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A form of sacred, spiritual sex, practicing tantra can enhance your connection with your body and your partners. Learn tips for tantric practices that can help you enjoy mindful sex, have more powerful orgasms, delay ejaculation, and intensify your sexual experiences.
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Squirting Orgasms: How-Tos, Myths, and Facts
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? Find out how you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms!

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Fantasy Land for Unicorns: Luxuriate at Sea Mountain Ranch Spa
Did you know that there’s a unicorn paradise right in Palm Springs?!

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4 Lube Myths Debunked
Lexi Sylver breaks down the 4 biggest myths about lube and shares her tips on living your slipperiest, most Lexual, and pleasurable sex life.

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Tub Time
They washed away the stress as he gave her the deep, sensory release she so craved.

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Wet, Hot Weekend: Wet & Wild Story WINNER!
This work-weary couple was determined to make the most of their weekend escape, and they fulfilled fantasies, found sweet release, and created delicious memories.

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Dark Tantra
Have you ever been curious about the spiritual side of BDSM and Tantra? Yes, there is a spiritual connection with both. We will be exploring them in Dark Tantra.

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Massage Appointment
This mom of four desperately needed a massage, and she got it — plus a very happy ending and a juicy surprise for her husband!

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The Forbidden Fruit
This couple finally found their other man and fulfilled the hotwife fantasy of their dreams — an evening of building desire, sensual massages, and pleasing her forbidden fruit.

SDC Sex Down South Virtual Conference 2020
Sex Down South Con Going Virtual for 2020
Join the first-ever Sex Down South Virtual Con! Learn more about this year's event and how to register.

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Listen to Black Women, a 4-Day Summit July 28-31, 2020
On July 28, 2020, Black women and the people who love, celebrate, and support us will converge in a digital space where we will explore the intersections of Black womanhood, pleasure, love, justice, activism, and liberation.

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Mindful Oral Sex for Her
Immersing yourselves in the sensations of oral sex takes pleasure to new depths. Here's how to make cunnilingus a full mind and body experience.

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Mindful Oral Sex for Him
Giving your partner your deliberate and lingering attention is an excellent way to practice sexual mindfulness together. Here's how to take penis-pleasing to the next level.

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Mindful Couple’s Masturbation for Him
While it’s typically considered a solo activity, manually pleasuring each other can be highly erotic and adds a new dimension to the exchange of your sexual energy.

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An Offering to Bacchus: Shifting Paradigms at Desire
Cooper expresses his deep love for Desire Resort in this essay about his lifestyle experiences at the Riviera Maya paradise. Pour yourself a glass of wine and settle in. To Bacchus!

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Mindful Couple's Masturbation for Her
Masturbating your partner is a selfless act that can substitute for intercourse on those occasions where one partner is not in the mood for sex but still wants to please the other. In this practice, the focus is on partners with vaginas.