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       Posted by DANIEVERLASTING Posted on July 29, 2014 View Comments 0      
Comments 10 Views Yahoo Fantasy Football League
The wife and I started our own league last season. Thought we would give out the invite here. We could have a get together on draft day. Let us know if interested. 10-20 team league. PPR. Payment via $100 per team. Draft day is Aug 22nd, 2014.
link to join:

       Posted by PYSTONNCYLINDER Posted on July 29, 2014 View Comments 0      
Meet up in Sturgis 2014
Heading to Sturgis 7/31 through 8/7... there is a swingers meet n greet at Full Throttle upstairs facing the stage on Sunday 8/3 starting at 6 pm 

       Posted by FUNTBWRJ1 Posted on July 28, 2014 View Comments 1      
A normal week - I think?:20/7 to 27/7
20/7 Woke at 9.30 after a long nights sleep. Had a late breakfast in bed with Rita and then we made love. After I went for a run and Rita went shopping and found a dress for the wedding we are going to in Istanbul in September. I came back and showered and dealt with office stuff as it came along. We had an early bed as we were both tired from the heat. I gently stroked Rita while we watched some TV and just before we slept I fingered her to an orgasm and we both went to sleep with my fingers in her vagina.

21/7 Both fully woke at 10am. Can't believe how much I'm sleeping at moment. Made love to Rita and she came three times before we gently disentangled. Handled office emails and stuff and had brunch with Rita in bed. The DVD "The Dreamers" arrived - a very sexy Bertolucci film- which we may watch tonight. After 1pm we went into the garden to sunbathe under the umbrella - so hot  in sun - and we chatted and drank Prosecco. We discussed whether to take train or taxi to London City Airport next Tuesday - difficult one with time of day and traffic - to decide. Talked about  a friend L - both worried about her problems and addiction - not sure what more help we can provide. Decided to go short on a long term Euro/ USD trade - good start so far! Heard from my youngest son T, who just got back from USA, and now has had his responsibility extended to Middle East. Had a quiet evening watching TV and went to bed around 11pm and made love. Lena then called and Rita went downstairs and chatted to her for half an hour. When she returned I was still feeling horny and so fucked her hard till I came. 

22/7 Woke and read Times and then after breakfast got up and headed for a meeting at the office at 11am. Back home for midday and had an hour in the garden with Rita who then got ready as she was going to see Ox for the afternoon and early evening. She was due to leave at 2pm but stupid taxi driver turned up at destination - not the pick up - and so Rita eventually left at 3pm. Spent some time in the garden after doing some weights. Late afternoon came in and had a salad and watched some catch up TV. Rita rang to say we had been invited to O's for a barbecue and jacuzzi on Saturday night. Rita got back at 10.30 saying she wasn't drunk or high but, having paid the taxi driver when she got into it, when she arrived she asked him how much she owed him!' Ha Ha. Anyway Rita was giggly and hungry for the next hour and a half hour and grilled some Turkey dinosaurs to eat - not haute cuisine! Then we went to bed and wasn't long before she fell asleep.

23/7 Woke around 9.30 and after breakfast in bed I had to go the office for a meeting at 11am. Back home at midday and we went into the garden to sunbathe. Decided on a naughty afternoon. We played and laughed and went inside as it was getting very hot and made love and fucked on the bed. Early evening we got naked on sofa and watched Bertolucci's The Dreamers - a sexy film that made us both even more horny and so I fingered Rita to orgasm a number of times as well as slipping my cock inside her a number of times. After, we went to bed and pulled out the toys and fucked each other and finally Rita wanked me off to a very messy cum - after which we collapsed asleep.

