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The Naughty-but-Nice Gift Guide

Dr. Jess     
You don’t have to dig deep into your wallet for naughty-but-nice gifts to surprise your lover.

You don’t have to dig deep into your wallet for naughty-but-nice gifts to surprise your lover.

Homemade Gifts

Try your hand at writing a sexy story or compose a holiday-themed love letter and send it via the old-fashioned post.

Make your own massage oil using olive or baby oil or tie a few colorful spatulas together with a festive ribbon and get kinky with some playful spankings. Wrap up a soft-bristled paintbrush and keep your lover guessing as to its use as you melt chocolate wafers for a sensual body-painting session. Alternatively, freeze some apple cider and play with the cool sensations and tastes against your most erogenous body parts before snuggling up under your blankets or in front of the fireplace.

Help a Friend

Do you know a couple in need of a few hours of alone time? Offer up the gift of time and schedule a babysitting session outside of their home to let them relax and unwind as they enjoy a quick adult escape.

Use Technology to Your Advantage

.Finally, take advantage of free apps that can enhance your sex life like the Pocket Salsa (available on iTunes). These downloadable lessons teach you sensual dances moves that make for the perfect prelude to an evening of passion.

Sexy Reading

Sexy Reading

Fifty Shades of Grey may be the fastest-selling paperback of all time, but when it comes to erotic literature, your options are endless. From captivating tales of romance and seduction to casual quickies; sexy stories are sure to inspire you to explore your wildest fantasies.

Check out this compilation Best Women’s Erotica 2012 or Sweet Love: Erotic Fantasies for Couples by Violet Blue.

From $14.95 at Good For Her.

Bondage Ribbon

Unleash your inner dominant or submissive with some kinky bondage ribbon designed for naughty adult play. Booty Parlor’s sexy version sticks only to itself (not to your skin), so you can get creative, play with new positions and take your sex life to new heights.

Bondage Ribbon, $15.99 at Ohhh Canada.

Erotic Art

Erotic Art

Heighten the erotic energy in your bedroom and add some depth to your walls or bedside with sensual art that arouses your passion and leaves something to the imagination. Feng Shui experts advise purchasing paintings, photographs or sculptures in pairs to promote harmony and balance in the most intimate room in your home.

Canadian-based Jessica Gorlicky’s creations are bold and sensual, but perfectly tasteful. Her pieces are sought-after by buyers from around the world and start at $350.

The Magic Banana

This unique and exciting product was developed by a Canadian Yogi and it serves multiple purposes. A kegel exerciser, pleasure device and massager, the Magic Banana is made of smooth, non-toxic material consisting of a loop with a gentle, upwards curve. Women love the shape, flexibility and design, which allows for stimulation of our most sensitive sweet spots.

The Magic Banana, $49.99 at

Enjoy this naughty-but-nice gift ideas, and remember to always practice safer sex!

Dr. Jess

"An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess's doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn't globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You'll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women's Health, Men's Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couple' issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV. Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?"
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