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Single Males: You need to bring more than your dick...

Too many single males bring only their dicks to the swinging lifestyle. After 20 years, I am tired of seeing SO MANY single males AKA towel sharks want to play with a couple and all they can say is, “Your wife/girlfriend is hot and I would like to fuck her”. While some of you do well and are bas... read more

The Road to Poly

I want to start this blog with, `I`m having the time of my life`! Now that is out of the way, wanted to share my latest experience. Swinging as a single man that is not 6`2 and180 pounds can be interesting. As a newbie you are somewhat led directly into these super intrusive `single friendly` situat... read more


i want to explore my bi side I would like to get together with a male and a girl and do that... read more

South Beach Suggestions, please

We are going to be in Miami the 24th-29th. &nbspPlan to visit Haulover while we are there, and staying at the SLS. &nbspDoes anyone have any suggestions on better hotels closer to the beach? &nbspAnd any ideas on clubs that are nudity friendly? &nbspNot necessarily swinger clubs, jus... read more

Why is it so hard to find...

Webcam girls, -guys or couples? Everybody seems to be so open minded and liberal nowadays, but when it comes to having a little bit of fun in your own home in front of a computer and getting paid for it (and we are talking 4 pairs of Louboutins per months), everybody rather say they don`t want to ha... read more

Sex is not political

There are some in the LS who make the mistaken assumption that only liberal democrats or atheist participate in this lifestyle. If they paid any attention to the news or just knew a little history they would know otherwise. It`s just my opinion but I would bet a high percentage of those reading this... read more

Anal Sex Illegal.....

........new Michigan law, up to 15 years in prison.Such bull shit, aimed directly at gay men.  What a way to circumvent simply passing&nbspwhat would be a very unpopular&nbsplaw against homosexuality.  Such arrogant discrimination.So, will they issue butt plugs?Will they form an anal polic... read more

Weekend Bitrthday Party for Rita: 1/2 to 8/2/16

1/2 Got woken by a phone call at 9.15 - what a long sleep - and not long after headed upstairs to work. Rita came up at 11 and after a light brunch she went to do a foot spa. After lunch I went to the gym after misplacing my debit card and so reordered another one. Only for Rita to say she had it i... read more

Tip For Single Males

You should buy a small notebook.  In that notebook, keep a diary of the couples you have contacted, and then note their response to you.If the response is negative, then check your list before you send another message and do not contact again.  It is really irritating that many single males sit ar... read more

Going from Single Male to Couple

I started swinging again as a single male about a year or so ago, now I am part of a couple and I have to say I am glad it happened. The attitude from other couples alone is a million times better as a couple then single male. People who did not respond as a single are now inviting us to private par... read more



Interesting Idea

Was chatting with an acquaintance in this hobby.  He said his wife was getting tired&nbspof playmates that did not listen to her wishes up front.  Many times they tried to play rough, or show off their talent by changing positions way too often, biting her neck or nipples too hard, etc.She tol... read more

Coffee, Tea or Me Girls Books

Growing up in my teens, the summer holidays were mostly a lonely affair. I got into the habit of reading books, anything that I could lay my hands on. These ranged from James Hadley Chase novels to Will Durant`s `Story of Philosophy`. An interesting gem of a book was `Coffee, Tea or Me Girls Lay It ... read more

Club in Rio

Hi, Last year we went to a club in the Tijuca area or region but we can`t remember the name. Can anyone help? as we are back in Rio and would like to go again. It was really nice and in a kind of residential area.... read more

Swingers in the Isis Crosshairs?

http://www.breitbart.com/london/2016/02/02/suspected-islamic-state-terror-cell-plotting-attack-on-swingers-club-arrested/Be safe out there gang........ read more

Swinger Joke

My friend's wife nearly won the 'cocksucking championships' at our local swingers club.But she choked in the final.She really blew it!... read more

Fun in Greece

Hi all, looking for sexy beach locations in/ around Crete where you can enjoy naturist beaches and perhaps sexy venues to attend of an evening. Any ideas welcomed.... read more


We will be in Praag on 23 24 Feb 2016 and like to meet like minded&nbspcouples &nbspthere who can show us a good time.Please contact us via e-mail: kinkyandcozy@hotmail.comX X  X... read more

Perfume lingerie and heels

Is it just me or does that happen far less often on dates than it used to?  I miss it :)... read more

Any one near Khao Lak?

We are here for a week. Anyone about?... read more