24/7 We didn't wake till 10.30am and had a lazy morning in bed eating and making love and I fitted in some office stuff. Around lunchtime we got up and had to rescue the beds from the garden as we were deluged by a passing thunderstorm. We then packed and caught the 4 o'clock train into London, where we were staying overnight at Home House. We kicked the evening off with a bottle of champagne and a light snack and then got changed and took a taxi to Sanderson's where there was a hog roast night and DJ set. Decided not to join and stayed by bar. We met a couple of young women who turned out to be on the way at 11.30 pm to do a shift at Spearmint Rhino. At 10pm they came back with us to HH where we showed them round before they left. At about the same time Ox turned up and we spent the night up to 2am drinking and dancing before heading back to the room. Rita and Ox went into overdrive chat mode and around 3am I took out some M and started to chill. In fact I took myself to bed at 4 and would have welcomed being joined and stroked by 3 virgins - dream on. Around 5, Ox left and Rita came to bed and wasn't long before we started to fuck until Rita came and then we dozed off.

25/7 We woke at 10.30 at immediately started to fuck and make love till we were both spent. We got up and showered and slowly got ready and then headed down into the garden for some very welcome food and a bottle of Prosecco. Chatted and recounted previous nights events, After 1pm we headed home tortuously as both Victoria and Central line were curtailed. At home we unpacked and both of us slept for a couple of hours  before we headed by car to O and M's place in Flitton for a barbecue. We had brought lamb and chicken and Rita did some drinks and I started to cook while Olga prepared salads. After we finished eating we all adjourned to the jacuzzi where we drank, chatted and laughed and I smoked some M. Rita made us laugh when she referred to the jet of water filling the jacuzzi as "Viagra Falls". O&M left around midnight and Rita and I got naked and played together in pool for another hour before we headed to bed. We collapsed into bed and we both fell asleep instantly.

26/7 We both woke at 9 and then fell back asleep till gone 11 when we slowly got up and showered and got ourselves ready. The four of us went to a local gastro pub for lunch which was good and after 2 we said our goodbyes and drove home, with the top down. Back home I watched the F1 in Hungary - cracking race - and we had a quiet evening and early bed and soon fell asleep.

       Posted by RUNNER2008A Posted on July 27, 2014 View Comments 0      
Cancun playa de carmen!
We are going to be in Cancun playa de Carmen this week..
we are looking to meet other couples or single woman!!
love sailing or get together for drinks or dinner..
we both are runners and in good shape..

       Posted by WILDTEXASSEXCPL Posted on July 26, 2014 View Comments 1      
Will be in the pensacola area in August,  any recommendations for events or activities aug,, 8,9,10th

       Posted by CHRISHANGZHOU Posted on July 26, 2014 View Comments 0      
Anyone go to Anchorena SW?
I'm a single man in BA. Foreigner. Asian. Anyone/couple go to Anchorena SW. Message me 11-3292-7219. 

       Posted by LAUGHINGLOVERS Posted on July 25, 2014 View Comments 2      
FETISHCON Clothing Crises
What would a 'vanilla' swinger couple wear to Fetishcon?  Yes, lots of condoms and a sense of humor.  Besides that!    We're going to Fetishcon and, unless you count swinging and nudism, we have no particular fetishes.   We're going as voyeurs, see the red carpet models, after parties, and generally knock around Tampa.

Time is running short, anyone have a clue what both the M and F might wear to 'fit in' without having to dress in full fetish regalia?   Picture posts or links to outfits would be especially helpful.  W is thinking simple corset/garter type number that is already in the closet.  H is thinking black dress slacks and a black shirt.   Passable?

