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One Way To Seduce A Woman

Dr. Jess     
Want to get her all hot and primed for an orgasm that tingles all over?

The following is an excerpt from Dr. Jess’ best-selling book, Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks.

Want to get her all hot and primed for an orgasm that tingles all over? Then take a page out of the ancient sex text, The Kama Sutra, and blow oh-so-gentle kisses her way until she’s begging for more. It may be hard to resist putting your wet puckered lips against her glistening skin, but a little bit of teasing can go a long way and it will be well worth it in the end.

Technique #1: Take My Breath Away


Ask her to lie on her stomach in the Face Down, Bum Up! position so that you’re able to get between her thighs.


  • Get your lips nice and wet so that she can feel the warm moisture approaching her skin.
  • Start by blowing gentle kisses all over her left outer foot and ankle bringing your lips as close to her skin as possible without making contact.
  • Be sure to let out a gentle breath as you kiss so that she can feel your warmth and desire.
  • Move as slowly as possible and continue breathing air kisses against her skin as you work your way up the outer side of her left calf, knee and thigh.
  • When you reach her hip, work your way back down the center of the her left thigh, knee, calf and ankle paying extra attention to the heel of her foot.
  • Once you are back down at her foot, work your way back up continuing to offer gentle breath kisses along her inner leg until you reach her vulva. Breath a few gentle kisses over her wet lips and then repeat this pattern of breath kisses on her right leg.
  • By the time you reach her vulva again, she should be relaxed, excited and ready for more!
  • Note: Don’t ever blow air into the vagina, as this could cause serious harm.

Variations and Advanced Techniques:

  • The key to this technique is to move slowly. If you happen to have a lazy Sunday morning available, see if you can spend a full 10 minutes playing with breath kisses on each leg before you dive in between her legs.
  • Before beginning your breath kisses routine, use a flat open palm (no fingers) to apply her favorite scented oil or lotion to her legs. This can make her skin even more sensitive and receptive to your breath.
  • Sip a hot peppermint tea before beginning your breath kisses and she’ll enjoy the tingle even more!
  • If she seems to like this technique, try giving her a few suggestive breath kisses when you’re out for dinner or attending a social function where sex is off the table. It should make for a good warm-up for later that night when you finally find some alone time.

A Lot of Hot Air Variation:

  • If you’re short on time, begin your sex session by breathing some warm air all over her thighs, labia and clitoris. Come as close as you can and allow some brief incidental contact between her labia and your lips or nose, but tease her a little before you dive in for the goods.

Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks is packed with detailed techniques designed to broaden your sexual horizons and produce mind-blowing orgasms.

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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