A Bush v. A Shaved Pussy




People ask why I won’t, like most swingers, shave my pussy. So I feel compelled to list my reasons: 1 Children that are 5 or 6 years old, have no pubic hair and their pussies look like a swinger’s pussy after she shaved. Little kids are not at all sexy. Unless someone has a fetish for child porn, there should be no reason for them to want to fuck a hairless pussy. When we reach puberty our pussy hair tells the world we are ready to fuck and be fucked. Until we develop that soft triangle, we are not ready. So why would anyone want to shave it off and look like they did when they were 5 or 6 years old?  2 To us, a shaved pussy looks like a Martin, or an opened wound that needs a Bandage. 3 When a girl starts shaving she has to continue. If she misses a day or two her pussy becomes a cactus patch and no one wants little pins sticking in their face when the go down on it. 4  If she decides to let it grow back, it grows course and thick, like steel wool. She will never again have that down-like or mink fur softness it had before she started shaving. 5 We like a pussy to look as Nature intended. That dark triangle of soft mink like fur is tantalizing and alluring. It is sooo soft. It leaves a little something to the imagination. Like a scantly clad girl looks sexier than a completely naked one. LETS NOT GET INTO A DUMB CONVERSATION ABOUT SHAVING LEGS OR UNDERARMS. WE’RE ONLY TALKING ABOUT PUSSIES HERE! 5 Some say they like a shaved pussy because it’s easier to lick and they don’t like a bush because they may get a hair in their teeth. We don’t know. We’ve never had that problem and my pussy has been eaten by a lot of guys, and girls. We have NEVER had ANYONE decide not fuck and eat my pussy because of my bush, but with so many women shaving I sometimes we feel like an outcast. I take a lot of insults! Some in the chat room said that, because of my bush, our pictures (which are very recent) look like they are from the eighties before most in the lifestyle began shaving their pussies. Of course they are not, and we will not ‘go with the flow’ and shave just to end this ridiculous thinking. 

Comments

07-18-2011 by FANDM1
I hope my blog did not offend anyone! We have many friends that shave. I just wanted to explain why I will not.
07-18-2011 by KNOTYEAGLE
Understood, I'm sure both of you get plenty of oral attention. Sexual attraction comes from how well you mesh with the other person. Both of you look good.
07-18-2011 by
Wow, you are hot but have you opened a can of worms with that comment or reason 1... so if we like shaven pussies we are into child porn or pedophilia?  I know your comment is well intended but just because you like the cavewoman look does not mean you own the adult view on what is viewed as being acceptable sexual behaviour.  I personally love a smooth waxed and shaven pussy and will eat it like a fruit.  What is the fun about getting hair in your mouth? (choke).  Secondly hell yes of course the girl has to keep shaving or waxing it.  Grooming and looking after yourself is a must and expected from females.. now even from men.

And thirdly hair does not make you a man or woman.. puberty does as you develop with the curves of a woman.. Yet some people like orientals doesn't have much hair or some people are rather petite or under developed.  If I fancy them.. will that make me a weirdo?
07-18-2011 by
I love to shave myself because there's more sensation when I do.  Sea water, and a summer breeze are pleasantly noticeable on my shaven skin.  But, I PREFER A HIRSUTE VAGINA.  A woman's dark triangle of soft mink-like fur feels more erotic and tantalizing against my shaven skin.
07-18-2011 by
On the subject of a bush vs. a shaved pussy, the poll indicates the latter as being favored by the majority of swingers. As one who loves to go down on a woman, a shaved pussy is greatly appreciated. As a gynecologist, I have dealt with over a thousand pussies. A shaved pussy is cleaner, less likely to harbor bacteria, is easier to keep dry. Of course the woman has the final say. PUSSYDOCTOR
07-19-2011 by GOONIES
 A rare moment when I disagree with Nippy.  I think your pictures are great. Perhaps it's a generational thing, but I am not crazy about shaved pussy.  Different women have different textures, which adds to a sense of variety and difference.  Love Golden Age 70's porn.  I can't imagine a goddess like Annette Haven shaved. Trimed, of course, is another thing altogether.  We both trim and groom.  But, to us, shaved looks a little pre-pubescent.  And, to reference another Blog, a nice trimmed, clean bush maintains a nice aroma.  Your pictures are great by the way.  You look like a very happy couple.  Can't believe people would be so crude as to insult you! 
07-19-2011 by REVERSECOWBOY
Shaved Pussy please.
I agree with SUPER about your comments regarding children. I think that was bang out of order quite frankly...
07-19-2011 by OKCFUNCPL
Have to say that we agree with everything FANDM1 have said.  Adult women were meant to have hair on their pussy just as men were meant to have hair around their cocks and that is the way it should be.  My wife has had a nice bush all her life and has never had a single complaint from either another man or woman in fact they love the was her pussy gets dripping wet and the hair either matted down with cum, pussy juice or both.  Everytime we have been to a party or club my wife has had her pussy eaten by more than jus one man and as a rule by several women and they all seem to enjoy it.  I love her lovely bush and eat her pussy as often as possible.  Guess it is just a case of to each his/her own.
07-19-2011 by
Definitely shave... don't like my nose tickled....

