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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
SDC ASN Lifestyle Magazine Kinky Koach TOMCAT Active Listening Communication
Can TOMCAT Help Your Relationship?
Kinky Koach shares the TOMCAT method of active listening and how it can improve relationship communication.

SDC Lexi Sylver Sexual Health Personal Lubricant Anal Sex Toys
4 Lube Myths Debunked
Lexi Sylver breaks down the 4 biggest myths about lube and shares her tips on living your slipperiest, most Lexual, and pleasurable sex life.

Sexy Mayan Neon Lady SSX 2021 SDC Swinger Event
SSX 2021 — Live Events are Back!
Sexperience 2021 had the sexiest crowd ever, ushering in the return of live and in-person swinging lifestyle events, parties, and more!

SDC Checkmate NYC LA Swingers Club
Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Pool
Not Exactly the "Vanilla" Couple We Thought!
What was supposed to be a vanilla evening of wine and dinner with friends turned into a salacious time in the pool.

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Massage Threesome Fantasies
Wet, Hot Weekend: Wet & Wild Story WINNER!
This work-weary couple was determined to make the most of their weekend escape, and they fulfilled fantasies, found sweet release, and created delicious memories.

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Erotic Massage Breast Health Couple
Breast Massage at Orgasm
This couple was learning massage techniques to increase breast firmness and size, but they both became so aroused that the method became part of their sexual exploration!

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Boudoir Photography Full Swap
A Photoshoot to Never Forget
She retells their unforgettable 16th-anniversary boudoir shoot swinging experience to her husband in this fantasy come true.

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Couple Ritual Massage
Tub Time
They washed away the stress as he gave her the deep, sensory release she so craved.

SDC Member Story Amateur Erotica Swingers Vacation Pool Blowjob Group Sex Gangbang Squirting
Wet and Wild Vacation: Poolside Gangbang
She lets loose on vacation, and this poolside gangbang left her soaking wet — in more ways than one!

SDC Sex Positive Me Dark Tantra BDSM
Dark Tantra
Have you ever been curious about the spiritual side of BDSM and Tantra? Yes, there is a spiritual connection with both. We will be exploring them in Dark Tantra.

Lexi Sylver Webinar Swinger Club Parties Etiquette
Swinging 101: Swingers Clubs & Parties Etiquette
Learn more about the season finale of Swinging 101 Season 1: Swingers Clubs and Parties Etiquette on May 15th, 2021 at 8pm ET.

SDC My Sexiest Valentines Day Swinger Stories Writing Contest Hotwife Threesome
My Sexiest Hotwife Valentine’s Day
Her first time hotwifing happened on Valentine’s Day, making it an especially memorable holiday full of deliciously endowed pleasure.

SDC My Sexiest Valentines Day Swinger Stories Writing Contest Swinging Newbies Secrets Hideaway
An Introduction to Swinging at Secrets Hideaway
This newbie couple decided to catch a glimpse of the world of swinging at a swing club and “just watch.” Let’s just say they ended up burying more than secrets...

SDC My Sexiest Valentines Day Swinger Stories Writing Contest Strip Club Party Hotel Takeover
Valentine's Weekend Swinger Strip Club & Hotel Takeover
This couple decided to go all out at a swingers lifestyle party at a gentlemen's club and hotel takeover on a Valentine's Day weekend, and they sure are glad they overcame their hesitation!