       Posted by CNFORFUN Posted on July 25, 2014 View Comments 11      
Are swingers really that rude now??
We have been in the lifestyle for several years now, and it used to be that couples were looking for REAL friends with benefits. Now it appears that its mostly bed post notcrhes. Are we wrong? Even people we were once friends with seem mostly interested in finding a 10"cock and hard body to destroy the wife. What ever happened to friendly fun couples looking for real friends?? Isn't this supposed to be a laid back fun and friendly lifestyle. . We have had almost 0 luck this year, we are clean, educated and professional couple. no we are not models, but not troglidites either. We are not looking for perfect people just honest and friendly couples to make friends with. This used to be easy and its becoming no fun anymore. And that really SUCKS. Are the shallow people are taking this over too??
       Posted by HOTKOPPEL94 Posted on July 23, 2014 View Comments 3      
Wij zitten vanaf maandag 28 juli in toremolinos. Iemand leuke ideetjes of plaatsjes om naartoe te gaan? kisses
       Posted by LUCKYLYNDY Posted on July 22, 2014 View Comments 0      
upcoming fuun Splash Party !

only a couple days now until the fun Splash Party starts here on Thursday !

Please stop and see us in the vending room !  We carry a line of affordable sexy club wear and hand made non pierced nipple jewelry ! We have many show specials and we are giving away three nights at Hedo compliments of Castaways Travel.  We possibly might be looking for one more model . if you are up for it, kindly shoot us a note !

       Posted by SXYCPL727 Posted on July 21, 2014 View Comments 18      
Struggling to like the new blog layout
Who else thinks the new blog layout needs a little improvement?  Here are the two big things bugging me.

1) The site is now showing the entire original poster's message, which would be fine if OPs only wrote one or two sentence posts, but when they write several paragraphs, the system should not print all of that unless you click on the topic.  Please just show us the title and let us choose whether we want to read the rest.

2) Once you click on a topic it defaults to showing the oldest message first.  This is easier the first time you go into a post, but that's the only time.  After that, if you are trying to keep up with a post and look at new posts, it would be better for the latest post to be on top and get older as you scroll down.

Does anyone else agree with either one of my nits about the new blog layout?

       Posted by FUNTBWRJ1 Posted on July 21, 2014 View Comments 3      
Back to Normal Week after Cap?: 13/7 to 19/7
13/7 We slept like logs till late morning, then made love till Rita came a couple of times, and then got up to get ready to lunch in London and to The Coliseum to see The Ballet Russes show on Diaghilev. The show was probably the best they had put on with the highlight for me, a leading Marinski ballerina dancing solo to Saint Saens "The Swan". We then headed home and Rita packed for her trip to Moscow tomorrow and then we watched the FIFA final. After that we both fell asleep - still catching up from Cap D Agde!

14/7 I woke at 8 and dozed through till when Rita woke at 9. We cuddled and then Rita had to get up and get ready as taxi was picking her up at 11.15 to take her to the airport. After she left I popped to local cafe for some bacon sandwiches and then home for a catch up call with an account manager that lasted an hour. Called Rita who was by now on plane waiting to take off. I then went for a run and did some weights and then showered and worked through till 4ish. Finished some ironing from the holiday for Rita, had an early supper and then started to watch some pre recorded TV during the evening. Watched a good film and then headed to bed and sleep after chatting with Rita who had arrived safely and got to her Mum's for late supper with her brother.

15/7 Woke at 8 - read Times, did emails and exchanged some emails on SDC. Also struggled to pay for a Norwegian private party in September as none of my banks could recognise BIC code sent by the organiser. Morning mostly spent on work related stuff and then did some weights and after showered and went by office, to sign a few things. Then caught tube into London at 2pm. Spoke to Rita who had by now got her internal passport and as it was so hot had bought a bikini and headed to Olive Beach in Gorky Park to sunbathe and chill. Weather warming up here today and even an empty tube was hot - will be impossibly hot by end of week. Went into Harrods to pick up body cream and perfume for Rita (always enjoy the eye contact the women assistants give you as you pass through!) and then on a bus to High St Kensington to go Whole Foods - first for a delicious maki roll, shrimp tempura, miso green salad and Asahi Dry beer in one of their restaurants and then to pick up some crab meat and avocados for Thursday when Rita is back. Had a long chat with Rita by phone over lunch who was staying at Olive Beach till 7.30 and then going back to her parents. Then hopped on a No 9 (one of the old fashioned ones with a conductor - much cooler than the one man buses in this weather) to Green Park and tubed home and back by 5. Made an arrangement with a couple on SDC speed dating to meet up on Saturday. Spent evening watching TV and chatting to Rita over the phone. Fancied some scrambled eggs and so exercised my culinary skills - quite a tasty result! Then bed. Woke at 3.30am and couldn't sleep and so read for a couple of hours before dropping back asleep.