LOL
07-19-2011 by BROWNSGR26
 I like it shaved. Luuuuuvvv the landing strip!!!
07-19-2011 by SAILOR4

Like em shaved the most, but at least trimmed and neat....just saying....




 

07-19-2011 by GOONIES
 Gringo.  I like Roy Orbison.  But, I might have to reconsider after reading that post! Trimmed, I say.  With an emphasis on TRIMMED!
07-20-2011 by SEXXXTACY
Most Definately a BUSH is a bigger turn on for some reason. However I will not discriminate a nice shaved pussy but I just have a fetish for bush........too bad there are none out there. Like I said it isn't a dealbreaker at all just something I've always been into. I LOVE BUSH  (not being political)
07-20-2011 by TEXAN
There used to be a Beavers Community on SDC but the person who ran it left the site and it was taken down. If someone wanted to resurect it, I am sure that "Party" or "Helpdesk" would be happy to oblige. (Of course, I am just assuming they would.)
07-21-2011 by
Well how about it FANDM1? Some one as hot as you surely should be president of the beavers club if there is to be one ; )
07-21-2011 by TEXAN
Super, I already suggested the idea to them in a private email.
07-22-2011 by FANDM1
Thanks Texan and Super7, but No Thanks. While we would join a Beavers community, our plate is too full start one. All we want to do on SDS is have SEX a lot of sex. I only wanted to explain “my” reasons for not shaving. Not start a war; or a community.   
07-23-2011 by
remember if you dye your hair you have to dye the beaver the same color ; )
07-23-2011 by SHARETHELOVE

FANDM1 I'm glad you posted this blog as it gave me the opportunity to see a very beautiful woman like yourself, who happens to be my own age. Please don't say that you want to explain your reasons. As considerate as that might be, you don't owe anybody an explanation. It is difficult to be part of the minority in any community, but from where I stand there is not a thing wrong with you, nor a need to provide reasons for what you do. It is definitely a personal preference. I hated my pubic hair so much that I went through a very painful and expensive laser treatment. However, I love hairy men. I love my guy's hairy chest and I'm not too happy when he trims down under to be more appealing to other women. I don't fault you for reason number 1 either. Once upon a time, in my teenage year, when shaved pussies were not as popular, I had the same thought cross my mind. Now days, I find shaved pussies very sexually appealing to me, but beauty is undeniable and you got it lady.

Kisses

07-24-2011 by FANDM1
Thank you SHARETHE LOVE for your flattering and supportive post. You sound like very nice people. And thank you SUPER7 for your observation concerning dye. I guess I’ll cross that Bridge when I get to it.
07-24-2011 by WHBKSSEXY
love a nice clean shaved kitty!! trust ladies itd to your benifit.. what pleasures u will receive
07-24-2011 by ROCKSTEADY69
I just want pussy, if it is too hairy then I will help you shave it.
07-25-2011 by MSSEXUALCONDUCT
I never did understand how someone can look at an adult pussy and think of a child, just because it is shaved. 

Carrie
07-25-2011 by
Wax or shave, for hygiene more than anything else!
07-27-2011 by
FANDM;

Seems like a part of the chemisty thing, for me; you either like, dislike, or do not care whether a partner shaves in the land down under.  However, there seems to be a great focus on the matter, an perhaps that makes it a healthy topic for all concerned, since insulting comments are "DEFINATELY NOT APPROPRIATE" and only reflect on the source as being immature.

You are correct, nature gives the pubic / errogenous zone a nice soft patch, and for my earlier sexual encounters with women, I as fascinated (by the look, touch, smell and taste) and I still can be, depending on the whole package a woman brings into the theater of intimacy.  I have known many nudist women, and somehow, I like some adornment on the flower.  For this reason, I do not shave completely, but trim and shave parts of my scrotum and inner crotch, since there are health issues where my "hairiness" becomes somewhat uncomfortable, and tugs on surgical repaired hernia in my lower left quadrant.  For many years, and especially when actively hiking, cycling, and running, the tugging of hair on repair was tolerable.  But as I have gotten more desk oriented, a little trim reduces the tugging in my crotch.

