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Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver


Have better sex and healthier relationships with our SDC podcast, Seek, Discover, Create. Join our host and sex educator Lexi Sylver and her special guest(s) each week, live on Tuesdays at 8 PM EST on Voice America’s Variety Channel. Learn tips and tricks to have better sex and relationships, like how to have a threesome, how to find a unicorn, what to do as you navigate the waters of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, ways to maximize your sexual pleasure, how to explore your kinky side with your partner, and much more! Lexi’s goal is to provoke you to think about sex from a fresh perspective, to tackle all the most taboo questions about sexuality, and empowering you to experience your sexuality shamelessly, without fear, guilt or judgment. Do you have a personal question about sex or relationships you want answered on our podcast? Send your Letter to Lexi to or connect with our host Lexi here. Check out our recent episode listings below, or listen anytime via iTunes, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Stitcher, TuneIn and Google Play Music.

Celebrating 1 Year of Mating Season: Join My Virtual Party!

Get Lexual with swinger and author Lexi Sylver to celebrate the first anniversary of her erotic book, Mating Season! Discover how you can join the Lexuality.

Dirty Talk and Erotica on the Elevated Intimacy Podcast

Lexi Sylver and Ashley Manta dive deep into Lexi's history with erotica and dirty talk, including some personal experiences and how she first started exploring her Lexuality.

New Interview: Let's Talk About Non-Monogamous Relationships

Lexi was a guest on the Ladies, Let's Talk About Sex podcast, and she and host Felicia talk about what it's like to live an authentically ethically-non-monogamous lifestyle.

It’s Been Lexual: Seek, Discover, Create’s Series Finale

Lexi closes the end of an era in this series finale of the Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver podcast.

From Entrepreneur to Porn Star: The True Story of Damon Dice

Do you want to know what it’s like to be a porn star?

Sharing Sexual Fantasies & Kinks w/CJAD 800's Dr. Laurie

How do you talk to your partner about your kinks and fantasies?

Loving Without Boundaries Podcast: Mating Season Interview!

Kitty Chambliss interviews Lexi Sylver about exploring consensual non-monogamy and her collection of erotic short stories, Mating Season.

Consensual Non-Monogamy w/ Dr. Laurie on CJAD 800’s Passion

Consensual non-monogamy... what does that mean to you?

Exploring the Swinger Lifestyle with Casual Swinger

Lexi hosts Mickey and Mallory from The Casual Swinger Podcast and they debunk common lifestyle myths and misconceptions.

Kink Panel on CJAD 800: Getting Kinky in COVID Times

What's it like to date and have sex during coronavirus times?

Erotic Stories: Seduction to Exploration

Listen to Lexi Sylver and Casey Carter talk about how reading and writing erotica can help you seduce your partner.

The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

If you're interested in opening up your relationship, ask yourself: what do you really know about the swinging lifestyle?

Ethics and Empowerment in the Adult Industry

How can we make films, performances, and scenarios where women are on top of the game and that People of Color aren't fetishized and are treated ethically within the industry?

STIs and STDs: Removing Shame and Stigma

Courtney Brame and Lexi Sylver talk about how having an STI or an STD doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. In fact, it can mean the expansion of it: with more communication, taking time to connect, and building authentic and trusting partnerships.

WATCH: HeyMama Panelists on Sex Tech & Female Desire

Lexi Sylver joined four inspirational femmes fatales in HeyMama's Panel "Strong Vibes: The Business of Female Desire."

Naked in Cap d'Agde with Lexi Sylver: Part 1

Want to know the BARE TRUTH about what Cap d'Agde is REALLY like?!

Naked in Cap d'Agde with Lexi Sylver: Part 2

Lexi invites more guests to share their bare truth about what it's really like at naturist village Cap d'Agde in France.

Hotwifing Tips and Tricks

Brenna and Brian from Front Porch Swingers talk with host Lexi Sylver about hotwifing and how couples can customize their dynamic to fit their needs.

Talking Shameless Sex & Kink with Dr. Laurie Betito

Lexi, Dr. Laurie, and Catherine all talk about getting past feelings of shame so you can explore your Lexuality and Lexi's book, Mating Season!

Erotic Stories and How to Write Them

Lexi Sylver talks about erotica in the modern era, how her new book Mating Season came to be, and even shares a sexy reading from the book.