16/7 Woke just before 9 and spoke to Rita. Then got up and did some weights and around mid morning drove to Post Office to see if a package I was expecting was there - it wasn't. Then took car for a valet and bought some wine. At home had a quiet evening and spoke to Rita who was stuck in a Moscow traffic jam wondering if she'd get to the airport on time. She made it and the plane only left some 25 mins late. Watched film "Capt. Phillips" before leaving to pick her up from the airport. Chaos at Thurrock bridge with accidents and arrived as Rita came out of airport. I was hungry so we stopped at McDonald's for a snack. Then drove clockwise round M25 to avoid bridge. Home before 1am and was so tired I slid into bed soon followed by Rita. I had an instant erection and we spooned with my cock inside her but too tired to do much more and so we both fell deep asleep.

16/6 Woke at 9 with another erection and we made love and then later had late breakfast in bed. Watched the start of the Open on TV while booking another night at Home House for weekend after next. Rita popped out to get her hair done and some shopping and then back home to do a foot spa. Finalised some contracts for work - good sales day. Then got to grips with Spotify Premium for Rita - much better than iTunes. Spent some time after 4pm in the garden with Rita - it was still very hot. Early evening we decided on a naughty night and so started on the fun. Chatted and Rita couldn't stop laughing. At one part of the evening we fucked and continually played with the toys with each other and watched porn in the background. At varying times I smoked some M and eventually after 2am tidied up the lounge and went to bed. In bed we started to play and at the end of the session I knelt between Rita's wide stretched legs and as she fucked herself with 2 fingers I wanked vigorously until eventually, in a ball of sweat (such a hot night) I came over Rita's fingers in her vagina. I collapsed at that point and took us both some 5 mins to recover (this led to a funny lost in translation the next day as I mentioned to Rita that I think I must have "wanked a kilo" off in weight, to which she said - when did we "drink tequila" - we both collapsed laughing). Then around 4am we fell asleep.

17/6 Woke at 8.30 with a phone call and then past out again till we both woke up after 11.30. For brunch we finished the crab that I bought in Home Foods and then showered and popped into office. Decided to close office as the heat was getting oppressive and sent staff home as it was just as easy for everyone to work from home. Picked up some lemons, limes and fruit on way home. At home Rita decided she wanted to stay at home and watch Despicable Me 2 (which we bought and tried to download last night - but there was an error and so couldn't watch it - we were so high!) which was now working. Went out into the garden with a bottle of Prosecco and sunbathed mostly under the umbrella as the temperature was hitting 30c. Laughed and reminisced about night before and discussed plans for next trip to Moscow for Rita's Mum's 70th. Rita's youngest came home early and was giving Rita the silent treatment - perhaps we were too noisy having fun last night!! Work wise a very quiet afternoon as probably most public sector workers clocked off early due to the heat! We invited V&I round for drinks and they arrived at 7pm and we had a really fun, chatty evening. After midnight Rita popped outside for a smoke and I kept her company and were entertained by a neighbour opposite, who with the windows open because of the heat, was making a huge amount of noise as she was being fucked! Except Iv, we all had fun and around 1.30 am Iv was tired so as they were walking home we joined them as it was such a warm night. We had a drink with them and then walked home smoking M. We had a lot of cheerful remarks from a group of youngsters who could smell it as we passed them! Got home and hit the bed and then fucked and played for over an hour before we fell asleep.

