OK here is the thing... I being on SDC for a few years now and I see this happening over and over again, If you see this on a profile or speedating it is very simple to know what they are looking for right?

Looking for

Soft Swap Couple, Touching or Oral Full Swap Couple, Completely Open Soft Swap Couple, Same Room Only Full Swap Couple, Same Room Only Soft Swap Couple, Girl on Girl Only Bisexual Female Straight Male

Well is not that simple... after communicating with people who have this they respond or have written on their profile NO SINGLES MAN, so let's be clear...Am I crazy or this people doesnt know how to read?

Please if on the options you chose Straight Male be ready to receive straight males communications

Does anyone esle out there think like me?

how many people would be interested in a party in the Jacksonville or Saint Augustine area. Thinking of high end place on beach or private river setting.

Has anyone figured out why most swingers start swinging in their forties.  I have my own theory about that.  I believe that when you're in your twenties and thirties, your mind associates sex as something pleasurable that leads to procreation.  Usually people in their twenties and thirties haven't had enough long term relationships to be able to figure out that sex with the same person gets boring after a while, no matter how great that person is in bed, how attractive they are or how much you love that person.  I think that when you're in your forties usually your kids are grown up enough that you are able to focus more on your sexuality again with the knowledge or myth that the clock is ticking and your sexual performance years may be diminishing soon.  By the time you're in your forties you're better able to appreciate the concept of recreational sex as opposed to relationship sex and you're more prepared to confront your sexual fantasies and make them a reality without worrying about what the rest of society may think about you.
I would like to hear your thought about this.

Like most of you, we're sure you get lots of party invites and they all look like so much fun, we would love to attend them all.  Every one we get gives a detailed description and cost of the party, but never tells us where the party is, I mean just tell us a city so maybe we can plan.  Is it us? Are we missing something in all these invites?

Post your comments on the importance of a swinging lifestyle for a healthy and longterm loving Married Life.

We propose and feel that swinging definitely strengthens and fills spice to anyone Married Life if you can play it how it should be !

Do you agree ?

More and more there are there seems to be a demand for private or public parties... Are you using these avenues to meet people... Give us some venues or new ways to meet people in the lifestyle!!!

More and more there are there seems to be a demand for private or public parties... Are you using these avenues to meet people... Give us some venues or new ways to meet people in the lifestyle!!!

Hi all just wondering what has to be done b4 any1 meets of this site, just seems to us that it's all about emailing back and forth for the longist time without any meet set up...so fustraighting OMG..

A and M

Hi all just wondering what has to be done b4 any1 meets of this site, just seems to us that it's all about emailing back and forth for the longist time without any meet set up...so fustraighting OMG..

A and M

While "no drama" and "laid back" appear to describe the same type of person (non-confrontational and passive). I am beginning to wonder.

Could it be that by "no drama" members really mean the opposite (pushy and aggressive)?

I understand why someone would describe themselves as "laid back," if they really are non-aggressive "live and let live" type people, but what is the point of saying "no drama"? Is there really anyone out there looking for couples to partner up with that will bring lots and lots of emotional baggage? That's why I am thinking that what "no drama" really means is something like this: "Don't get all bent out of shape when I grab your ass without asking permission."

Looking for some ideas on alibis for what we are upto when doing lifestyle activities. For instance for an upcoming trip to Desire we need to come up with which resort did we go to, where are the pictures etc. What do you folks typically do?

Just shaking my head reading all the "labeling" of who's conservative or liberal plus their staunch defense of it, like it really describes who they are and everyone else is wrong for thinking otherwise.

Years ago when I when I initially moved to Florida I was host of a daily drive time political talk show on a radio station. Many of my guests gave the usual mumbo jumbo about politics but a few others really educated me about how it's really just a platform to garner the votes from people who are living their lives in a constant state of fear. Porter Goss was a guest on my show 6-7 times then went on to become Bush's CIA director. My military insider knowledge came from my best friend of over 30 years who before his death served as a full Colonel in the USAF in CENTCOM and ironically was the one who introduced me to swinging.

Like a good preacher "putting the fear of God into you", these politicians design their speeches to incite your phobias. Doesn't matter if your Republican or Democrat. It's a way of guaranteeing not only that you will show up to vote but cast it for them as well. The majority of them really don't care about you individually..even on a level as low as a congressman or senator wouldn't take the time to hear your rant face to face instead using a suboordinate to respond to you unless it was an issue that gave them FaceTime in front of the media.

Think about it, if they wanted everyone to vote, would elections be in November?? How about independence day, July 4th instead. Better weather for sure for starters. Why is it possible for us to pay taxes online but not vote? Voting was traditionally done by the wealthy...when it was opened to the general public, women and minorities new rules like gerrymandering had to be enforced or the electoral college to ensure these minions couldn't upset the annual cash flow pipeline to the wealthy.

Republican vs Democrat...please...all depends on your "current situation". That situation is constantly changing or evolving. When I was college bound Jimmy Carter was great since it provided me to attend on full academic scholarship. When I was in business for myself years later Bush helped me keep a lot of my money rather than paying taxes.

If you think by labeling yourself a conservative or Republican when you aren't financially set..ie..making upwards of over a million annually, you still need some liberal Democratic help. Conversely  if you are thinking of maximizing your money in the business you OWN and you are a staunch Democrat...you would do yourself a huge favor to pony up some Republican investors.

This country was and shall always be run on the sacrifices of poor people. Definition of poor, a family making less than six figures and that number is growing rapidly. Poor meaning everything that happens in the economy changes the way you live. People who boast they are rich are really the new middle class. Financial shifts affect them but aren't earth shaking, at least not immediately..but a couple similtaneously will rock their foundation. Wealth versus rich...wealthy people wake up in the morning checking to see how much money they made while they were asleep...self proclaimed rich people still have to go to work to make their money.

