, half wild and naturally beautiful with bushland around the fertile deltas. Between the ages of 21 - 30 a woman is like America or Japan. Completely discovered, very well developed and open to trade especially with countries with cash or cars. Between the ages of 30 - 35, she is like India or Spain. Very hot, relaxed and convinced of its own beauty. Between the ages of 35 - 40 a woman is like France or Argentina. She may have been half destroyed during the war but can still be a warm and desirable place to visit. Between the ages of 40 - 50 she is like Yugoslavia or Iraq. She lost the war and is haunted by past mistakes. Massive reconstruction is now necessary. Between the ages of 50 - 60 she is like Russia or Canada. Very wide, quiet and the borders are practically unpatrolled but the frigid climate keeps people away. Between the ages of 60 - 70 a woman is like England or Mongolia. With a glorious and all conquering past but alas no future. After 70, they become Afghanistan. Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there. |
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| by FOUR on April 14, 2012 |
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| by FOUR on April 12, 2012 |
Getting older is what some women consider a curse. Aging puts us closer to death for one thing. It also adds s and wrinkles to our faces and we don't really care for that look. We prefer that our skin stay smooth and flawless until the day that we die. Some women are desperate to hide their real age because they feel that aging is a curse. Little do they know what a gift it truly is. Our society is caught up in the way we look. There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself. Brushing your hair and taking a bath are on top of the list. There does come a point that it screams of the ridiculous though. Women shouldn't feel the need to hide the wrinkles on their faces that were created in the process of life. We all get older and yes, we all get wrinkles and blemishes that show that age. We want to live up to an image on the television screen. We don't pay attention to the things that those people do to stay looking younger than their real age. Surgery is one of those ways and it is extreme. It is a dangerous process that could make us look worse than when we went under the knife. After a while, those surgeries and face creams no longer do the trick. At some point, we have to face the reality that we are getting older. It isn't a pleasant day for most people. That moment that you look in the mirror and see that youth has been replaced by wrinkles is a real shocker. We then desperately try to get back what we lost along the way. We just aren't sure how to do it. We shouldn't be so hung up on our appearance that we take away what makes us who we are. The wrinkles and blemishes that come along because of age are signs of a life well lived. They are a sign that we are more knowledgeable about life. Wisdom is a good thing and showing that wisdom through our appearance shouldn't be something we have to be ashamed of. It is only natural that women respond to the overwhelming concentration on appearances in our society. It is a shame that society has put so much value on smooth skin rather than the wisdom in the wrinkles. It is true that we don't like to look in the mirror and see those changes about ourselves. However, there comes a time that you should stop worrying so much about showing your real age. Showing your real age should be something you take pride in rather than being embarrassed by it. Think about how you feel about your grandparents. Would you want them to change their appearance because they don't look young enough any more? Of course you wouldn't. You recognize that aging is a part of the process and it looks good on them. Why can't it look good on you as well?
Written by Dawn Hawkins.
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| by HOT4MYHUNNY on April 11, 2012 |
Champagne
GOD DAMN GIRL YOUR HOOOOTTTTTT. Nice pic
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| by MAXIMUSFL on April 11, 2012 |
Nothing to hide,i love my late 30's,and i will love my 40's even more.
Always kept myself away from cigaretes,booze and drugs!!
Happy to be an 80's child,and growing up with 80's values. |
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| by EUROMEXCOUPLE on April 11, 2012 |
Age? Sort of important, but not as much as some people suggest. What is important is how you look in person. We have seen women that really are 40, but look like they are over 50, and women 50 that look like they are 40. If a truly 40 year old woman look like life mistreated her, its likely is not going to excite you. But then if a truly 50 year old woman looks like a million, who cares about her age?
When I met my Mrs, I actually asked to see her passport because I thought she lied about her age and was YOUNGER than she told me. I felt like an idiot, learned a lot that day. Too bad we can not package and sell her genes.
How you look, how you act, and how you take care of yourself, is more important than how old you are.
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| by FOUR on March 24, 2012 |
NEWNREADY you are right.
