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       Posted by MAC5 Posted on May 14, 2009 View Comments 1      
shy indian cple ,needing advise

hi we are a sexy attaractive indian cple,just got my wife to go the swinger clubs after many many years,up to know she has been very reluctant but resently she has looked keen and forward going to them,not yet started swinging,as she thinks it is wrong but have noticed a major change,she is now keen to meet swinger cpls only as friends and after drinkin she starts to flirt and shows her tits,i would really like some insight from other females wheather my wife who was very shy turning to a hot wife and how will she change and once she starts soft swinging what can i expect.

 

       Posted by REVERENDPEARLS Posted on May 8, 2009 View Comments 2      
Couple wants to rent room in large house with pool/jacuzzi and Eye Candy
Hi, is there a way to find a couple or group that has a room they want to rent out to a couple so they can save some money?  Would love a situation that involves a large enough house so everyone has space, but with the opportunity to see each other naked to create a sexy environment without the pressure of having to engage in sexual conduct. The dream scenario would include a large in ground pool and jacuzzi and a backyard with grill that is very private so if you wanted to go swimming in either very little clothing or nothing at all. Just thought there may be a way of finding a couple that wanted to save money and create a sexy in home environment with a couple that they get along with, but don't want to complicate things by becoming sexually involved. Simply a tease and be teased situation that includes getting a set amount per month to go towards their bills. Does it sound crazy, or is there a way of finding just such a situation in the Dallas area?
       Posted by AMANDISIMOS Posted on May 4, 2009 View Comments 0      
Any swinger in San Miguel Azores?

Hello,

We will visit San Miguel Azores at the end of May. There is any swinger couple in San Miguel?

We are a couple, open-minded, and would like to find someone else in the island.

There is something we can do to find?

Thanks a lot

Amanda and Miguel

amandisimos@gmail.com

Thanks again

 

       Posted by NJCURIOUSCPL Posted on April 21, 2009 View Comments 3      
New to swinging and the experience

My wife and I have just recently decided to, um, I guess the best way to say is, swinging. We are trying to understand about how to meet new people and what happens when we do.

I guess we need a little guide on swinging in a nutshell, lol. Any help or assistance would be great.

       Posted by HUME65 Posted on April 4, 2009 View Comments 4      
some left jealosuy

We have long discussed and practised swinging as a way to spice up our sexual life and in fact it has actually improved our own non-swing sex.

After a few years of swinging (normally every 4-6 weeks) however, she still feels some jealousy when she sees him having sex with another woman and is a bit nervous the evenings when a meeting or a club visit is planned.

Do you have any suggestions?

 

       Posted by RUSSIANBABE1 Posted on April 4, 2009 View Comments 1      
i need a help!!
hi we v been together for 4 years and swing. now we split up for good. all wat we planed ll never happiend. i love to swing and meet people who love same. dont now how i do that if i am ll be as a singel girl?? thank u .
       Posted by LADYNICHOLS20 Posted on March 29, 2009 View Comments 4      
I
I am a married woman that needs to get some understanding as to why am I craving the touch of a woman.  I was in a committed relationship with a sexy woman about 8 years ago. But now I cant seem to get this feeling out. Don't get me wrong I love the way a man can make love to me but to have a woman caress  you with their hand and to have them tickle you with their tongue is just like heaven. And how can I get my husband to join in.
       Posted by YAMSIKISS Posted on March 26, 2009 View Comments 1      
Older, and losing younger partner because of emasculation
This is an age question, very frustrating.  I am an older guy, 58, but stilll able to hold my own.  For the past 6 or 7 months, I have been involved with a younger 40 Year old, very hot, blonde, who although a fairly recent devotee of the lifestyle, it has completely dominated her life, and has been her dream. I am committed to helping her realize this dream, and sex between us has been great. UNTIL, she started becoming very active and has really broadened her circle of ls friends.  She is very intelligent, and knows what she wants, the problem, we can't swing together because of my old fashioned set of morals and values. I have accepted everything, except the thought of her in another mans arms, then I start becoming emasculated, to a point of not being able to have an erection.  How can I overcome this one problem, it is devesatating our relationship, and I have tried everything.  I am content to let her play alone, but this one factor is ruining the whole thing, anyone else have problems like this, if so, PLEASE help.
       Posted by HERE2DARE Posted on March 23, 2009 View Comments 1      
desire passes

hello counselor.

how does the day or night passes work at desire?

       Posted by PARDOM Posted on February 28, 2009 View Comments 1      
Lugares
Nos gustaria saber si en sao pablo brasil hay playa nudista y cuales son y cual lugar swinguer nos recomienda y si conoce alguna pareja socia para que nos la recomiende
       Posted by HUME65 Posted on February 22, 2009 View Comments 2      
how to understand if friends could be interested in lifestyle?

