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| Truth in advertising |
We had a date with a couple to meet and go to Miami Velvet this past weekend. Their pictures showed that he was handsome and fit and she was curvy and beautiful. A slight warning flag went up when she didn't want to have dinner at a Cuban restaurant because (that's how I gained weight). When we greeted them at their hotel she was still getting ready, but it was apparent that he had grown and aged considerably from his photos. When she came out of the bathroom she had the saddest look on her face because she knew that she was an easy FIFTY pounds over her profile pictures. My wife was floored but in kindness said nothing. Even though we stated that we didn't want a heavy meal before Velvet, she insisted on a full course $$$$ dinner. I touched her leg once and she leaped away like I'd hit her with a Taser. At Velvet on the dance floor my wife made attempts to bring her into the mood. She danced fondled and kissed and got her off on the dance floor and she ran away. The evening was ruined. Even though we went off on our own, the anger and dismay we both felt killed the mood (as well as several great opportunities for real fun).
I simply cannot understand how someone can post completely fraudulent pictures and a completely untrue profile, knowing that when people show up that their lies would be exposed. We felt the worst for her because it was obvious that she didn't want to be there, was appalled by the idea of bing seen naked, and was only there at her husband's bequest. The mood was so badly destroyed that we didn't have sex at all that night, even together. We had several great offers that night, but if Brad & Angie had begged for us that night, they would have been disappointed. We were as polite as we could muster, but never again. We haven't ratted them out because we felt so badly for her and we wouldn't want someone saying bad things about us in a fit of pique. The next morning we received a request for validation, which was the last straw. I rejected it of course because we certainly weren't going to endorse this couple as 'real'.
Our profile is as real as we can make it. The photos are designed to flatter, but they are recent and accurate. Our profile is very specific (especially regarding Bi-Women who only want to receive and not give back). Do we have to ask for a naked photo taken with today's newspaper headline as proof-of-life? We even asked before coming about this and the accuracy of the photos and her intentions and they flat out lied to us. Does an SDC membership give carte blanche to make up anything to lure you to us in? Is there any value in being here if you can't trust what you see and what they say? We would appreciate any input here. Our new policy is, if you're not as-advertised, we walk out with no thought of offending or sparing the poor, reluctant wife's feelings. Let him deal with her over the rejection. We've had it.
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| Posted by
BULLRIDERGRL |
Posted on January 24, 2010 |
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| Newbie to the site |
 I just want to say thank you those of you that have welcomed me to this wonderfull and sexy site. I hope to meet as many of you as I can, well at least before I get worn out.... |
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| Studs and sluts |
Why is it that a guy who is very sexually active and satisfying a variety of ladies called a stud, a positive connotation, yet a woman with a similar libido said to be a slut in a negative light?
I like a woman to have a strong sexual apatite and to know what she is doing.
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| Just a story... |
ok, so I'm out running errands and stop for lunch at Chili's. As I walk in, you are sitting at a bar top table having lunch; we say hi and you tell me to sit and join you. We start talking and laughing and have a couple of drinks. The topic changes and we both agree that we need to be someplace a little more private. We pay the bill, you look up into my eyes... have this devilish little smile on your face, kiss me quickly and say follow me.
We are getting ready to walk into a room or an apartment; you have the key in your hand and unlock the door. I step in and you follow. As you turn to lock the door and as you do I step up behind you as your back is to me. I reach up and pull the hair away from your neck and kiss the base of your neck from behind. I feel you relax as you close your eyes and rest your head against my chest.
Next, I bring my hands are on your shoulders and gently slide all of the way down your arms to where our fingers interlock. I raise your hands and arms above your head; taking both of your hands into my left hand. With my right I start to caress you slowly with my finger-tips lightly down your right arm as I steal another kiss to your neck. You push back into me trying to turn, trying to break free but you can't, I've got you just tight enough so that you are still facing the door, me behind you... caressing you. I take a moment to slide my hand across the side of your breasts and you sign and push your ass into me; your eyes are still closed and your head still resting against my chest. You can feel me getting hard against your ass as you move lightly slowly back against me.
