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A Taoist Trick for Ladies’ Pleasure in Fellatio

Dr. Jess     
Guest blogger Kathryn Peterson shares a Taoist technique with women, to enhance their and their partner's sexual pleasure while performing fellatio.

Note from Dr. Jess: In this post, guest blogger Kathryn Peterson, offers advice specific to women who perform oral sex on penises. Obviously, people of all genders can enjoy fellatio and female energy is not unique to people who identify as female; regardless of your gender identity, hopefully you can learn from and experiment with these visualization and energy techniques to enhance your sexual pleasure.


Fellatio: Mutually Pleasurable


Fellatio is not just about men – I’ve learned that by using some ancient practices and new tricks, it can be a deeply intimate and pleasurable experience for both partners!

One of my favorite ways to ensure mutual pleasure during fellatio practice is by cultivating female sexual energy. This is a Taoist technique that has a similar counterpart in Tantra.


The Yin-Yang


In both systems, female sex energy begins at our breasts, flows down to our genitalia, and back up to our breasts. The breast is the female positive pole which symbolizes our strong heart center, while the groin is our negative pole which needs to be “warmed up” by the male penis. The sex energy cycle is reversed for men, with the groin as their positive pole, and heart center as their negative pole. This is the yin-yang.


Sex Energy


The Taoist technique for sex energy cultivation asks us to reverse the typical pattern of sex energy: rather than sex energy flowing in through our breast and out through the groin, we practice bringing sex energy in through the groin and out through the breast.

During fellatio, you can practice visualizing the re-circulation of sex energy. On your inhale, imagine the breath filling up your pelvic floor. On your exhale, imagine the breath leaving through your nipples. Not only does this help to regulate the breath during fellatio (which can be crucial for deep throating), but it builds your own arousal during fellatio.


The Puppy Pose


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One of my favorite yoga poses for sex energy cultivation during fellatio is the Puppy Pose. It is similar to a basic Child’s Pose, but with the legs bent at a ninety-degree angle. Laying across your partner in the Puppy Pose not only relaxes the neck for deep throat practice, but your groin will be perfectly positioned for him to pleasure you by hand. His added stimulation to your own sex energy cultivation is sure to manifest a storm of fellatio passion for both of you!




This post was written by Kathryn Peterson of Yoga For Intimacy.

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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