Age vs Weight ..... better ask for the age |
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| by NEWNREADY on March 24, 2012 |
SENSSHUUS, you are absolutely right... You should NEVER ask a lady her age. Even worse, in my oppinion, is asking her weight. I'd be interested in knowing how many pounds people (not just ladies) shave off their weight on their profile stats... Hmmmm.
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| by FOUR on March 24, 2012 |
Women & Age1.
The best years of her life were
the ten years between 29 and 30.
2.
She is celebrating the 10th
anniversary of her 39th birthday.
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40 has been the most difficult
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| by FOUR on March 5, 2012 |
SENSHUUS we agree with you. Hot is hot no matter what.
If any MRS is 25, 35 or 45 .. it makes no difference to us.
As long as she looks hot we are fine.
Mind you, we would prefer if she was 45 than 25.
Here we are not asking ladies how old they are.
We are asking how many years they hide. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view
(We are polite, aren't we? hehehehe).
We just want ppl to feel free to vote. |
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| by FOUR on March 5, 2012 |
MTANDERSON
What do you call a 'hiding husband' or a 'Mistery man' ?
Someone with no pictures at all?
Or someone without face pics? |
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| by MTANDERSON on March 5, 2012 |
| Worried about hiding your age? Age is nothing- hot is hot-not is not at any age. We are more concerned about all the couples who seem to be hiding their husbands! The wife wants to know who are these mystery men? |
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| by MARCCINDY on March 5, 2012 |
I don't have a problem with a lady hiding her age. As long as she is hot, age is not an issue. And let's be honest here, age does have experience and very few younger women really know how to make it happen in bed. I'll take age over youth any day!
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| by FOUR on March 1, 2012 |
PADOC 50 is a sexy number as well .... Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view
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| by PADOC on February 29, 2012 |
| @ Mrs Champagne....I'll send you an email a day, every day because from what I see, 50 is just a number!! |
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| by FOUR on February 29, 2012 |
CHAMPAGNE21 we started this poll for ''statistic purposes''. We wanted to see what different (anonymous) members do. Its obvious that some members tell their real age and some don't. Still we are not here to criticise anyone.
Until now, 68% say that they are not hiding their age. The other 32% are hiding 1-10+ years. This is fine but..... if we may comment about your experience, we find it strange that you had BIG drop in emails after your 50th birthday. This is a discrimination and not acceptable of course if it comes from friends. If the BIG drop down in emails came from strangers then its another matter.
Can we do something about this? The answer is no. There will always be people that prefer younger cpls. Good luck to them. As long as we feel good with our selfs.... let everyone be how they want to be.
We personaly prefer older and mature cpls but this is just a preference. Nothing else.
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| by CHAMPAGNE21 on February 28, 2012 |
This question really gets to me (Mrs) because I DON'T fib about my age - and we noticed that there was a BIG drop in emails after my 50th birthday in May. Part of me wanted to shave off a few years from our profile - but then again we thought, if those who were that shallow as to say NO due to age cut offs before meeting us, would we really be into them as friends (oh and yes - we care about that part quite a bit)?? So hats off you all of you are now in the Upperclassmen Age.... Upper 40s and 50s can be very hot - and extremely confident, sexy and intelligent!
...but we also have an agreement with our good friends that when it finally comes time to join a "Silver Swingers Early Bird Special" Group - we'll be kind enough to suggest it to each other ;) Deal??
Meg & Brian
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| by FOUR on February 28, 2012 |
SIMPLEMAN it would be very interesting to ask if men are hiding any years as well. And how many.
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| by GDLLUSTING on February 2, 2012 |
i have said i was 10 years younger in alot of situations... but... not on any of the swinger or dating sites.
sometimes i've taken 10 years off when i was out at a club and meeting girls in person. but i think if someone is going to try to hide or fib about their age... they should at least be able to pull it off.
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| by FOUR on February 2, 2012 |
Hey GG49 (or may we call you Brad Pitt)... what's Angelina's real age?
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| by FOUR on February 2, 2012 |
Hey GDLLUSTING, men are hiding their age too. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view
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| by FOUR on February 2, 2012 |
LEBOVIER2 we agree with your comments. In particular with people's sexuality not declared and profiles without pictures.
