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Discover your kinky side with BDSM! The erotic world of BDSM includes Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission and Sadomasochism, and many more kinks and fetishes. Learn about the BDSM community, including BDSM parties near you, and important BDSM guidelines to make your kinky playtime safer and more enjoyable for everyone involved.
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I'm TJ, Founder of TheG00dFellaz, and This is My Story
TJ has an honorable approach to the lifestyle and has curated a team of Men of Color to help fulfill a range of fantasies. Read on for his story and to learn more about TheG00dFellaz.

Our First Real Cuckold Experience
Read the story of how one of our members realized he was born to be a cuckold.

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Staying Sexy During Self-Isolation
We’re all conscious of the Coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic that’s swept the world. So, what are we horny folks to do in times like these? Find our pleasures anywhere we can get them, of course!


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Newbie Guide: Lifestyle Club Etiquette
Follow these guidelines, and you're sure to feel right at home at your local LS club.

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Newbie Guide: What a Lifestyle Club Is — & Isn't
An LS club is a safe space for those who want to explore themselves as much as exploring the boundaries of their relationships.

Featured Resource: SDC Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
John & Jackie Melfi of Colette lifestyle clubs have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to one before or are a seasoned pro.


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Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice & Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Find out how Tom and Bunny use Motorbunny to meet — and please — new people in the swinging lifestyle

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Our First Group Sex in Cancun
This couple reignited their sex life with a swingtastic trip to Mexico!

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ASN Interview: Meet Krazy Kasbh Lifestyle Group
Multimedia LS group Krazy Kasbh has a simple goal: to make the Lifestyle better by decreasing exclusivity. Read on for their story.


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A Non-Monogamy Lexicon
Cooper shares his in-depth Swinging Lifestyle glossary in this handy guide for anyone practicing consensual non-monogamy.

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Hotwife Story WINNER: My Hotel Threesome
Here it is, the winner of SDC's "My Hottest Hotwife Experience!" erotic writing contest!

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Taylor Sparks: Erotic Educator & Organic Loven Founder
Read ASN Lifestyle Magazine's interview with Taylor Sparks, erotic educator, sex goddess, and founder of Organic Loven pleasurable intimate products.


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Birthday Bukkake for the Hotwife!
This lucky hotwife got the birthday surprise from her husband that they still fantasize about to this day.

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Valentine's Day Gangbang Gift
She wanted a bevvy of thick cocks for Valentine’s Day, and her husband went above and beyond to thoroughly fill her fantasy — and every hole.

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Gangbang, Group Sex, or Threesome: The Differences & Similarities
Gang bang, group sex or threesome: the difference and the similarities