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3 Ways To Seduce Your Woman

Confidence may be key to seducing your lover, but you can also pick up a few tips and tricks along the way to keep her coming back for more.

What do all great lovers have in common? They are masters of seduction and they know it. Confidence may be key to seducing your lover, but you can also pick up a few tips and tricks along the way to keep her coming back for more. Try out these seduction approaches and let us know how it goes!

Compliment Her

You want to have sex with her, right? Then tell her! Let her know that she is the object of your desire and ply her with compliments. Telling her that she looks good won’t suffice. You need to seduce her by describing in detail everything you like about her. Think about all five senses and compliment glow of her skin, the scent of her hair, the taste of her lips, the beauty of her curves and the sweet sound of her breath. Be an animal and let her know just how badly you want to get between her legs… and cater to her every need.

Be Aggressive

Sometimes a poke in the backside or a half-hearted “Wanna do it?” just won’t cut it for a woman who craves seduction. Did I say sometimes? I meant all of the time. Come on folks!

The anticipation of being seduced is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs, but all that sexual energy comes to a grinding halt if your lover lacks enthusiasm and confidence. While initiating sex should be a shared responsibility, if tonight is your night then embrace it with passion! Be aggressive by holding her by the hair as you kiss her or pull out a few silk ties to strap her wrists to the bedposts. Give her a chance to be submissive and play up your role as the aggressor.

Touch Slowly

If being aggressive isn’t your style or you simply want to switch it up for a change, then slowing things down may be the perfect addition or complement to your sexual repertoire.

When we are excited we have a tendency to rush into things. We start grabbing and kneading and sucking and fingering without giving our bodies a chance to ease into the natural sexual response. By slowing things down, you allow the tension to build as the blood rushes to her most sensitive regions and they start yearning for more of what you’ve got to offer.

Try circling her outer breasts with a feather-light touch using the backs of your fingers and very gradually working your way inward toward her nipples. Breathe over them with warm, open lips and lick them with only the tip of your tongue. After a few minutes, your teasing will work her into a frenzy and her sensitivity will increase to new heights as you eventually sink your body into hers. Delayed gratification is an compelling tool of seduction, so never underestimate the power of teasing her body and slowing things down.

Until next time, have fun, experiment and always practice safer sex!

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
  • Anonymous
Sep 02, 2022
“What do all great lovers have in common? They are masters of seduction and they know it.“ great points Dr. Jess. I read this article and learned that there is always room to fine tune encounters and experiences with others when I stay attentive to others needs and desires, while being assertive and firm with helping others to get past their fear of letting go, and give in to the experience. Trust is key, and being patient, yet articulate,attentive, and assertive helps along the way. Rightway5000