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Masturbation

Self-pleasure is a fantastic way to get to know your body and what you enjoy sexually. Whether you prefer masturbating alone or in front of your lover(s), discover how to enhance your masturbation experiences to maximize your pleasure, ways to experiment with sex toys, and more.
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It’s Time to Talk About Lube Shaming
Using lube is normal — and it shouldn't be shameful. Here's why.

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Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon
Lexi talks all things fantasy with René Moon in this exclusive interview.

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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.


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The Perils of Personal Silicone Lubricant: Why Health Matters
In the realm of intimate products, silicone-based lubricants have gained popularity due to their smooth texture and long-lasting capabilities. However, beneath the allure of convenience lies a concerning truth: personal silicone lubricants may not be the healthiest option for intimate use.

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Help, I'm Addicted to Porn!
When porn addiction... ain't what it seems

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Masturbation Mastery
Masturbation not only feels good — it’s also good for your health!


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3 Orgasmic Must-Have Sex Toys for Sizzling Sex
Supercharge your orgasms together with these bestselling toys.

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The Secret to Explosive Orgasms? This Vibe Will Blow Your Mind!
Get ready for liftoff and enjoy earth-shattering pleasure together.

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Put a Ring on It: The New Travel-Sized Wearable Vibrator You’ll Both Love
Pocket this pleasure enhancer and enjoy orgasms wherever you may roam.


Lexi Sylver
Lexi Sylver Interview: Exploring Her Lexuality
Get Lexual with Lexi Sylver and learn about how this one-woman powerhouse is helping open-minded lifestylers like you live the life you desire with erotic stories, coaching, and more.

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Everything You (N)Ever Wanted to Know About Penises!
Sex Therapist and "Connoisseur of Dicks" Stephanie Sigler schools us with these phallic facts.

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8 Qualities of Great Sex
What is great sex? Are you having great sex? Learn the 8 Qualities of Great Sex here!


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Establishing Boundaries with Primary Partners
Stephanie Sigler of Evolve Your Intimacy talks about boundaries here in The Relationship Contract.

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Your Brain on BDSM: The Psychology Behind the Scenes
Does the thought of BDSM turn you on? If you answered yes to that question, why does it turn you on? Understanding your body and how it works can and most definitely will lead to amazing sex!

SDC Kinkmas 2023
12 Days of Kinkmas Calendar
Swingers love gifts as much as anyone, so we created the sexiest countdown to Christmas — a Kinkmas calendar!