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       Posted by CURIOUSGIRL2010 Posted on October 16, 2010 View Comments 0      
In DC
I will be in DC for 2 weeks. Would love to meet someone I could chat, be comfortable with in order to have some healthy fun in bed. I can only do nights and dont have a car so great if that person could come to me, staying at a very nice flat. Looking forward on hearing from these great DC guys!!!
       Posted by RONALD2 Posted on October 16, 2010 View Comments 0      
BBC is OFFENSIVE! I AGREE!
I am a single Black male and I have not thought about IT  seriously until recently. I am not bent out of shape over it but obviously there are no labels for cpls or sgl fems that enoy playing with Black gents.

Wish we could get away from BBC label .What can you do? I feel ya BRIGANT!
       Posted by THEEMPEROR Posted on October 16, 2010 View Comments 0      
cut or natural

Hello everyone, This is to the ladies in the site. I would like to know how you like it, circumsiced or unciecumsiced? an why? they are many reasons like for example, the way they look, feel, religious thing, medical, or you just don't really care because a dick is a dick and it works the same. would you reject someone that is not circumcised, and why?

       Posted by JUSTSEX2 Posted on October 16, 2010 View Comments 0      
fata morgana

Fata Morgana is a really good club, nr Amsterdam about 20 mins away in a taxi.
when we went it was 100euros entry and that is all inclusive, fantastic food, and any drink you want.
It was very freindly and gets going on the dot at 9PM. Lots of dancing and at 11pm everyone dresses down to sexy underwear-Including the men!
The playrooms are nice and clean, loads of condoms, clean towels. Showers....Absolutely everything you could need for an excellent sexy night. And the orgies.......WOW you have to see it to believe it

Fun4two is also great but is a lot smaller and a long way from Amsterdam, It's nearer Rotterdam.

Have Fun The Dutch really know how to party!!

You've got us booking flights now for next spring!!!!!  Thank God for Easy Jet!

 

       Posted by AR6667 Posted on October 16, 2010 View Comments 0      
Barcelona Swinger Clubs
we would appreciate any useful information regarding the swinger clubs in Barcelona. We’ll be in Barcelona from 22/10 until 25/10 staying at the W hotel.
       Posted by MAHOGANY1 Posted on October 15, 2010 View Comments 0      
Kinky Xmas Dance and Charity Food Drive, Saturday, December 18, 2010
The Grand Tradition Continues, Saturday, December 18 in Danbury with a Total Kinky Xmas Bar Take Over Party.

Get your room today by calling the St. Croix Casino Danbury (formerly the Hole In The Wall).

Enjoy fun friends, great food, drinks and sexy people.

Terrific DJ and Dancing all night!

This is our annual event for the Food Shelves. So please bring a nonperishable food item to donate to the Food Shelves. There will also be raffles for fabulous prizes with proceeds going to the Food Shelves. 

For more details visit KinkyXmasParty.com or call 320-245-6803/763-250-1122.
       Posted by HAPPYCOUPLE28 Posted on October 15, 2010 View Comments 5      
Full vs Soft

One of our favorite things about the LS is the opportunity to discuss, with one another, issues most vanilla couples never get to explore. Our latest interesting topic was "how society has ingrained the belief that intercourse is more intimate that oral play".
In all actuality, most penetration happens with the protection of a condom while most oral play is direct contact and exchange of bodily fluids. Having a healthy cock in your mouth or your tongue inside a beautiful woman is way more intimate and further up the scale than sex with a condom. It seems interesting to me that some couples will only have oral play. What? That doesn't make sense to me. We certainly respect everyones choices and probably have rules that others wouldn't understand but we would love to hear your opinions on the matter...


Tom and Lisa
       Posted by NYMT Posted on October 15, 2010 View Comments 0      
Looking for suggestions
I was just wondering how others would handle this situation! We had a member leave our club. She started another club and is always bad mouthing us. She writes bad reviews all over the Internet. She told us that she will close us down. She keeps making false complaints to our venues and getting us kicked out. This usually happens just before a party. Any suggestion on how to handle this situation? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
       Posted by RANDT1 Posted on October 14, 2010 View Comments 14      
Soft Swap Condoms?
It's been a while but here you go.....I have seen a bunch of profiles who are listed as Soft Swap only but in the details portion they say "must wear condoms"....Huh?  What part of the soft swap senario would require a condom?  Do you mean that the guy getting oral gets to wear a condom?.....Oh boy!  A hand job with a condom?....yummy!
Do you even get in the front door without wearing a condom? 
Help us out here, we are just swingers, sometimes the fine, fine print is fuzzy.

