Join Free Now

Swingers

Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SDC ASN Luna Matatas BDSM Sex Educator Sexuality Social Justice
Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.

SDC ASN Alice Little Sex Worker Virtual Role Play Pandemic Sexual Wellness
How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.

SDC Member Stories Swingers Wife Swapping Orgy Masquerade
Eyes Wide Shut: Wife Swapping Story Winner
Fantasy becomes reality in this exclusive masquerade orgy that takes place in a European castle.


MysteryVibe Crescendo Anal Vibrator Adult Sex Toy
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!

SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Lifestyle Sexual Trauma Sex Coaching
Sexual Trauma Can Hijack Your Enjoyment in The Lifestyle
Participating in The Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time for most people. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on all the fun. Why? Sexual Trauma!

Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy


Lifestyle Party
How to Have More FUN and Less DRAMA at Lifestyle Events
How to Navigate Sex Parties & Events so that you can have More FUN and Less Drama.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

SDC James Whittard PhD Open Conversations Excerpt BDSM Bondage Rope Sex Party
Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.


SDC Hotwife Story Anne Sherril Tonya Peter Florida Fantasy
Peter Makes Tonya a Hotwife: Hotwife Stories Pt 3 of 3
Peter finally gets Tonya away from her husband for a weekend.

SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Squirting Orgasms
Squirting Orgasms: How-Tos, Myths, and Facts
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? Find out how you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms!

Dr. Cari Oneal
How is EFT Used to Cultivate a Great Sex Life?
The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is now being used to deliver stunning results in sex and relationships!


Hotwife with friends in bedroom
Variety in Sex Makes Hotwives Happy
Who wants more variety in the bedroom — the hotwife or her husband?

SDC ASN Lifestyle Magazine Drama Swinging Lifestyle Advice
Drama in the Lifestyle: Why it Ruins Everyone’s Night
No one likes drama, but it's especially invasive in the swinging scene when it crops up. Here's what to watch for and tips to mitigate the spread.

SDC Member Stories Swinger Story Threesome Couple FFM Strip Club Lingerie
"Let's Go" — A Valentine's Day Threesome to Remember
Her friend came over to stay with them for an impromptu trip, and it turned into her threesome fantasy come true.