We are a fetish curious couple and would like to know if there is anywhere in San Antonio that is fetish friendly. We have heard of one local club that advertises fetish night on Thursdays. Haven't heard weather it is a do or don't we would like some friendly feed back. Also if you know of anywhere else please don't be shy, we will try anything once and twice if we like it!!

Hi met Nico, Zoek nog een gezelschap om mee tegaan naar tamptacion.lijkt je dat wat schrijf me dan aan. Fijne morgen.groetjssss

 I want to thank everybody for their birthday wishes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nara. 

We've just got back from spending the weekend at Cap. We've been going for over 8 years now and have had some great times. We've even bought a place down there.This time though we came back a bit dissapointed.

First of all, we love the French. So before I get a load of our cousins slanging back at us, please do so in context. But we have never seen the French so drunk and I know people will say kettle and black but in this lifestyle you dont see that many drunk people for obvious reasons. But on our first night we we were totally surprised with how many people were staggeringly drunk.

Secondly, we really did struggle to find many good looking couples and believe us, we are not that picky!! But on our second night we really struggled to play with anyone. We always believed French women to be some of the most glamourous on the planet.We spent the first night at Le Joules and another club and the second night at Glamour.

In the end,we had a very average experience. This has led us to think maybe time to move on and look elsewhere. Was it just us expecting to much of the Cap?

Feel free to comment.

Do you have regular play parteners? Do you play with them when you see them at a party?  Or do you tend to meet new people saving your special time with your "already friends" for later on? ;) I love saving my special friends for later on and I never want to come off clickish either to anyone else.  Or come off like we or they are the last resort.  Am I crazy?  Maybe... that is where your opinion comes in. 

 Hi, I'm a single guy I been a member for a couple of years now. When I first found this site it was awesome because I was in a relationship with a woman who was open minded and she live by the phrase "Y.O.L.O" Meaning "You only live once" and we shared alot of good times together, As a matter of fact we found our first MMF on this very site. Now since Im single and I love the life style it is so hard for me to join the right couple or any couple for that matter and I think to myself? "Am I not good looking enough?" or is my timing all wrong!? So I write to my fellow lifestyle  family what can I do different? I have a face picture and I do enjoy the chatrooms which I visit often so people don't think im a fake profile. Someone please "HELP"!! 

2/5 Woke early and after Rita came back to bed we had a very fast and furious fuck till we both came. Then fell asleep till 9.30. Up and showered as taking Rita to osteopath for her shoulder, which seemed to help a lot. Headed for shops and then home.  Rita got stuck into some cooking and I did some office stuff. Rita passed over the fence some "Russian Food" to L and M. Around 2.30 headed into garden to sunbathe and after an hour Rita joined me in garden.  Stayed through till early evening. Then got invited next door for drinks and fun and Mk and I an M - which was very strong. After a couple of hours, both high as kites, we went back home and fucked each other on the sofa till we were exhausted . Went to bed and cuddled and said sweet nothing's to each other before falling asleep.

 3/5 Didn't wake till 9.30. After breakfast Rita popped to shops. I did a few odds and sods and booked SDC Andalucia for next year- still too far away to really think about. Spent afternoon in garden having some wine, fresh prawns & jellied eels. During break from sun out up new shower rail and Rita changed the jewellery in her belly piercing. Early evening got ready to go out. Headed for Zuma and bumped into a very pissed Am- Rita in much same condition. Left at 10 to Nozomi where tried to help Rita sober up. Decided to head home at 11.30pm and bumped into Lena as we left - good timing! Home and Rita soon fell asleep.

 4/5 I woke at 8 ish and caught up on reading. Rita awoke mid-morning. Got SDC email from sexy looking Belgium couple staying at Sanderson and after brief text exchange arranged to meet them this evening. Mooched through the afternoon and then caught train to Sanderson to eat at Suka. Meal at Suka was excellent as usual - still one of best Malay restaurants in London. Met F and S at bar and started a good conversation even though F didn't speak much English. Bumped into the usual friends for brief chats. At 10 we went to their room and had some fun which drove F wild - multi orgasming at even the slightest touch. It was great to be touched and fondled.  The night up to when we left at 2am was a combination of cock and finger fucking, 69, fingering, touching and fondling. No idea how many time the girls came, but well over 20 times. Probably a good time to stop as we ran out of condoms! At the end of the evening Rita was struggling to get a sponge out that she used as her period had just started. S obliged and being a medical man fished it out! We would have liked to stay all night but had to go and promised we would come across to Belgium to meet up for a weekend and a party. What a night! Still high when we got home at 3am so continued to fondle and make love till dawn. 