Watch Lexi Sylver's Mating Season: Erotic Book Trailer

Lexi Sylver’s real erotic adventures and darkest fantasies come to life in this provocative collection of erotic short stories. Watch for a glimpse into the pleasure that lies within.

Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

Happy Masturbation May…. or Maysturbation, as we call it!

How to Seduce Your Lover

What is seduction really all about? How can you discover the best ways to seduce your partner?

How to Stay Sexy in These Challenging Times

How can we remember to enjoy ourselves and our partners, even if some of those partners aren't living with us during this pandemic?

Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging, and More

Toys, anal, and unicorns, anyone? If you get all three — lucky you!

How to Feel Sexy in Self-Isolation

Isolation doesn't have to be lonely or boring! In this podcast, Lexi Sylver discusses her COVID-19 self-care tips — from regulating stress to digital dating ideas.

The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto

Lexi attended The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, and this podcast features her interviews from sex educators, exhibitors, and attendees.

Erotic Literature: Sex, Taboos, and Empowerment

Author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel waxes poetic the current state of erotica and its impact on sexuality.

Healthy Dating, Relationships, and Self-Love

Sexologist Dr. Shamyra Howard joins Lexi Sylver to discuss how to improve your relationships — including with yourself — through better dating.

Desire Mapping and the Power of Sex Stories

Is it "just sex?" While we can have "just sex," there is so much more to it. Our sexuality is a big part of us, and it's multifaceted — as Dr. Jaime M. Grant said, what is your story?

How to Last Longer During Sex

We often talk about erectile dysfunction in society — it's plastered everywhere. What if the problem wasn't getting an erection, but finishing too early?

Open Relationships and The Swinging Lifestyle

John and Jackie Melfi of Openlove 101 delve into their relationship and first swinging experience, as well as what being in the lifestyle means to them, debunking myths and sharing swinging advice along the way.

From Swinging to Polyamory: One Couple’s Journey

How does a couple go from monogamy to swinging to polyamory? Host Lexi Sylver gets personal with Talloolah Love and her partner Q as they detail their journey through ethical non-monogamy and how their relationship has evolved through open and honest communication about boundaries and feelings.

Oral Sex: Taboos, How-Tos and Pleasure

Lexi Sylver chats with Lorals-founder Melanie Cristol about making barrier protection accessible for most forms of oral sex, including cunnilingus, anilingus and anal rimming.

Female Sexuality, Confidence and Empowerment

Host Lexi Sylver and Jessi Camille of The Pussy Party Podcast get personal to uncover some of the reasons why women are reluctant to fully embrace their sexual selves and discuss what female empowerment means to them.

Swinging and Open Relationships for Newbies

Lexi Sylver discusses the importance of practicing a well-informed open lifestyle and shares her advice and resources to help newbies get started.

Tantra: Orgasms, Pleasure, and Hotter Sex

Karen and Brion Craig of Explore Tantra join Lexi Sylver to talk about all things tantra — from how it helps mental health to the myriad ways that this deeply intimate practice makes sex better.

Sex Toys, Masturbation, & Women’s Health

In this episode, Lexi Sylver interviews Maureen Pollack, inventor of The Waterslyde and co-owner of Lovability Inc., to explore how masturbating can contribute to greater sexual wellness and discuss how we can eliminate the stigma behind masturbation.

Shame and Sexuality

Host Lexi Sylver and guest Rahim Thawer explore the ways in which we can learn to develop feelings of shame and guilt, and the ways in which those can impact different spheres of our personal lives.

Party Time with SDC at Montréal's Taboo Sex Show 2020

Each year, the Taboo Sex Show comes to Montreal, and SDC makes a splash with our exhibitor's section on the trade show floor.

Swingers Panel on CJAD's Passion with Dr. Laurie Betito

Lexi, George, and Dr. Laurie answer listener questions about the swingers lifestyle — from how to talk to your partner to getting started.

The Secret World of Swinging and Hotwifing

Here's an unfiltered look into the erotic worlds of swinging, adult films and escorting, and how Taylor and Gabe's marriage thrives on and in these extremes.

Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular, and Surprising Scenarios

Do you want to know what kinds of filthy things that people fantasize about?

Swinging, Bisexuality, and Other Queer Tales

How do the swinging, polyamorous, and LGBTQ+ communities intersect? What are some of the hopes and ideals for the future of the lifestyle?

