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Say AAH! From cunnilingus tips to blow job techniques, become an oral sex legend with our expert advice. Learn about ways to stimulate your lovers using your mouth, how oral sex can enhance your sexual experiences, how to have safe oral sex, and more.
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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.

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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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New Book! An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Renowned erotic educator Taylor K. Sparks releases new book that helps African-Americans understand alternative love styles


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3 Orgasmic Must-Have Sex Toys for Sizzling Sex
Supercharge your orgasms together with these bestselling toys.

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The Secret to Explosive Orgasms? This Vibe Will Blow Your Mind!
Get ready for liftoff and enjoy earth-shattering pleasure together.

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Put a Ring on It: The New Travel-Sized Wearable Vibrator You’ll Both Love
Pocket this pleasure enhancer and enjoy orgasms wherever you may roam.


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8 Qualities of Great Sex
What is great sex? Are you having great sex? Learn the 8 Qualities of Great Sex here!

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Your Brain on BDSM: The Psychology Behind the Scenes
Does the thought of BDSM turn you on? If you answered yes to that question, why does it turn you on? Understanding your body and how it works can and most definitely will lead to amazing sex!

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Must-Know Facts About STIs
Sexy folk can get sexually transmitted infections. So, singles and couples, you'll want to learn how to maintain a healthy sex life!


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12 Days of Kinkmas Calendar
Swingers love gifts as much as anyone, so we created the sexiest countdown to Christmas — a Kinkmas calendar!

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The Best Sex Toys for Couples
Sex tech keeps churning out amazing toys that take pleasure to new levels, and MysteryVibe’s collection is on my must-have list this holiday season. Here’s why!

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The Only Vibrator for Men Designed with Her in Mind
Discover the award-winning couples sex toy that’s wearable, adaptable, and powerfully pleasurable for him AND her!


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Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.

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Too Hot? Try Temperature Play
Too hot? Too cold? Let Lexi introduce you to temperature play!

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Today’s Idea of Sexual “Protection” Has Changed
We can learn a lot from what the lifestyle was like in the '80s when looking at this pandemic and how we will get through it as a community.