My hand leaves your beautiful breasts, sliding across your stomach; I pull up your shirt, caressing your stomach. I start to undo your belt and you playfully try to get away; you can't though and actually enjoy it. I work your belt loose and then your jeans. You whisper "damn you" as my hand slides under the waist band on your panties, reaching lower until I feel your wetness... I'm there teasing you, tempting you, caressing you, wanting you.
At this point, I let your arms drop and you spin around into my arms as we kiss, wet, hot and deep. You kick off your flip flops and step out of your jeans as you unbutton mine and allowing me to be free...
... you reach down, pulling my cock out caressing it. I start to kickoff my boots as my pants drop... you spin me around this time ... pushing me against the door, you kneel down, pulling my boots, pants and socks off... you quickly lick the head of my cock and stand up to me, kissing me ... hard. We break the kiss and I turn you to the couch, bending you over as you are completely exposed to me... teasing your wetness with the throbbing tip that you just licked. You want more, pushing back against me but I've got you by the hips. I have control again... for now. It would be so easy just to slide deep inside of you with you being so very wet and warm but do I have other plans.
I take you by the shoulders and stand you up; you kiss me and call me a "tease" (you just don't know...) and I tell you "you haven't seen anything yet!"
I take you by the hand and lead you to the bedroom; I pull down the blankets and turn to you... I take your hands in mine... kissing the insides of your wrists, your arms, your neck. As I'm doing this I reach down and take your top off and bra and drop them to the floor, you are so sexy standing there! I take my shirt off and lay you down across the cool sheets, your nipples become more erect than I could imagine. We are lying side by side kissing; I pull you close caressing your bare back and ass as we do.
As we break the kiss, you moan gently and lay back and close your eyes... wanting me, almost frustrated that I've been teasing you... can you feel it right now? I think you can.
I rise up on my arms holding my body over you. I bend and kiss your neck and across your shoulders slowing as I go down your chest. I take my time with your beautiful breasts, teasing you that much more. From there, I'm kissing your stomach, your sides and lightly caressing your skin. I trace my middle finger from your belly button in a line straight down and you start to arch your hips wanting more; “not yet” I whisper.
Next I slide down between your thighs so that your thighs are resting draped over my shoulders and my hands and fingers dancing across your stomach. I look up into your eyes and smile without saying a word. You put your head back in anticipation, closing your eyes, your arms folded under your head, under the pillow.
You can feel my breath warm against your wetness as I ever so lightly tempt you with just the tip of my tongue. I turn my head to lick and kiss your right thigh and then take your left. You say to me "stop teasing me” and then... “I can't hold out any longer”, I want to taste you. I slide my tongue from the base of your lips, lightly parting them all the way up to your clit. As I do this you shudder from head to toe, it's amazing. I do it all again this time deeper, letting my tongue slide deeper into you until I reach your clit. This time I don’t stop, I take you between my teeth holding you there exposed... pulling lightly as I tease you with the tip of my tongue, up and down quickly.
I feel your hands in my hair as you are alternating between massaging my head, running your fingers through my hair and pressing me down onto you. I let go with my teeth and slide my tongue deep inside you and then sucking on you taking you into my mouth. You start to really tremble; I'm teasing your clit with my tongue... light and quick, light and quick.
I'm watching you get closer... so very close until you throw your head back, your back arches and your hands holding my head firm between your thighs... your legs spread, I can feel your feet on my back as your raise your legs, trembling, shaking you explode as wave after wave of pure pleasure washes over you, once, twice and then three times in succession.
You let go of my hair, your legs relax and straighten, your body lets go. You are so turned on, your body’s still tingling and as you’re laying there you simply just say "WOW"!