Finally, if you are reading on this forum you aren't conservative about anything, more just a selective fan...you may say you do not want someone not of your race, religion, social class living nextdoor when talking to your vanilla colleagues. But what would those same people say if they knew the REAL YOU. I know you don't think I chose this site or lifestyle to find out about what kind of cretin you are during the daytime in the public eye. Who cares if you're the wife of Limbaugh, Chavez, Obama....if we're at a club and Sarah Palin is making eyes at me....I'm fucking her..and making her squirt.

Well, Friday night at Club Amante was a sucess. "A" got fucked from 11 pm to 3:30 pm by 12-14 guys of all shapes, sizes and races. 4 of the guys fucked her multiple times. It was a turn on watching her get fucked, suck cock and come over and over. She got off walking around in her shelf bra, open crotch g-string panty garter, black stockings and strap on high heels and tease the guys in the hall.
She missed getting fucked in the ass and DP's that she gets in a private GB. Hopefully next time.

Any of you guys out there that can set up a GB in the NY area with at least 10 uninhibited well built and well hung males, that want to be active participants not gawkers get in touch...     

We started our adventure into this wonderful world of kink on Friday, November 25th at Club Amante in Brooklyn.
I guess we were a little nervous, he, because it has been a while, she, because it was her first time. Would she hate it and never want to play again.
No worries, she took to it like a fish to water. She was fucked by four guys, two of the guys fucked her three times each (horny toads). Sooo hottt!!!!
On Sunday, November 27th we were so horny that we invited two guys we met on BDSM.com to the house for an entre into the world of BDSM. How cool. She loved it. She is turning into the slut, sex slave we both fantasized about. we partied for over 3 hours.
Oh my!!! This is so hot...
Our guest has told us he can arrange a real Gang Bang, well its a go. We are setting it up for Saturday, December 3rd at the house.
Oh my god, 17 guys plus "S". "A" wants each guy to fuck her with a condom, of course, but doesn't want to waste all that cum. Simple solution, she wants to swallow it all.
Vaginal, anal, DP's, TP's, deep throat, swallowing cum... "A" really doesn't just try it all, she really loves it all.
The GB went on for over 4 hours with "A" only taking a two minute pee break. WOW!!!! Most of the guys came twice and almost everyone banged the hell out of her ass. She kept coming, amazing..
Surprise, surprise, I arranged for "A's" first real BDSM experience with an experienced Dom, right after the Gang Bang. She had to be "punished" for liking her GB so much, didn't she .
She loved it and her black and blue ass is a sight to behold. Well, I have been keeping the mood going by spanking her every night and making sure we keep the color from fading. Why???
Tonight (Friday, December 9th) we are going back to Club Amante for a public Gang Bang and "A" is turned on to getting fucked in any hole by many complete strangers in a public setting and everyone knowing that she is a submissive slut that likes to get her ass fucked up too.     

Are you hiding your age? Yes?

Nothing wrong with that
Our question is very simple...

How many years you hide here at SDC?
Come on ladies. Be honest.
This is a poll. No one can see your answer

Just giving everyone a heads up. We are scheduling our next GANG BANG of April for Friday night, February 10th, 8 PM and Saturday AM, until checkout at 11 AM.
Clear your calendars and show up and fuck the night away.
We received a lot of, oh sorry I couldn't make it last time, but I really want to join you guys the next time. Well lets see how many of you are real...
It will take place at te Affinia Eastgate Tower Hotel @ 222 E 39th Street, NYC and we will post the room number on this blog after we check in on the afternoon of the Gang Bang...

We are looking for a Black "Master" to finalize her transformation into a sex slave/slut. He wants to give her to a well hung black dominant for training and testing her limits on a regular basis (once a week).
Do you have the equipment to use on her, the experience to control her (she loves to be restrained), spank, paddle, whip, cane and crop her ass black and blue and welted by building up her pain threshhold. (See pictures in profile)
Do you have well hung black friends to pass her around to, help you dominate her and use her. Do you have a favorite bar or club that you can take her to and hand her out to be used by anyone that wants her. She loves to swallow cum and suck hard cocks. Everyone must use a condom when they fuck her pussy and her ass, but when they are ready to come, don't waste it, peel the condoms and shoot on her body, her face or down her throat.
After she has been a real slut, will you reward/punish her and reinforce that she is to always think like a slut and fuck or suck anyone she is told to.
We are both turned on to the idea of my dropping her off to you, giving her to you, and picking her up when you are "done" with her. This could be for a few hours, overnight or a few days if you arrange things.
She loves the idea of being a submissive slut/sex slave to groups of men like at card games, bachelor parties, conventions, bars and clubs, etc., can you set that up with groups of black males...
Taboos: No smacking the head or face, hair pulling ok. No piercings, punching and extreme pain, pain ok.
Must set up safe words at onset.
If you are the MAN, get back to us.....

I am a submissive female, who loves sex in every variation. The more sex I have, the more I come, the hotter I get and the more cock I want. I am testing my limits constantly and oops, I haven't hit any yet, except for extreme pain. Bondage, spanking,paddling and whipping, mmmm.
I want to please my partner and become the slut/sex slave of our fantasies. We both love having big, hard cocks fuck me in every one of my orifices. I love DP's, TP's and especially in my ass.
We practice safe sex only, no penetration (ass or pussy) without a condom, but we hate to waste all that protein, so when you are ready to come, peel off the condom and blow your loads on her body, face and down her throat, she loves to swallow