The Everyday Goddess: How to Stop Settling For Less

We discuss self-love, body image, confidence, and how self-esteem issues and insecurity contribute to our feelings of being unworthy of happiness and pleasure.

Redefining Sex in the Digital Age: Part 1

Guests Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez discuss some of the unique challenges that sex educators experience in today's world, and the added hurdles that we and sex workers and activists face in light of SESTA FOSTA.

Redefining Sex in the Digital Age: Part 2

Guests Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez discuss how to maintain body-positivity, sex-positivity, and inclusivity in the highly critical world of social media.

It’s a Wrap! See Inside Our SDC Takeover of Cap d’Agde 2019

From relaxing in the sun to extravagant, sexy parties and exploring kinks and pleasures, our Cap Takeover had it all!

Dating, Self-Love, and Personal Growth

It's time to stop comparing yourself to other people and the impossible standards of beauty and perfection that we see all over the media!

Swinging and Non-Monogamy: All About The Lifestyle

Mike and Sheri from ASN discuss resources, current trends, and events in the open lifestyle, and the exciting new directions they’ll be taking their magazine in the near future.

Polyam Relationships: Self-Care, Conflict, & Communication

Relationships of any dynamic have challenges. Listen for advice on how to help manage and overcome some of the most common problems.

How to Be a Hotwife

So what exactly does it mean to be a hotwife? And how is it different from cuckolding?

Unleashing Your Inner Slut

Why are so many people ashamed of their expressing their sexuality?

Sex Clubs: What are They Really Like?

While swingers' clubs are more well-known for couples and singles who are looking to hook up with each other, sex clubs have a more broad definition.

How To Release Your Inner God / Goddess with Cheryl Besner

Do you ever feel that there is a lion within your soul that is ready to roar? Do you hear your inner voice whispering “there is so much more of me that I want to explore and express?”

How to Deal with Jealousy

This episode addresses how to cope with the green-eyed monster when you're in a relationship — especially if you're in some form of a non-monogamous or polyamorous one.

From Monogamy to Polyamory: Easing the Transition

It seems like a massive jump for your mindset and lifestyle! Listen here and learn how to make going from mono to poly as smoothly as possible.

The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships

Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.

Sex with a Noisy Brain, Disabilities, and Chronic Illnesses

Listen to the 30th episode of Lexi's podcast to learn how to overcome mental and physical hurdles so that you can go back to enjoying your sex life again.

Swinging Around the World

If you're a swinger who loves to travel, and/or you want to know what the swinger lifestyle is like in other countries around the world, get ready to be inspired with wanderlust!

Sex and Cannabis: Enhance Your Sex Life

If you're curious about cannabis and want to know how you can use cannabis products to amp up your sex life, you should definitely listen to this discussion with THE CannaSexual, Ashley Manta!

BDSM: Mind, Body, and Kink

If you're curious about kink and BDSM and want to know why some kinky folks enjoy BDSM so much, you definitely need to listen to this podcast!

Southwest Love Fest Recap: A Weekend in Tucson, Arizona

This unique conference provides an inclusive and transformational space for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities for the non-monogamous community.

Butt Stuff: Pegging, Prostate Play, and Double Standards

Learn all the important basics of what you need to know about anal stimulation in this boot(y) camp episode.

Sexual Assault: Survivor Support & Social Change

This episode gets very real about sexual assault, including how our current social culture plays a role and why people may choose not to report incidences.

Expert Dating Tips: From First Date to Relationship

Regardless of your relationship status, making time for new connections — or reconnecting with an existing partner — is critical.

Healthy Non-Monogamy: How to Navigate Conflict

Every dynamic encounters conflict. Listen to this podcast to find out how to manage it when multiple partners are involved.

Sex Education, Confidence, and Empowerment

Every woman deserves to know about her body and experience shameless sexuality.

How to Play Alone in Non-Monogamous Relationships

Lexi gets pretty personal about her romantic life with her partner, so you're going to want to put on your headphones for this podcast!

How to Have an Orgy: Pleasure, Consent, and Communication

If you're here reading this, chances are you want to have an orgy. Just a wild guess... And if you are, then definitely read on, and listen to this Lexi Sylver podcast!

The Art of Sensual Impact Play: From Consent to After Care

If you're looking to explore the more sensual side of BDSM and learn how you can get out your own kinks, listen to this podcast with Pink Heffs and Black Heffs creator King Heff.

