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Single Guys at a Party: How to Act

Unfortunately, single guys at swinger's parties are often seen negatively.

Unfortunately, single guys at swinger's parties are often seen negatively. But they don't have to be. Follow our simple set of do's and don'ts if you're a single guy at a party.

Don’ts

Alcohol can help you feel a bit more relaxed, but don’t get drunk. Ever.
Don’t be stuck to her wherever she goes. If she goes to the bathroom, she will be back.
Do not talk about sex, the Lifestyle or about what you want at that party. She knows that because she wants the same thing. Be subtle about that. So choose nice topics about life, business, her house, TV shows or ask her questions.

Do’s

Ask about her husband or boyfriend. Is he OK with her playing with a single guy? You don't want drama.
If she tells you where she is going, what she is doing, says thinks like "it's hot in here" or "I need a drink," the best answer is: "Do you want me to come with you?" or "can I get it for you?" If she says yes, she is going to play with you. So just relax and chill.
Take a Viagra so you are able to last 30 to 60 minutes.
Wear a condom to prevent STDs. If you have already played, wash your cock with soap. Latex doesn't taste good.
Throw away your condom. Go get a wet towel.
After play is just as important as foreplay and during. Stay for a couple of minutes and be a gentleman. Walk her back to wherever she wants to go.

Do you agree or disagree? Maybe have more tips?

Maddy V

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NTWADUMELABBC

Jan 11, 2024

A couple runs into a single guy who's a dick all of a sudden every single guy gets painted with a broad brush which is wrong

NEFARIOUSTITAN

Nov 15, 2023

We get a terrible rap from paying double for the same event, to being discarded like leftovers, yet we are ever present to fulfill fantasies and provide incredible fun for those couples tired of working at four-way chemistry. There is a valid, legitimate place for well mannered, respectful single males within the life style, especially for those couples that prioritize her pleasure and are open to a confident, respectful guest in the bedroom.

HORNYROSE

Sep 10, 2022

Single men get a partner then get into the lifestyle. If you are so awesome getting a partner shouldn’t be an issue.

JOHNJOANDOE

Nov 01, 2021

If and ANY time you are invited to anything show up. Dont wait to the very last minute to cancel. We realize life gets on the way...and family comes first. You might get a second chance... But not a third.

SWEETNCRAZY

Sep 29, 2020

This is very good advice, but I wanted to comment on "Do not talk about sex, the Lifestyle or about what you want at that party." I actually find that the biggest problem at lifestyle parties is that people are inhibited about talking about sex, and as a consequence, sex might not happen, or only happens very very late. Of course talking about sex can feel like a minefield, and it's better to be subtle as the author says and not make it a first or main topic, but suggesting to forbid the topic altogether, I think, is not helpful for most people, but reinforces one of the common problems. I would say that free but respectful and thoughtful communication always opens doors.