For this transplanted 'yankee' who appreciated the fur coat on the schwartz when I was growing up into the icy Michigan winters, my downy scarf helped to build a boundary layer to trap warmth when playing winter sports, But, I digress!

I have only in mid-life tried shaving, and mostly did not worry about it through 2 engagements and two marriages, plus I found it sexy.  While I do not think a shaved kitty makes a woman look pre-pubescent for obvious other attractions (breasts, hips, eyes and knowing looks), I cannot say it would ever be mandatory for sexual appeal of a woman to me.  Your bush looks fine, and if you have ever tried trimming, which is how I started, you will know if it is right or not for you.

As for the opinions of others, it is what it is: but, from the M.A.S.H. Psychiatrist Sidney, in the final episode, I quote,
 
"Ladies and gentlemen take my advice,,,,pull down your pants and slide on the ice!"

Mark (dba, Wetlander)
08-10-2011 by
I totally agree with all you said...there's a few other things sexier than a hairy pussy,but its definitely in my top 3....
08-12-2011 by
both!  I love variety. sometimes I want a hairy pussy to sit on my face or see my cock slide into.  other times...shaved.  surprise me.  grow it out, shave it off.
08-16-2011 by BODYJEWEL
we like it both ways, in the 70's/80's it was forbidden and the shaved experience was way cool.today it is 90% of all women soooo, we find it very sexy to see a full bush on a sexy girl today . bodyjewel lets hers grow out about every 2-3 months,it is a sexy variation ans she can still grow a huge bush(sexy in itself) yours is PRIMO!!! DON;T DO ANYTHING DIFFERENT we will send an invitation--bodyjewel





09-30-2011 by JC
Hi!
F&M, I like it both ways; but, prefer BUSH, it taste, smells and looks better than shaved, looks like a REAL PUSSY

Love yours, it makes you look more feminine; so no need to justify yourself, if some one does not likes it, there are many choices on SDC

What about those guys that were drooling over a Penthouse , Playboy or Hustler Pics back in the late 80's early 90's over a REAL PUSSY?

JC





10-08-2011 by LUCKYTWO
We love a nice HAIRY pussy. It feels great rubbing your face on it. While in our car, my hand is on my wife's crotch. Running my fingers in between all her pubes. That's why we carry a good car insurance policy.LOL

This BUSH will always have our VOTE...
12-07-2011 by PHILOUMARY
100 % agree  with you !!!

And i would  just say  that   all shavec pussy lovers  are often  turned on   my our pics  withan hairy  pussy...





03-15-2012 by HEDOCOUPLE4
A big shout out to this couple for giving their opinion on the 'BUSH' subject. Everyone has a preference, and is entitled to such. Certainly, pussy looks/feels great hairy or shaved. Nothing wrong with either, unless you have an issue with parting the hair from the lips and licking away. Doesnt take THAT much skill!

There is just something about the scent and feel of that dark triangle between a womans legs and feeling/watching your dick disappear into it. 
Good job!

