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Sex for Sale

Dr. Jess     
Sex is a commodity.

Steven Soderbergh's The Girlfriend Experience Is All Business

Sex is a commodity. It can be bought and sold like any other product and is subject to the complexities and volatilities of the free market economy. Steven Soderbergh's The Girlfriend Experience, explores the obvious relationship between sex and economic trade through a glimpse into a few days in the life of Chelsea, a high-end New York call girl.

The truth about sex workers

Those who know little about sex work often accuse workers of selling their bodies -- Chelsea sells an experience. Transactions with clients appear like any other movie-made date scene with dinner, wine, awkward silences, snuggling and a superficial discussion of current affairs. But The Girlfriend Experience, despite Grey's professionally earned, genuine sex appeal, lacks the sexiness and glam of your typical film. The transactional element of sex strips away the potential for the perfect Hollywood experience and reveals the uncomfortable realities of clammy hands, religiously dictated inhibitions and the impact of practical stresses on the (not-so) sexual experience.

The challenge of maintaining boundaries between personal and professional is intensified in a field that draws upon the most fundamental of personal needs. However, it is Sasha's live-in boyfriend, Chris, who really struggles to define such boundaries in his work as a personal trainer. Though all subtlety is lost in the obvious disparity between Chris' hard selling of himself and Chelsea's dispassionate approach, Soderbergh effectively normalizes the sale of sex by a woman in an otherwise committed relationship and realistically highlights her motivation for selling sex: money.

For those anticipating a soft-core version of Grey's previous work, disappointment awaits. Like real-life sex work, The Girlfriend Experience is more about an entrepreneur's struggle to survive during an economic downtown than hedonistic pleasure. Admirably, Soderbergh not only avoids having Chelsea meet a tragic downfall or a gallant rescue, but also resists the temptation to frame her as an empowering hero. Like real-life women who sell sex, she is a multi-dimensional woman, salesperson, capitalist, daughter, lover and friend.

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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