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Openlove 101: Swinging Lifestyle and Playing Alone

Swinging doesn't always mean playing together. John and Jackie tackle the tough "alone play" dilemma lots of couples face when entering the lifestyle.

John and Jackie from Openlove 101 received a bunch of questions about how it works when playing alone, in situations like different rooms at house parties or clubs, or even going on separate (play) dates -- and how they themselves dealt with the emotions of the first time they played alone/separately.

Watch their new video to find out more!

Openlove 101

John and Jackie Melfi are swingers in an open relationship. Together they are the driving force behind, a swingers' club brand with locations in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin. John has been in the swinger club industry for 20 years, and when he and Jackie met, they expanded the business in order to reach and educate more couples and singles curious about the lifestyle. Their first venture together was the award winning lifestyle blog, Today this swinging powerhouse coach couples on the lifestyle, provide video content, blog weekly on the topic and have been the recipients of numerous industry awards. Visit to sign up for their FREE newsletter and receive updates on their videos and articles.
  • Anonymous
Feb 06, 2020
Good video !! Very informative on how to handle your feelings involved in playing alone and letting you partner playing