Hotwives, Cuckolds, and Kinks: Popular Taboos Explained

Lexi Sylver gets down and dirty with the intimate details of Front Porch Swingers Brenna and Brian's unique relationship and explores how opening up your relationship to new erotic possibilities can improve your relationship and your sex life.

Building Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships

If you're curious about the best ways to navigate your first steps into the sexy world of consensual non-monogamy (also known interchangeably as ethical non-monogamy), listen to this Lexi Sylver podcast with Dr. Liz Powell, a licensed psychologist specializing in non-traditional relationships and the author of the book Building Open Relationships.

Polyamory: Exploring Polyamorous Relationships

People are sticking less and less to traditional relationship norms and are looking outside the (sometimes restrictive) box of monogamy to find a relationship type that works for them and their personality. And for a lot of people, that means polyamory.

Holly Randall: Pornography, Photography, & the Female Gaze

Holly and Lexi discuss what it’s like for a woman behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry; specifically, what it’s like for a female director, producer, and photographer behind the camera.

Jamal & “PolyRick” Podcast: The Truth About Male Sexuality

We’re going to talk about the challenges that men experience within the female-driven swinger lifestyle, and offer some advice for men who want to start exploring and communicating more about their sexuality.

Make Her Scream with Pleasure: Orgasms, Squirting, & More

What are the secrets to pleasing a woman sexually? Do you want to learn more about how to make a woman orgasm and squirt? If you want to know what makes a woman cum, you’re going to LOVE tonight’s podcast!

Self-Care and You: Tips For a Healthy Body and Mind

As a new year starts, it's time for a new mindset and focus for the months ahead.

Relationship Coaching: Communication and Resolving Conflict

If you want to learn how to improve communication and intimacy as a couple, you’ll benefit from today’s podcast with the co-founders of Soulmates for Life, internationally renowned author and licensed clinician Dr. Jay, and his soul mate, master certified coach, Liseth.

The Sexual Revolution Starts Now: A New Era of Sexuality

The era of shameless sex has arrived, and it's all about shattering social stigmas and exploring taboos.

Taboo Sex Talk with Lexi Sylver

Sexual taboos exist throughout society, and Lexi gets personal and opens up about her own taboo-filled upbringing and how it's shaped her today.

Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver Officially Debuts

Each week, I'll be bringing new experts on my show to explore different themes, and really stimulate thought and discussion about some of the most important topics and issues revolving around sex.

Are You a Sex God or Goddess? Listen to My New Podcast!

Master your sexual domain with guidance from tonight's guest Parish Michelle Blair.

Real Porn Talk: Jet Setting Jasmine & King Noire

In this episode, we’ll be talking about female empowerment, the true meaning of ethical porn and what Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire are doing to revolutionize the adult entertainment industry.

Spooky Sex?! Listen to Me Tonight on Pillow Talk with Cheryl

Being afraid of a good sex life is more common than you might think, so Lexi sits down with Cheryl to discuss ways to explore your sexual appetite with your partner.

Intimacy and Relationships with Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce

A lot of us fear getting intimate and truly connecting with our partner, because we're afraid of being in a vulnerable state and getting hurt.

Get Hot Threesome Tips and Tricks from Luna Matatas

Luna and I are going to delve into the pleasures and challenges of having a threesome, from the perspective of a unicorn (no, they're not just incredible mythical creatures!), rhino or Lucky Pierre, as well as from a couple’s point of view.

Taylor Sparks' Secrets: How to Make Good Pussy Even Better

So many of us don't even LOOK at our pussies in the mirror. Have you ever tried? DO IT! Look at her in all her glory! Yes, that's you!

Casey Carter's Creative Sex Tips & Tricks to Spice Things Up

Lexi sits down with Casey Carter to reveal some hot tips on keeping creativity alive in your sex life.

Being Monogamish: Dr Jess's Relationship Advice We ALL Need

What does it mean to be monogamish? Lexi sits down with Dr. Jess to find out.

Let's Talk About BDSM: Getting Kinky with Sunny Megatron!

Are you're interested in experimenting with BDSM, or want to add some kinkiness to your relationship but don’t know how and where to start exploring?

Bisexuality: Why is There a Double Standard?

Why are bisexual men stigmatized while bisexual women are fetishized in society and popular culture?

Lexi Sylver's NEW Radio Show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network!

It finally happened. Lexi Sylver has a platform on which to voice her opinions about sexuality — UNCENSORED!

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