18/7 We woke at 11.30 and had brunch in bed. Mooched around through the day and just before 5 left for London to check in at Home House. Bumped into S in the garden and heard that Giovanni now had a baby! Dropped into R's room and had a drink and chat with her and her Norwegian boyfriend for an hour before heading to Sanderson's for a meal before meeting F and C. Disappointingly they had closed their  Malaysian restaurant and the menu was English banal. We were hungry and so had a token course but never again! Soon after F&C arrived. We drank and tried to chat but music was too loud. R dropped by and soon after we encamped back to Home House and R said she would meet us in Bison Bar there. Had a drink in bar - R didn't turn up. Showed F&C around HH and then ended up dancing for an hour. Then decided to go to room for a little rest and relaxation. The girls got undressed and showered together and then the four of us got naked on the bed and while the girls kissed and played,  F and I fucked our partners from behind. Rita sensed that F wasn't interested in perhaps swapping and so after we had finished we got dressed again, after I showered, and we headed down to The Vault to dance. F&I left after an hour and we carried on till just before 3am. Rita and I shared an M before we hit the bedroom and then spent the next hour or more continuously fucking. Eventually we stopped - both spent.

19/7 We didn't wake till midday and we both had a quiet afternoon and evening watching TV before we hit bed and slept.

       Posted by PICASSO469 Posted on July 20, 2014 View Comments 0      
Fantasy Football
I am doing the fantasy football league again this year. If anyone wants to play, send me an email. It is always fun to involve couples and singles. You do not have to be from Texas to join the league. 
       Posted by MAXNMILFY Posted on July 20, 2014 View Comments 6      
Squirt Action
I am interested in squirting. How does it work. I have never squatted before, that I know of. However, I am multi-orgasmic. Please tell me the squatting secrets….
       Posted by SXYCPL727 Posted on July 18, 2014 View Comments 8      
A male grooming question from a guy
I have a question - mostly for the ladies - about male grooming "down there".

I have noticed that most guys I've seen while swinging shave their entire pubic region including that "triangle" area on top regardless of how much other hair they naturally have.  While that works for some guys who have very little hair to begin with, does anyone else think that looks kind of funny when the guy has a bit of tummy hair above that point?
I'm not real hairy, but I do have a little bit of that "tummy hair", and so my thing has been to shave "the boys" and trim the rest very very close - leaving just enough hair on the "triangle" area to not look like that lawnmower accident (in my opinion).
What looks better, in your opinions, and would you be turned off by finding 1/4" hairs in the "triangle area" if you were about to play with another couple?

       Posted by HORNYNHOLLYWO Posted on July 18, 2014 View Comments 3      
Anal in private
Mrs Horny is a big fan of a Shlong up her tiny little butt, but only in private (so far) any others out there who enjoy it, but only with their SO? 
       Posted by SXYCPL727 Posted on July 18, 2014 View Comments 10      
Will a quality massage table take a pounding?
We're thinking about picking up a massage table, and while the one we're looking at says it''s rated for over 500 lbs, I suspect that rating is for "static weight" of someone laying on it and a masseuse applying normal pressure.  

Has anyone used a massage table for sexy fun?  Will they take a pounding if, say, two humans totaling 300 lbs together are frolicking on one?
The bases look a little flimsy to me.  Wonder if maybe we should build our own -- or maybe start with a pre-made one and beef up the base.
Has anyone here broken a massage table having fun with it?

       Posted by SEXYCHOCOLATE1 Posted on July 18, 2014 View Comments 3      
what to expect for our first time please comment
We are new to this and have been to a swinger club before. So we are just trying to feel our way through this with each and try to decide about soft swing or full swing or can soft swing lead to full swing and what to expect for our first time.
we are
       Posted by TOMANNALONDON Posted on July 18, 2014 View Comments 0      
Tantric Massage
Any recommendations for classy Tantric massage sessions for couples in London welcome...