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I is for Icing, Iconolagnia, Interfemoral Intercourse, Ithyphallophobia and Intersex

Dr. Jess     
Yup, we're on to the next sexy letter in the alphabet with Dr. Jess.

This article is intended for readers over the age of 18.

Yup, we're on to the next sexy letter in the alphabet with Dr. Jess. The letter I.


Icing refers to the act of using your hand to spread ejaculate on your partner’s face or other body part as though you’re icing a cake. We all knew that cake decorating 101 course would come in handy someday!


Iconolagnia involves erotic arousal from viewing nude photos, sculptures or statues.

Interfemoral Intercourse

Interfemoral intercourse refers to the act of thrusting the penis between your partner’s thighs often with friction on the vulva, testicles or perineum. Sounds like some good old-fashioned outercourse!


Intersex is a term used to refer to a biological variation in which a person is born with reproductive anatomy that does not seems to fit the typical definitions of male or female. There are a number of possibilities with regard to anatomical and chromosomal combinations for intersex people. Like all forms of sexual classification, intersex is a socially constructed category, which doesn’t always reveal itself at birth. For more information, visit the Intersex Society of North America.


Ithyphallophobia (also known as Phallophobia or Medorthophobia) involves the irrational fear of seeing, having or thinking about an erect penis.

Enjoy and always practice safer sex!

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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