 5/5 Were a little tired next day but left at lunchtime to check in at Home House. Had nice barbecue in garden and then went to bed and slept for a couple of hours. Met up with P and S for drinks at 8 and after they left we got ready for HH party. Not as busy as last one but nonetheless we had a great dance though we slowly had to shed our fancy dress. Danced with a young couple who were definitely up for some more fun in our room but we didn’t take up the offer as we were then at the limits of our stamina! Kept going to 3am and headed to after party which sadly had been cancelled. So headed back to room - had an M - and then fell into bed and made love till we fell asleep around 5. 

 Ok guys and gals, since all but a few of us remember when mtv actually played music videos, we want to hear your favorites! Which videos get your loins a' burnin' for some lovin'?   

My Wife and I have been members of the site for just over 9 years at the time of this writing. The site has made a few enhancements that might eliminate some of the things that irritate you most. Let's start with "No single guys." There are many couples, men and women that are not looking for single men. Some go so far as to put it in all CAPS and mention it more than once in their profile. If you are not interested in having single men contact you here is what you can do: Go to the settings tab at the top and select "Block & Privacy Settings" submenu. The first option in the upper left: Block Single Males: yes or no. If you select no, no single men can contact, remember, message or nudge you. You can now edit your profile to tone down the rhetoric. If you aren't looking for single men and you don't do this, your right to bitch about single men emailing you is hereby revoked! Your right to complain when they set up couple profiles and are "allowed to play alone," continues in perpetuity. The other thing that seems to be a pet peeve is the nudge. We, too, have been baffled by this addition adding a level of laziness to those unwilling the compose a three sentence introductory paragraph. Alas, there is a solution to this pesky problem. Go to the settings tab at the top and select "Block & Privacy Settings" submenu. Right column, third one down is an option to "Block Members from Sending You a "Nudge."" You want the "No" option on that. Speaking from experience, you will be forever free of this issue. Do yourself a favor and remove the language in your profile regarding nudges. It is probably the statement in your profile that you are least proud of. Chances are that at first, you politely asked not to be nudged. Then, after realizing the people that nudged had a tendency not to read your profile, you spiced up the language and put it before the "no single male" sign. I hope you have found this informative and useful. If you have not, our executive assistant, Ms. Helen Waite, will be happy to field your complaints. Remember, if you have a negative comment or complaint to make, please go directly to Helen Waite. (Say that last bit out loud a few times till you get it.

Hi everyone, we have just booked our flights to go to the spice take over in November, who's thinking of going? We're excited about trying somewhere new together and getting some winter fun in the sun ;-) S&S xx

Can anyone recommend any of the swingers clubs in Vera (we think there are four)? What sort of croud do they get? International? Age? Quality? Friendly or pushy? Also, how welcoming are they if (like most Brits) your Spanish is not really up to scratch? Thanks

Anybody been there?  Opinions, good and bad please.


Thanks!

i read a profile the other day that said,"single guys,enough with the emails,you're driving me to drink" i thought it was funny.but how many on average do couples and single females recieve from single guys in a week? and how many would it take to make you hit the sauce? if it's that bad i'll not send any emails out for a week,lmao.

We are going to Paris on thursday and wonder if anyone has any recommendations for a swinger/fetish club? We live i n Montmartre and are looking for a fun friday night. A and F

 Day one yesterday at Dixie Splash Party here in Fort Lauderdale was awesome !   We met alot of nice people ,  there were 20 of us vendors, the theme last night was beach party, tonite's theme is naughty nurses and Dirty Doctors.  and we actually had some good Florida sunshine around the pool today !

Lees je dit ik ben nog op zoek naar een gezellige meid,dus voel je aan gesproken.mail me dan maar is. Alle maal een fijn weekend,

So recently we became victims of some twisted pic collector. Now today we get contacted via PM's in the Chat room. I guess the incident last week has made me more suspicious, and luckily i avoided another idiots time wasting efforts.

VEGASBOUND

Thats the profile he created. Very plain for a couple that has been here since 2011, rt?! Only 3 pics - 1 of a female laying facedown on a bed and 2 of a male having sex. No faces. NO INFO on the profile.

Long story short wanted info on us. Said he lived near us (next to a local University). When I asked how long he said 20 years....this fell apart when I confronted him with the fact that the zip code used on his profile is about 8 cities away! He then starts playing games saying his wife has a penis! Pathetic idiot started name calling and tried to be an internet tough guy once I confirmed that his profile was fake.

So u know what ppl...I say lets make this an open season on the FAKE PROFILES. TIME TO OUT THEM!! Lets share our info so we can save eachothers time and prevent headaches later on!  ;-)

where is all video on profile gone? 

Some of you took the trouble to email and ask to see the other lingerie set I purchased .. well this is it. More of a classic black with the retro 8 strap suspender belt and probably my favourite set.
Dx