My husband and I are relatively new to this lifestyle and enjoy it. The other night we were drinking and approached a couple that were very sexually flirtatious at our house that we have known for quite a while to find out that they were interested but uncertain. He is a lawyer and now were are concerned that if they panic there may be problems. I had a debate with another individual that this lifestyle may be illegal. Is it? Could a person lose their job over it?

Hi, my husband and I are going to Vegas Sept. 3-6, and would love to party.  Do you know where we could meet other couples and enjoy a night of uninhibited pleasure.

Dear Elvis: We (the couple) are very exited about swinging.  We are worried about the hygene and health safety issues.  With so many diseases prevailing we are apprehensive, although we can't contain our exitement.  I am sure this a pressing issue with most people, how are others able to calm this concern.  What are we missing?

Hi, My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a year now and we have been to a couple of clubs and a convention, but don't know where to find out about house parties in our area. Is there a place on SDC.com that lists some.

i submitted a picture were is it? 

Why are most coupkes and females not interested in single males  99% of them and the ones that say interested in single male rarely answer emails.

Hello Eric, Is there a high incidence of contagion of stds or yeast infections or other diseases from oral sex or women on women in the lifestyle? Thank you, it is something that seems it might be an issue.. no?

Hi my name is sandra.I was wondering what place do you recomend to go and have my pubic hair remove.I want a nice thin line.

My husband and I have been married since 7/17/06 not long. We have only known eachother for 6 months. He is from Israel I am American. He is from a functional family I am from a completely dysfunctional family and I am well aware of my personal issues with esteem and self love and working on them daily. To add to our challenges we have chosen a soft swing lifestyle. I love women almost as much as my husband as I am very bisexual. He does not feel threatened but can not allow another man to even touch me which I like because I dont want them to. Lately, I feel a lack of support from him ,emotional support. I stress the word feel as i dont know if this is my esteem issues croping up or if he really is being less supportive. I also have a very high sex drive and he turns me down a lot and seems turned off if I come on too strong, but meanwhile, ALWAYS is in the mood to browse chat and meet and have sex if it involves other people.  He also is into dominatrix types so Im confused by his response when I get aggressive. I could saiy much more but i am trying to stick to short and simple.

HI SO WE R VERY NEW AT THIS. WE WOULD LOVE TO GO TO A CLUB AND PARTIES.  WHAT R THE BEST ONES AND R THE PARTIES BETTER THEN JUST GOING TO THE CLUB, CAUSE CAN YOU ONLY DO SO MUCH IN A CLUB? WHAT DO YOU SUJEST?

I was with chat with someone who says couple. I russian, they send bad message in Russian and start bad language. I only want contact, no problem. Why this person so bad? E

Please help me get more swing action. My profile is hot and sexy, but why am I not getting enough action?

I just joined a few weeks ago and became a full member - Please give myself some information on how to get around this site or a little more information on how to successfully e-mail or contact others ie: find local clubs or small groups to get started meeting others in lifestyle ?  Not sure if e-mails are being recieved or speed dating being effective ?   Joined another site in past without these problems!  Thanks - John

how to give my hubby the best one ever

Does oral sex possess danger of transmission of HIV ?

When so many people are playing with out condoms , married 18yrs have not  worried about pregnacy or getting something , We all want to have fun and we demand safe sex , but so much talk about fluids  oral and we see so many pics with no condom use as well as at the clubs and on vacation it was scary.

SDC seems to be a sie dedicated couples seeking other couples to swing with. I am a single male seeking single females - straight or bi to connect with. Most of your membership are not interested in single males, bt in single females are welcome. So, I feel like I don't really fit into your club.

HELLO ELVIS MY QUESTION IS THE FOLLOWING. MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR SIX YEARS WE STARTED TALKING ABOUT SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN AFTER STRIP CLUBS A YEAR LATER SHE LOVES WOMAN AND SHE HAS DEMONSTRATED IT AND I LOVE TO SEE HER WITH OTHER WOMAN. WE DISCUSS EVERYTHING AND FANTASIZE ALOT. BUT I KNOW SHE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANOTHER MAN. EVER SINCE WE BECAME SDC MEMBERS I HAVE STARTED TO FANTASIZE ALOT OF SEEING HER MAKE LOVE WITH A COUPLE HAVE THE GUY DO HER WHILE SHE EATS THE GIRL BUT EVERYTIME I TRY TO LET HER KNOW THAT IT WOULD BE OK WITH ME I THINK SHE GETS OFFENDED. SO MY ? IS HOW CAN I DISCUSS IT WITH HER WITHOUT OFFENDING HER.

I have been a bifemale for 20 or more years. I am very curious about the swinging lifestyle, it is hard for me to get the nerve to come to a party or club. I like to go out on my own. I have been with one married couple and enjoyed it. They were very helpful and respectful.

WE HAVE GONE TO MV AND IT SEEMS TO BE LOTS OF FUN BUT PEOPLE ARE NOT TO FRIENDLY.  IS THERE SOMETHING WE CAN DO TO ATTRACT COUPLES TO SPEAK TO US?  WE ARE LOST, SO YOU REALIZE WE ARE NEW AT THIS AND WE DON'T WANT TO BE DISRESPECTFUL TO ANYONE.