A: Since 2004 until 2008.

2. Why did you get into the lifestyle?

A: Curiosity, excitement, and to explore our sexuality.

3. Who (man or woman) initiated the desire to be in the lifestyle?

A: man.

4. How did your partner express to you their desire to be in the lifestyle?

A: with excitement and curiosity.

5. Did it feel awkward at any time watching your partner with someone else?

A: not at all... it actually was a big turn on!

6. Did you ever feel jealous or insecure, and if so, how did you control it?

A: for split seconds I did, but I focused on the moment and reassured our conform and the night went on...

7. Has the lifestyle strengthened or weakened your relationship?

A: it actually ignited our sex life and strengthened our bond; however, years after and for other reasons we separated.

8. Do you and your partner periodically discuss if the lifestyle is right for you?  

A: oh yeah, pretty often... I believe it's important to always re-validate that you are both in the same page.

9. If you were not in the lifestyle, what do you think your relationship would be like today with your partner?

A: hummm... though one to say, but perhaps living a simple and boring vanilla life only fantasizing about it.

10. If you could do it all over again, would you get into the lifestyle or not?

A: Absolutely!