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A Heart to Heart Conversation with Courtney Brame of SPFPP
Does herpes have a bigger stigma than other STIs? Why does herpes have such a stigma in the Black community? Join Taylor for this insightful sexual health conversation with Courtney Brame!

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E. Michelle Certifies Pleasure to Future Pleasure Coaches
Loving what you do and being good at what you do are two entirely different things. Fortunately for clients and future intimate coaches and sex educators, E. Michelle has perfected both.

How Queer Love and Ethical Non-Monogamy Saved My Life: Margo Renate
Queer love is a savior for many — and so is ethical non-monogamy.


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It’s Time to Talk About Lube Shaming
Using lube is normal — and it shouldn't be shameful. Here's why.

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The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Embrace romance and sexy adventures at these unique BNBs around the world.

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BNB Rules Around the World
We have more vacation rental options than ever before, but the rules and regulations vary widely by type and location. Read on for more worldwide insights.


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Lifestyle Couples: Playtime Inspiration
In the universe of lifestyle couples, where adventure meets intimacy, finding the perfect toys and accessories to enhance playtime is essential, whether you’re playing together as a duo or adding more open couples and lovers to the mix.

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Brooklyn Xrated Curated Fantasies at Grey House Society
If you and/or your partner(s) have sexual, kink, or cosplay fantasies and are wondering where to get them fulfilled... look no further.

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Elevate Your Bedroom into a Sensuous Sanctuary
Your bedroom is more than just a place to sleep; it's a sanctuary for relaxation and intimacy.


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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!

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Exploring the Intimate Wellness of Couples' Massage
Couples' massage and workshops offer a unique and intimate way to deepen the bond between you and your partner.


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Types of Polyamorous Relationships
From hierarchical polyamory to non-hierarchical polyamory, from DADT polyamory to Kitchen Table polyamory, and so on, we'll explore the different ways that these dynamics can play out.

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Commitment Phobia, Modern Dating, and Non-Monogamy
You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections.

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Is Being a "One Minute Man" a Problem?
Dr. Laurie tackles the problems of the "One Minute Man."


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The Art of Erotic Empathy
Kelly Alexander speaks to Amanda Luterman about erotic empathy.

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How to Find PASSION in Open Relationships
Dr. Laurie talks about open relationships and whether or not they work.


Personal Hygiene and Attraction
Dr. Laurie discusses personal hygiene, attraction, and sex.

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What Counts as Cheating?
Dr. Laurie discusses what counts as cheating.

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The Pressures Men Face
Dr. Laurie and Johnny Elsasser, host of The Art of Masculinity podcast, talk about men and body image, masculinity, and more.


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When Does Voyeurism Cross the Line?
Dr. Laurie talks about if or when voyeurism and exhibitionism cross the line.

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Building Dreams with Liberator Bedroom Adventure Furniture
Liberator furniture, sex pillows, and shapes are discreet, well-designed, and will take your bedroom adventures to new heights of pleasure.

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Understanding Sexual Compatibility
Dr. Laurie discusses sexual compatibility, a hot topic in the open lifestyle.