M & A


















04-07-2012 by
I am a fan of both the Bush and the shaved.  I recently started to shave myself and find it more relaxing while wearing boxers but I love women with both the shaved and the hairy pussy.  I'd have to say that hairy edges out shaved.  I love having my face deep in the hairy pussy.
06-01-2012 by ACTIVE2SUM
 Like both shaved and non shaved. My preference is smooth for me but he goes for all pussies. The covering he says is not what matters but how it works when the curtains are opened.
06-01-2012 by ACTIVE2SUM
 Like both shaved and non shaved. My preference is smooth for me but he goes for all pussies. The covering he says is not what matters but how it works when the curtains are opened.
06-01-2012 by LUVOUR420
It's interesting that many of the posts seem to support having at least some hair, though the poll says the complete opposite. I wonder if we broke this down by gender how it would fall out.. my guess is that most men prefer at least a little hair ( though I'm sure not all) And most women ( again, not all) would prefer it be shaved. I'd like to see a poll done by gender and see the results.
06-01-2012 by TEXAN
 I again would like to call on someone to revive the old Beavers community that used to be on SDC. I would do it myself, but I already have a community, and you can only have one. It really doesn't take that much effort to run a community.
06-05-2012 by
We are leaving the community lol ... another to Bush or Not to Bush
07-26-2012 by WIDEOPEN101
I couldnt agree more
I love it natural
07-26-2012 by SAILOR153
we prefer the soft hair too, too hard to get a stubble free finish down there.We also feel the soft downy hairs under the arm are a turn -on too,all those shaved pits are missing out on one of the most erogenous zones on a woman's body.A clean armpit is a delight to nuzzle in the height of passion
07-26-2012 by SIMPLEMAN
Shaved please or at least very well trimmed, a landing strip is great!!!
07-26-2012 by
I guess I am into child porn since I shave my pussy on a very regular basis. Cool.
07-27-2012 by TRIFUL
I can understand arguments against shaving but there are other options... I won't be guessing - I KNOW neither I or my hubby are into child porn (the thought of it makes me sick!)But I got a laser treatment years ago and now wax every few weeks (some soft blond hair).Before laser I used to wax on regular basis.As long as remember I found hair elsewhere than my head very unattractive, but that's just my personal preferences.I leave a small landing strip - so no doubt, I'm a fully grown up woman :-) I'd not eat hairy pussy, neither would my hubby.
07-27-2012 by WHYNOTBITE
we used to be very clear that shaved was better, till a few weeks back. Then we got evidence that we could not refuse. Now we selectively like bushes :)
08-06-2012 by
Ty for takeing the time to blog about this I personally like it all natural but I will also enjoy shaved its my preference not a hard llimit Ty everyone for posting your opinions was a great read
08-08-2012 by ICARUS88






 We go both ways...

08-08-2012 by
Did we just see a pussy grow a dick, shaved of course in that last post :)
08-08-2012 by GRINGONLATINA
I think there is an age divide here.  Nearly all of the Bush lovers are in their 50's and you would be hard pressed to find anyone in their 20's or 30's who doesn't shave...

It's a generational thing...
The music is different, the clothes are different, the hair is different, and yes, the pussy is different...

The Mrs has had full laser and the Mr. keeps everything nearly hair free.  We wouldn't consider playing with anyone who has an abundance of pubic hair...We wouldn't insult someone for having hair down there, we just don't find it attractive and it is one of our deal breakers...

It is always difficult trying to gather support for a preference that is in the overwhelming minority, but here, there is something for everyone...good luck...
10-15-2012 by LEXYALY
Big fan of the bush here!  I agree with the original post - definitely more womanly.  It's not easy in today's culture to sport ... most people seem to act like it's a bad thing, but I think it's extremely sexy!
11-12-2012 by EUROMAN
a nice hairy pussy is very sexy ....... it`s all in the eyes of the beholder right and if i`m not wrong we were all born with hair somewhere ....
12-19-2012 by SEXYFUN4U
Ok...we of course believe that after all everyone is entitled for their preference; however having that said here is what we think:

1. Why do people have to go from one extreme to another. It seems that many either like a completely shaved or complete bush. What happened to in between?
You can shave all that apply, except leaving a little line or a small triangle on top and clean everything below its that simple. That way you have the best of both worlds. Because yes its mostly true a woman looks far more attractive with that than none at all.

2. think about it....when you look at a naked woman in a nude resort or a nude beach or even on TV, those who have a defined hair on top of vagina, always looks so much sexier and you sort of feel that there is a sexy woman that is naked or its sort of a confirmation that she is.

3. having a little hair there does not mean not clean or clean enough, it just create a character to the vagina, or in a funny way sort of an identity. while the other way around all look the same and may be not as attractive. But make no mistake, everyone that we played with so far just happened NOT to have hair there at all so we are fully open minded to all, but both of us will find the female half a lot more sexier if she had a little line. (Guys of course must clean all that apply as well of course like balls..etc)

4. Another proof that its really more attractive: the porn industry. If its really better the other way around, how come most porn actresses have a line of hair on top of vagina?

5. We believe that somehow at some point someone invented the bald vagina look, as a claim that they are clean, then it became a trend, But we know that does not mean anything. Of course, again there is a difference between completely bald or a little hair on top vs so much hair around there all over the place.

6. So, for those who read this comment, go ahead and enjoy your femininity by having a nicely trimmed line or a triangle or whatever sexy shape you like to have. Almost as if as you are having a sexy haircut and you change it once in a while. Think about it like this:
would a woman shave her hair on her head so she can be kissed better on her mouth?
well why would you shave all the hair on top of the vagina since really the oral takes place way below?
(well... it may be funny to some people, or a little exaggeration of a point), but it is a similar idea..lol...so go ahead indulge yourself and look in the mirror before and after and take pictures and see which one look sexier to you...


