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From threesomes to orgies, group sex is a big part of the swinging lifestyle and a gateway experience for many swinger couples. Get tips on how to have a threesome, how to plan a gangbang, how to find a unicorn, and more. Find out how to meet sexy swingers near you to hook up with, and explore SDC's swingers parties and swingers clubs listings.
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It’s Time to Talk About Lube Shaming
Using lube is normal — and it shouldn't be shameful. Here's why.

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The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Embrace romance and sexy adventures at these unique BNBs around the world.

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BNB Rules Around the World
We have more vacation rental options than ever before, but the rules and regulations vary widely by type and location. Read on for more worldwide insights.


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All You Need to Know About Love Hotels
From the once-considered seedy places to now more luxurious spaces to rent for 1 hour to overnight, Love Hotels are gaining in popularity worldwide.

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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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SDC Launches New Commission-Free BNB Service
SDC.com, the world’s largest international dating website and app for open-minded couples and singles, has launched a new service for short-term rentals and travel accommodations: SDC BNB.


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New Book! An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Renowned erotic educator Taylor K. Sparks releases new book that helps African-Americans understand alternative love styles

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Misconceptions
People in the open lifestyle are barraged with a lot of misconceptions about us and our relationships. Here are five big ones.

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Lifestyle Parties with a Kandi Twist
If you take a glamorous swinger lifestyle event and mix it with the insatiable excitement of Las Vegas, what do you get?


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How to Party and Be Ready to Play!
How to enjoy the swinger lifestyle party and be ready for the bedroom

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3 Orgasmic Must-Have Sex Toys for Sizzling Sex
Supercharge your orgasms together with these bestselling toys.

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The Secret to Explosive Orgasms? This Vibe Will Blow Your Mind!
Get ready for liftoff and enjoy earth-shattering pleasure together.


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8 Qualities of Great Sex
What is great sex? Are you having great sex? Learn the 8 Qualities of Great Sex here!

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World’s Largest Open Dating Site Becomes Title Sponsor for Awards Show
ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards has named SDC.com as their new title sponsor for this year’s annual awards show.

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This Type of Sex is Not for Everyone!
Board Certified Relationship, Intimacy and Sex Education Coach Fox, shares his long history in open relationships and how the lifestyle is not for everyone.