David |
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| fun in seoul |
I will be in Seoul,Korea .any suggestion please for a club or private party |
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| Enjoy our short stay and exploring all we can |
As we plan for our trip to Trinidad And Tabago Carnival, we realize that life is truly short and stated to ourselves to enjoy, explore and live life. To those who has come and gone, we are continuing to take a bite out of life for you. If you are attending to Carnival, drop us a note. |
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| QUALITY FOLLOW UP WITH EXAMPLE |
Again for the purpose of the blog function, please publish your comment to the blog and do not send it to us personally:)
Some of comments we had have been that we must be arrogant, therefore we have decided to give all blog readers an example from the real world, experienced few weeks ago. A VIP Party were announced under VIP Parties on this great adult community SDC (We really enjoy SDC).
It is Friday in December and we decided to try it out. As usual well dressed and on our way to a hopefully great and sexy night. We arrive at 10PM, the event started already at 8PM. We pay 110 Euro in the door to get access, inside we are offered a welcome drink among a lot of very hungry guests attacking the FREE buffet. We have always found the mixture of greasy food and sensual play and activities very strange! The welcome drinks taste like a worm bad cocktail.
We are guided into the change room with many fare to small lockers. All the time used for dressing up is completely waste of time because we need to slip into our underwear to be able to cruise the bar and rest of the club. For a woman to get a way looking great in underwear and high heels is possible in December, for a man it is fare more difficult if you not look like Matthew McConaughey on the beach in the summer, that very few average men in their forties are doing in December.
We enter the bar and ask for to glass of Champagne/Sparkling wine. The bottles are not displayed and that is fore a reason:) The un-chilled bubbly wine is the most cheap and dreadful thing we ever have tasted. We ask for something safe = Vodka Redbull, the vodka is a brand we never have seen in our life, the 2 liters un-chilled look a like Redbull is so fare from the original that you cannot imagine. The drink is served without ice cubes, so it is a hot and not a cold drink. It could be that the owners felt that the cold outside was the reason for serving hot drinks:)
Around us there is a few biker hairy intense smoking men with their partner with this incredible leather thong, it is impossible to be turned on by anything close to this look and outfit no matter if you are male or female.
We decide to cruise instead of drinking and we went downstairs. We have to say that the approx 600 square meters had a lot of great play rooms and it was very clean but completely empty at 11PM on a Friday. Since the bar and restaurant did not feel like home for us we were back in the car about 11:30PM.
We feel that what is arrogant in this world is to try to call this a VIP Party, charging 110 Euro for this farmer greasy get together is rape. If you would bee paying 110 Euro in St Tropez in the normal club VIP Room you could get FREE drinks for a long time and look at the the pole dancing girls from Pink Paradise integrated in the club, that is VIP!!
So be careful how you spend your time, we do not have time to spend our Friday evenings in the car going to VIP events not existing.
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| Meet in Khung Thep |
A thought - there is currently a distinct lack of parties.
Why don't those of us interested, all meet somewhere (a bar?) for a purely social gathering.
A chance to make contacts and maybe follow up with those who interest us either after the gathering or at a later date (or never!)
Any takers? - like a Networking function for those of us who miss the connections but nothing more.
A good venue somewhere central where we are free to mingle and mix but nothing more.
No cost and no commitment or expectations beyond meeting others with a similar take on life and seeing where it takes us.
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| up 2 u |
listen speaking from experience dont let antbody manipulate u into doing something u do not want to do. ur a big girl and u v been around / and huby so when it comes time to saying no just do it like the (ad) says. no excuses unless u have some big attraction with the other????????? |
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| Suggestions for club in Vegas |
Can anyone suggest a good adult club in Las Vegas? Heading there in a few days and will be meeting a girlfriend of mine, interested in seeing what the city has to offer in the way of the lifestyle. Suggestions? |
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| ...do you NOW want a GIGOLO just for the fun? |
Ohw, what is happening???