12-19-2012 by HORNYHUBBY
Must be shaved underneath at the very least, trimmed, sculpted, be-jazzled or fully shaved is so sexy it shows how much care and attention a women has paid to the apperance of that beatifull part of her body, we also like it when the inner labia dont protrude past the outer it creates the mystery and a feast to the eyes as the lips are gently parted to reveal the pleasures that lie within.
G & G.  
12-19-2012 by SUZIGEE
For us smooth is much more sensuous and sexy. We visit Cap d' Adge often,and the sight of a thick hairy bush,both male and female,on the beach does not compare.


12-19-2012 by SENSHUUS
We thought everyone shaved.Isn't it in the swingers rule book?
03-18-2013 by
Hi, we are a couple who prefers a female bush. A lovely thick lush bush on a sexy woman is so attractive! We would never neglect any woman who's shaved, we think that can look sexy on the right person as well. On the contrarary we prefer when a man who is clean shaved (cock, balls, anus) we don't think a bush looks as nearly as good on a man as on  a woman. Then we love the contrast of a smooth cock again a thick bush, it's intriguing. Are there any other couples out there who prefer or likes this combination for themselves or for other couples, who have seen it on others and liked the view of it but don't want it for themselves. Would be interesting to hear peoples's feelings about this.

03-18-2013 by STACY2



04-08-2013 by SHARPEI1
I love a full bush

04-08-2013 by SHARPEI1
I love a full bush

04-22-2013 by LUV2PLS
i cant agree more.shaved is like childs and it totally turns me off

08-14-2013 by SWEETJEAN2
Hi all, to hair or not to hair...that is the question. I (we) like the bush. Hubby loves the bush, but it's hot here in FL and sometimes a shave just feels niceeee :)
08-14-2013 by SWTJZABELLE
No thanks. I like shaved male and female. To the bush lovers I say awesome! Just not my thing.
08-14-2013 by JEEP39
I like a shaved or neatly trimmed pussy.  There's nothing wrong with a lot bush but it's just not my thing.
08-16-2013 by SFLFUN
My vote is for a natural bush.  Back in the 80's that's all we saw and a young adult that I was brought up with.  
11-14-2013 by ATPACPL
We both like to see hair……light trim….but hair….it seems more like a adult than a kid…..but must also say….a fresh shaved pussy see sweet to lick….
11-14-2013 by XNAUGHTYFUNX
Always been a fan of variety. 
12-02-2013 by GOODLUVN
We like some hair. Anywhere from full bush to thin strip! You have a beautiful body and a lovely bush. We regularly cycle through the styles with the Mrs. to keep it fresh. You should try the shave sometime. Mrs. Goodluvn really likes the extra attention down there!
12-10-2013 by GOODFRIENDS51
We think its way sexy.
12-10-2013 by GOODFRIENDS51
We think its way sexy.
12-11-2013 by DUEPORCELLINI




We prefere shaved with a thin line.....
05-20-2014 by FLGUY60
I personally like variety but when it has never been shaved it is soft hair and so sexy. I applaud Marie for sticking to her beliefs and think she looks hot with a bush.
08-25-2014 by JAMESOR
You can't deny naturalism. 


There's nothing sexier than coming across someone who isn't shaved. It means they're note expecting the experience. It means they're letting you in and they're being themselves.


Love a bush. It feels instinctual. 
08-25-2014 by JBP1954
I (Male half of couple) find both shaved and unshaved attractive, but do prefer shaved for eating.  I find that my lips and tongue reach more places that way, and frankly, I don't love pubic hairs loose in my mouth.  But, that has never stopped me.  Each woman and her pussy are different, and each should be enjoyed and admired on their individual merits.  Either way, yum.
11-23-2014 by SEXYSEARCHES
Absolutely Right! I have also wondered about folks who put down the naturally Beautiful Bush! Is there a Kiddie Porn issue? All I know is that I would eat your Beautiful pussy anytime!!
11-23-2014 by ATPACPL
I just love it......years later and we still talk about it.....who does not like a little variety......We sure do.....
12-08-2015 by SENSIMILLALOVER
I like a nice bush. But with good hygiene.  
12-20-2015 by BANDE69

I like a nice neat bush like Marie's!


//Ernesto//  { bande69 }

12-21-2015 by EUROMAN
Love the bush......and your pics of it