| by DNJ2PLAY on February 1, 2012 |
| yes.....we do it all the time |
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| by SEAGATEGIRL on February 1, 2012 |
Absolutely you can! I have met many people over the years within the lifestyle world, who at one point or another I may or may not have played with that have eventually incorporated into my real life, who I do many non lifestyle things with..
I have met many people in the lifestyle and have become friends with them and never had any sexual contact with and I am fine with that and so are they.. Sometimes the reality is that this lifestyle isn't always about being sexual, it is about finding likeminded individuals that share your same thoughts and feelings and you can be openly sexual with them and know for sure you wont be judged by the things you have done or are doing currently! I would never be able to discuss with Vanilla friends, the gang bangs, bukkake, sexual encounters I have had in clubs or bars with them, but I know if I told my lifestyle friends, they would ask for details.
Now onto the second part:
A woman ( or a man ) has the choice to be bi sexual whenever they want.. But keep in mind if it is on your profile that it is a preference or your sexual orientation, then likely , when discussed further, you will end up in a bi sexual situation.. that is why talking, emailing, texting, phone, all if you have the means like sdc or whatever other site you are on, works well to discuss these things before hand, if you are at a club or something like that, okay there is not time for all the in between stuff, but you will likely go with the flow and if you aren't into the bi sexual thing for the night then you don't do it! This is up to you, 100% no exceptions ! Your partner should be made aware of it too.
I am a bi sexual female and don't hide that fact at all, but sometimes I meet couples and I am not into the woman and more than likely I wont end up playing with the woman or the man then, but I make that clear and I don't lead them to believe that I will !
Most importantly be honest about what you want, especially to your self, for if you don't then you will end up being miserable and not really enjoying the lifestyle for what it is and will miss out on things.. |
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| by ROLAND on January 30, 2012 |
| Yes i think you can have a friendship afterwards its all about control and respect for each other. I feel that the bisexual part is alway's there because it is something that makesyou feel real good, women to women thats art. I truly understand being schooled by a female that explained it to me that feeling of touch and warmth that you can get from another female is unforgetable pleasureExplicit image available, join sdc.com to view . Well all i can say as a straight mother's boy, Enjoy yourself life is toooo short. peace and love to all. Daddy p |
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| by YABBADABBADO on January 29, 2012 |
Yes. We have a great group of friends who can more or less take it or leave it related to the lifestyle part of our friendship when we all go out. We go to concerts, parties and regular clubs…everyone feels very comfortable asking fun straight friends to tag along as we all pretty much know we won’t cross the in public. At this point, our gang who tend to party as a group is like a 30/70 straight/swingers mix and we have a blast together no matter the setting. When we all decide to go 100% and hit a house party/swingers resort- watch out! I wouldn’t say we set out with this intent, we have never been a 'friends first' kinda couple.... just ended up with lifestyle friends that were SO DAMN cool, you had to have them in your regular life too. |
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| by FOUR on January 29, 2012 |
| True bi women are always in need of another woman |
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| by SPONGEWORTHY on January 26, 2012 |
| We have a few friends in the lifestyle even though we have never even gotten naked with them. We see them at parties, clubs or out in the general public and usually spend hours talking. They are nice people and we have many things in common but there just isn't a physical attraction on that level. |
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| by MSSEXUALCONDUCT on January 26, 2012 |
Yes, I can just be friends but I have found most people won't do that. If they can't have sex, they don't want to be friends either.
The fake bi women can turn it off and on. One who is truly bi will always be attracted to other women wether they act on it or not.
Carrie
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| by DEVALICIOUS on January 26, 2012 |
| Well it depends..but I have many friends here who have been both friends with benefits and just friends. And I have the luck to stay friends with them no matter what happens. If they are true to themselves and to you..theres no doubt, they will stand by you or stick with you no matter what. Now this question about bi-sexuality...You are either with it or not. Being bi-sexual is something you feel and you want..bi-curios..well that just a test,,if you try it and you like then you will be it. |
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| by JAYINARL on January 25, 2012 |
| Depends on if you were "with" them for their character as well as their genitals. It's difficult because normally you dont care if your friends are attractive but you do when it comes to the lifestyle. I just say beware who you call yourself friends with in the lifestyle because a woman I had bent up like a sexual pretzel whom I assumed was a friend, went bat shit crazy after I made a joke comment months later. Now if we were truely friends, I wouldve gotten the chance to explain that it was a joke and in no way did i mean any harm. But I was silly to assume we were pals just because I made her toes curl. |
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| by BD4FUN on January 25, 2012 |
Regarding the Bisexual part..... it all depends if you are truly Bi or "acting" Bi for the lifestyle. Obviously someone who is truly Bi like I am, you can't just put it away whenever you want.. I have had a thing for women just as much as men for the past 20 years, its not like you can wake up one day and say ok, Im not going to be attracted to women anymore... |
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