Party on!
       Posted by GERAMERCPL Posted on October 14, 2010 View Comments 5      
why all the drama
After reading the blogs and profiles on SDC, just wondering why the drama. This lifestyle should be about having fun. 
If others offend you or are not your type, why not just move on until you find what you are looking for???
       Posted by HZLSTONE Posted on October 14, 2010 View Comments 9      
Visiting Amsterdam
I'm going to be in Amsterdam next month for a weekend. I was thinking about visiting a club while I was there. Does anyone have any recomendations? In particular I'm looking for somewhere that has a slightly older clientele (I'm 42) and that is going to be safe for a single woman.
       Posted by HARLEYMAN12 Posted on October 14, 2010 View Comments 3      
Piercing pics
My lady and myself, both have a very keen interest in getting genital piercings. We would like to ask for everyone's help, by commenting, based on personal experience, and picstures on both the appearance and the good and bad points of male and female genital piercings. Again, please send us your comments and pictures on this subject.. Thanks!
       Posted by 2BUBBLEBUTTS Posted on October 13, 2010 View Comments 0      
Our Friend the Beaver
Okay, here's the scenario: Mrs. Bubblebutt and I are at our local TGIMcSwingster's when we notice Mr. and Mrs. Doe in the "naughty room". Mrs. Doe appears to be taking on all cummers while Mr. Doe directs the action and watches. There is a line of single guys frantically attempting to achieve a state of readiness in order to satisfy Mrs. Doe's carnal desires. Mrs. Bubblebutt (being the perv that she is) requests (orders) that I ravage the lovely Mrs. Doe immediately. Mrs. Bubblebutt's personal kink is to watch me with other women, it's her "thing" (who am I to judge?). Mrs. Doe, of course, readily accepts my advances and is eager to commence the festivities when Mr. Doe (who for the purposes of this illustration, is MUCH less than attractive) demands a quid pro quo (i.e. he wants to bang Mrs. Bubblebutt) if I am to enjoy the company of his wife. Mrs. Bubblebutt rejects his advances and explains that she would just like to watch me with Mrs. Doe. Of course, Mr. Doe is highly offended at the perceived rejection and tells me to cease and desist all activities with his wife immediately (effectively denying her the greatest experience of her life). Thereafter, the line of heinous single males continue to enjoy Mrs. Doe for a very long time while she pines away for me. Is Mr. Doe's behavior reasonable given the fact that many single (VERY fugly) men have already defiled his wife without a female to offer? Is Mrs. Doe his toy or does she have a right to nirvana?  Your thoughts?
       Posted by ANDYCAZ69 Posted on October 12, 2010 View Comments 23      
Is Swinging about looks or the fun
People have asked the question is swinging about looks or is it about the fun you have please tell us
       Posted by 2LUCKY2SEXY Posted on October 12, 2010 View Comments 6      
HALLOWEEN 2010- Meet and Greet Blog :)
Hello everyone,

We will be attending the Bliss Halloween party on the 23rd, are you?
We are interested in meeting people prior to the party. We are new to Miami and have attended one party since we moved here. We are originally from the Orlando Bliss parties and we love it. We are hoping that Miami is just as welcoming Wink*.

So please use this blog as a meet and greet to this fun party :)
       Posted by MARINA9 Posted on October 11, 2010 View Comments 0      
CHATROOM BOREDOM
I think the chatrooms on these sites are the MOST boring places on earth , full of Sad people telling each other lies about thier fictional lives, They just make up stories about what they do except what they really do is sit in thier sad little rooms exploring fictional lives with fictional people in the same fictional world 

                                              BORING BORING BORING 
                                                 
                     SUICIDAL
       Posted by RINAY Posted on October 11, 2010 View Comments 0      
Blogssss ?????
In SDC's defense, I was also at the Meet & Greet and at the bottom of every party calendar on the home page it states this:

All parties, events and other content are provided for informational purposes Only. Swingers Date Club does not control the venue or the events themselves and cannot guarantee its success or that the events will occur on the dates indicated. Be sure to check with the specific venues for the latest updated information.

If I were you, I would have contacted Gryphons directly regarding an over-charge on my credit card before diplaying it here in a blog.  As for the credit card / ID being held before closing out the tab, that is a standard procedure with most clubs that do bottle service.  You could have closed out your tab just as soon as you ordered the bottle special and they would have given you your cards back right away.

As for the other comments about the crowd.  There were over 500 SDC members at that party, however the capacity of the club, if you were to ask is 800.  So, if you thought it was going to be too many people for you to meet in one night, perhaps it was, but there was still plenty of room to move around and dance. Especially for the first 2 hours of the night. 

If you have any suggestions as to what you would have done diffenently, you should write to the Party contact of that particular party.  The parties are arranged for all of our enjoyment and to give us a nutural place to meet other like-minded people.  We have to take into consideration that everythng is not always going to be perfect as we would like them to be. 

I love SDC and I believe SDC has all of us in their best interest.
       Posted by SEXLOVERS10 Posted on October 11, 2010 View Comments 0      
Zurich
We would welcome some fun in Zurich to night, monday 11th. Post us back:D