How is it possible to enquire about a potential attitude/interest of "normal friends" to join lifestyle without losing friendship in case they are not interested?

tks ciao

silvia+alberto

 

       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      
hola

somos una pareja de new sersey y quisieramos saber done queda un sitio swinger serca ya que que nos gustaria pertenecer a esta ambiente .

muchas gracias

       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      
hola

somos una pareja de new sersey y quisieramos saber done queda un sitio swinger serca ya que que nos gustaria pertenecer a esta ambiente .

muchas gracias

       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      
hola amigos

hola somos una pareja con muy poca experiencia en lo swinger, quisieramos saber por favor donde queda un club o sitio  swinger en new jersey. nuestro problema es que no hablamos bien el ingles.

gracias de antemano por curquier informacion. 

       Posted by BARALA Posted on February 12, 2009 View Comments 2      
Can't Get Started
I am a 46 year old man who has been married for 16 years. My wife and I have shared fantasies of swinging/swapping the whole time we have been together. The problem is after all this time, she is not willing to go the next step and make it a reality. We did visit an on-premise club a little over a year ago. We had sex next to another couple, with a little light petting between couples, and we both enjoyed it. But right after that night she stated that it would never happen again. She stills likes to fantasize, but it is driving me crazy. I love my wife, and have no intentions of leaving her. But I am also not getting any younger. I REALLY want to experience some swapping and group situations before it's too late. What's my next move? Is it okay to set up a meet and "spring" it on her in the hope that she will follow thru? Should I just try to do it on the sly(not really what I want but getting desperate)?
       Posted by DESEOSO36 Posted on February 11, 2009 View Comments 1      
informacion
hola quisiera informacion de club swinger en caracas venezuela quisieramos asistir a un encuentro real
       Posted by ATLFUNGUY Posted on February 10, 2009 View Comments 1      
broken rules

Elvis, I have been reading many of the questions and comments on here and find many of them very intersting but not really helpful in my situation.  My husband and I  have been married 20+ years.  We started swinging about 3 1/2  years ago.  I really wasn't wanting to but decided to so as to please my husband.  About 7 months ago we both wanted to try out "hall passes" with the agreement that the other knew in advance and gave permission for the pass.  We wanted to try it to see if it was something for us.  There was to be NO MEETING OR PLAYING if the other did not know in advance.  I had my first experience a few months ago.  My husband helped set it up so they knew in advance and even spoke to the other person participating.  He was even on the phone for most of the nite while I was enjoying myself.  Everything was above board. 

I found out later that he had another account listed as single.  I also found out that he had used this to "MEET" others without my knowledge.  I also found out that he was listed on other sites as a single and had us as a couple without me knowing it.  He says nothing happened on the "meet" but how do I trust that.  OUR aggreement was we were to have full disclosure.  I have been very open and honest about all of my conversations.  I copy and paste most of my conversations and send them to him.  He does not reciprocate and that also is apart of our aggreement.  Those are the rules that he set forth.  I really could use some advice on this.  I am ready to leave the lifestyle and him.  Not looking for a marriage saver from anyone.  Just looking for some input.  I appreciate anything you can give me.  Thanks.

       Posted by MUCH63 Posted on February 9, 2009 View Comments 0      
Acapulco fun
Hello, we will visitng Acapulco on this weekend any idea of swinger clubs or nude beaches on Aca?
       Posted by COPPIAFI Posted on February 8, 2009 View Comments 0      
Club in London
Which are the best clubs or parties in London considering that we don't like to find single men (at least not too many we don't like them)?
       Posted by PAREJA69VEN Posted on February 4, 2009 View Comments 3      
Visiting Orlando area - Visitando el area de Orlando

Hi , we are a Venezuelan couple and we will be visiting Florida (Orlando) in April , we do not have experience about swinging but we are very curious and are exploring the lifestyle , we want to go to a swinging club in this area , where we can enjoy the enviroment , see some people in action and maybe have some soft participation. Which club can you recomend us according to our situation and experience?

Thanks

Luis & Amanda

 

Hola , somos una pareja venezolana , que visitara el area de Orlando en Abril , no tenemos experiencia swinger pero si estamos muy curiosos , y queremos explorar este estilo de vida, queremos ir a un club swinger , donde podamos disfrutar del ambiente , ver personas en accion y quizas tener particpacion pasiva. Cual club nos recomiendas en el area de acuerdo a nuestra experiencia que es muy baja?

Gracias

Saludos

Luis & Amanda