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A Technique She'll Love!

Dr. Jess     
Try the Cross My Fingers technique to change things up and explore new ways to satisfy her with your bare hands.

The following is an excerpt from Dr. Jess O’Reilly’s best-seller, Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks, published by Quiver Books.

Are you dying to get inside of her and feel her warm folds surround your fingers? Of course you are! Try the Cross My Fingers technique to change things up and explore new ways to satisfy her with your bare hands.

Cross My Fingers

Ask her to get down on her hands and knees in the Doggie position so that you get a great view from behind.


  • Begin by rubbing her bum and telling her how perfectly round, juicy and tasty it looks from behind. Mmmmmm!
  • Cross your index and middle fingers of your dominant hand and apply some lube.
  • Insert your crossed fingers into her vagina with your palm facing down.
  • Once you’ve inserted all the way up to your second or third finger, rotate your hand clockwise until your palm is facing up and then pull out.
  • Start slowly and increase the speed as she gets worked up and keep telling her how much you love the view!

Variations and Advanced Techniques

  • As you rotate your crossed fingers, perform a scooping motion to massage the upper, lower and sides of the vaginal walls
  • To change up the sensations, alternate your hand position to start with your palm facing upward and rotate counter-clockwise as you pull out.
  • Got a spare hand? Use it to play as you please. Stroke your own penis, reach around and fondle her breasts or lick your fingers and play with the sensitive skin surrounding her bum hole.

Have fun experimenting, and remember to always practice safer sex!

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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