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| by LEBOVIER2 on February 2, 2012 |
As have said elsewhere on these blogs
Why does SDC allow you to "prefer not to say" or " tell you later"
About your height, your weight, your sexuality.
And it allows you to create a profile with out any pictures
It allows you to hide validations.
In all these things you are allowed to keep your privacy but your age MUST be declared.
Could someone from SDC please explain this?
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| by FOUR on February 2, 2012 |
Hey guys... thank you for your comments and votes.
At the momment we are looking to find that special one that hides more than 10 years. Anyone out there? We are not judging anyone here. Our aim is to give the right picture.
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| by FOUR on February 2, 2012 |
| Hey GAMEON, good comment. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
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| by GDLLUSTING on February 2, 2012 |
| Funny, i just hooked up with a couple in their 30's this week via craigslist. they actually thought i was too young and i showed my ID showing that i'm really older than i look.The age question is not all that important for hooking up and having some xxx fun together. sexual attraction is my main concern when swinging. just be sexy... at any age. |
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| by GG49 on February 2, 2012 |
| Not only do I hide my age, I hide my identity - I'm actually Brad Pitt - Angelina is really, really keen on meeting couples, but she insists that I meet them solo first to establish trust.... |
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| by GG49 on February 2, 2012 |
vg2000 - that's a groucho marx from the 1950's....
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| by VG2000 on February 1, 2012 |
I think GRINGOLATINA wins the award for the most honest post: "The last thing I would want to do is join a club that would actually want me as a member." Priceless.
Don't get me wrong. I admire you guys. You two have managed to stay really young and interesting while I have been a boring old fart (hating dancing, drugs and loud music and loving opera, reading and conversation) since I was kid.
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| by PADOC on February 1, 2012 |
| I have to wonder why anybody who hoped to actually meet others on this site would hide their age. Surely, when coming face to face, even in subdued or flattering lighting, the truth will out. Brings to mind a from a Rod Stewart song, "the morning sun when its in your eyes really shows you age, but that don't bother me none, in my eyes you're everything" We are who we are, we list our ages accurately. I've earned my salt and pepper hair and she has certainly earned the laugh s. Our hope is that our lifes experience doesn't wear too hard on us and that those we meet will appreciate both the honesty and that experience. If not, we understand, we were once young and dumb too! |
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| by MSSEXUALCONDUCT on February 1, 2012 |
I don't lie about my age. I am proud of it.
Carrie
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| by IRISHSPANISH on February 1, 2012 |
if you start on this site with lies on your profile - however well intended and "white" those lies are - you're simply not understanding the protocol, are you!
:-)
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| by GAMEON on February 1, 2012 |
| It's not people hiding their age.... it's the website software that doesn't know how to add ;) |
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| by PEMCPL4FUN on February 1, 2012 |
Well since I will answer for her, I can tell you that we do not hide our ages. We have had great and bad times with just about every age level out there, so we don't really go by age either. Our main concern is attraction to looks and personality, if you look good to us or ok and we have good body chemistry we think it is a positive match.
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| by DNJ2PLAY on February 1, 2012 |
| 10 years ago i met a woman for dinner and she was not truthful then and i saw her SAME profile and pics just last week and the same age is still on there. she is on here daily too. I cant even to begin to think what she looks like in person now..... |
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| by GRINGONLATINA on February 1, 2012 |
We don't hide our ages and prefer that other don't as well.
If you're hot it doesn't matter what age you are. We tend to run with a younger crowd but not becasue of looks. Parties with older people (our age or older) just tend to be less fun for us. We like to party with the mid 20's to mid 30's crowd...more aligned with our taste in music (and volume of music). We prefer the parties to be more "wild frat" like than "ice cream social".
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| by FOUR on February 1, 2012 |
Thanks Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view
Maybe you can vote on her behalf? |
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| by PEMCPL4FUN on February 1, 2012 |
| I will let my wife answer this, but I must comment that you look MARVELOUS!!! LOL! |
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