More and more friends (women, couples) are interested in a good looking and stylish escort man!
Is the world changing, is this the newest trend in our society? Women becoming more and more confident and independent. Living life to the full and knows her own value, dares to be herself and to satisfy her own desires...? 
Does women now dare to do what men have been doing for years upon years...?! AT LAST !
Or.... are the ladies not ready yet for this sexual liberation... 
C u r i o u s !
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| Hooray for hairy pussy! |
What's with all the shaved cunt? What's wrong with the hair God gave you? Anyone else out there like a nice bush just the way nature intended?
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| Travel Egypt 10th Feb |
Hi
We will be diving in the Southern Red Sea for 2 weeks in Feb, and Bi or Bi courious girls in the same location please get in touch.
Many Thanks |
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| website preferences |
I have noticed that at many of the meet and greets and clubs we have attended, many of the men are there simply to observe their wives with other women. In some cases, they loom like a druling old man watching their wives have a very good time. There they stand perched ready to pounce on some poor unsuspecting husband who doesn't realize that the lady is off limits.
We attended one event where the guys lined the wall like wallflowers and just watched, it was pathetic. I am not sure if these guys are not allowed to mingle, didn't want to really be there, aren't interested in participating or what. It was apparent they weren't there to be a couple.
They certainly wouldn't be considered part of the couple, and it is interesting that they bill themselves on the website as that. I wonder if they would get as much action on the site if they posted: looking for a woman only, instead of couple. I bet it would be a lot of fun for the unsuspecting couple to hook up with John and Sally only to realize that only Sally would be hooking up, nada for John.
And what about the straight chicks.... It seems that if you at least aren't bi-curious you aren't going anywhere. Are their not many couples out there that really want their wives with other men? Is it an issue of the man's insecurity or what?
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| Why Do People show wealth in their profile? |
I see so many profiles with pictures in front of a Porshe or on their big boat. I read where people comment on their "proffesional" careers. My question is, why? For us at least we're not interested in your boat, the size of your house or your exclusive address. We're interested in how much fun you are to be around and how much fun sex is with you. To us at least that "executive attitude" is a major turn off. We can have just as much fun with someone liveing in a mobile home and driving a 1966 Rambler as living in a gated community and driving a BMW.
Do others feel the same? For those who like to put their money and position in their profile could you explain why this seems important to you?
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| Posted by
CURIOUSFLADUO |
Posted on January 9, 2010 |
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| We popped a cherry... |
So we were out this past Wednesday night. The wife was feeling frisky and we were on a mission.
We headed over to trapeze grabbed some dinner and a drink and hung out on a sofa for a short while. I spotted him first, then my wife did. It took me to prod her into going to say hi.
So she used the old restroom excuse to take a swing past and check him out, then when she came back...struck up a conversation with him. He was her type. They hit it off, and I knew they would. After she chatted him up, I came over and introduced myself. We talked for awhile, and he said it was his first time. He was a newbie.
So it became an "Adopt a newbie" night! My wife is a sucker for popping a cherry. So of course he was game for us to "show him the ropes!"
We invited him into the back, and it was funny to watch the two of them act like 14 yr olds having your first kiss ever. After she overcame her initial shyness, she asked me if she could go after him. Kiss him...play.
I encouraged her to have her fun. She proceeded to make out with him and me and stroking both of us at the same time...
When the time came for him to perform, he had a little issue...he was nervous. Turns out...FIRST TIME THREESOME! So we draw the curtain, and she takes her time...suddenly, he's hard and she crawls on top of him and rides him until he cums not once...but gets hard in her a second time and cums again!
Popped that newbies cherry. He had a great time. She shared two guys and gave a life experience to a guy who wil never forget his first threesome. She loves making life experiences happen...that's my girl.
I love my wife!
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| Looser4ever |
Losser4now will be looser4ever, no doubt.
My friend, please get out of the closet and see the world.
People like you slows down the planet.
Victor |
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