Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
Should You Use Condoms for Blowjobs?
Well, “Antibiotic Resistant Gonorrhea of the Throat” is a real thing.
Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
If you're curious about clubbing in the world of non-monogamy, consider this series of tips and tricks your new best friend.
I'm TJ, Founder of TheG00dFellaz, and This is My Story
TJ has an honorable approach to the lifestyle and has curated a team of Men of Color to help fulfill a range of fantasies. Read on for his story and to learn more about TheG00dFellaz.
Newbie Guide: You're at the Club. Now What?
It's time to put our tips and tricks into action!
Me & Mrs. Jones
Greetings! We are Mr. and Mrs. Jones and We Gotta Thing! We're here to share our adventures (the good AND the not so good) with you and hope to be a resource for those curious about what this lifestyle is all about.
Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.
Our First Real Cuckold Experience
Read the story of how one of our members realized he was born to be a cuckold.
Newbie Guide: The Pre-Club Talk & Prep
Don't roll up to the club without these essential tips!
What You Should Know About Swinging
Entering the lifestyle isn't always as straightforward and simple as it seems.
Observations from a Shrink on a Lifestyle Cruise: Myths About Swingers
Join me for a few moments as I share with you how my experience with an unlikely group of people -- known as “swingers” -- challenged every sacred assumption I held sacrosanct as I take on the “Myths About Swingers” I had about this growing community.
Ever Been to an Orgy?
I mean a REAL orgy, where you don’t know who is touching you, whose dick is inside whose pussy, or whose cock you’re sucking? Sounds exciting, right? If you’re a bisexual couple, it definitely does. If you’re straight, maybe not so much.
Our First Swapping Encounter
What could take this couple’s already great sex life to the next level? Why, swinging, of course!
The Beauty of Erotic Writing Contests
Passionate and steamy encounters in the lifestyle are sure to ignite some hot and provoking stories... erotic, mysterious, naughty, sensual, or downright sexual.
It Won’t Stop! The Epic Prostate Orgasm
A nearly endless orgasm with the vast capacity for more — without the standard feelings of “Okay, I’m done.” A whole new world.
Hotwifing: NOT One Size Fits All
Did you know that there are several hotwifing dynamics?