April 2017 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from April 2017.

We are back.

It has been a long time since I have been on here and even longer since I posted a blog.We have been looking for a SM off and on for awhile and for some dumb reason I tried CL a few times. Dumb dumb dumb. 99.9 of the guys there are just horny and aren`t in the lifestyle. What is the most annoying t... read more

Ways to surprise your other half!!! xx

I Love to surprise Andy and have new adventures and being rather mishevious I put into action my latest hair brain scheme!!!......A trip to a local brothel!!!Whilst he waited in the car, I nipped in and chatted with The Madam ( if that`s how one refers to her!) She was highly amused and entertained ... read more

3way group chat with total anonimity

GuysIn this part of the world swinger sites are not so well known and blocked unless you use a vpn. For that reason, we started using some dating apps / platforms to try and find people for funThe thing is... you find someone who says they are a girl, you setup a 3way chat between all parties in ord... read more

Meet & Greet....WTF?

So my girlfriend and I attended a Meet &amp Greet last night. The list showed 159 guests. We get our VIP bands and head in. &nbspI find I`m in a club with hundreds of other people from the street. Lots of guys, lots of girls but very few with Red VIP bands. So my girlfriend is perplexed as ... read more

Not fit for fit

In the lifestyle you have couples out of shape that are expecting to play with in shape couples. Why is it non hwp couples that are out of shape just let themselves go and they are expecting to play with couples that keep themselves in shape and don`t try to strive for the same type of body and heal... read more

SDC couples only mixer Keyword `Couples only`

Why do these events allow only couples and single ladies but not guys? Since the event strictly says couples only, yet allow single ladies but not guys seems like a sexist event negatively affecting guys in particular. I have heard of some reasons why from other couples and hosts but just wondering ... read more

Adding profile pics on an Android phone

My PC crapped out...I am a technophobe...how is this done on a mobile?... read more

Validations

We are new this site, about two weeks now and I think we have been to four events since then. &nbspWe had a validation before we even knew what it was from a couple we met on our first venture to a DFW club.   Since that time we have met many couples in person at clubs and meet and greets but n... read more

HIDDEN BEACH RESORT

HI EVERONE WE ARE GOINT TO HIDDEN BEACH RESORT IN MEXICO WAS WONDERING IF ANY ONE HAS BEEN THERE AND HOW WAS IT ,, WE ARE LOOKING TO HAVE SEX BY THE POOL AREA SO WE COULD BE WATCHED OR HVE OTHER JOIN IN AND WAS WONDERING IF THEY ALLOW THAT THERE , WE BEEN TO DESIRE AND DESIRE PEAL AND WE COULD FUCK ... read more

So, Is it real or Memorex ? or Traffic is cockblocking

Plastic keys, hotel rooms with washed white sheets and low thermostat settings You get there early, jump in the shower to get fresh. Why Perfumed soap? Dry skin, lotion up. Remember, classy not ashy. Check phone for messages Glow from Phone. 10 mins late. Bitches always run late. Traffic is cock... read more

Thoughts and Musings.

As a gentlemen roving solo, I have found the journey to be touch and go.   I have written a Haiku which captures my thoughts over the yearsFake Profiles run amok, hiding true gems amongst the crap email rubbleSome people respond, most don`t. What Am I ? the hidden in the mistSo appointments get mad... read more

Looking for looking..

Evening all!We are interested in meeting a voyeur - male or female. The idea of being watched really does it for us.. The issue we are having is finding a site, board where we can get in touch with people who might be interested.Anyone have any ideas?... read more

Rooftop Resort Birthday Party?

Does anyone have experience hosting a private party at Rooftop? We have in mind inviting Single Men and asking the resort to waive the (very high) membership fee for single guys, and/or perhaps even giving a special discounted day pass rate for our invited guests, who would of course have to be on o... read more

take a break or not

do you ever feel like taking a break from the lifestyle but also think by doing so you will be forgotten about,left  behind and have to start over from scratch when you return?... read more

Cap D`Agde for May Bank Holiday

Venturing out to Cap for the first May Bank Holiday weekend- say Hi if you are there!... read more

Bangkok/Samui: BDSM-Fun?

For Couple/W/TSWestern couple is looking for bdsm-fun in bangkok/samui in june, 40, she bi and sub, educated, funny... Also looking for infos, meeting-points.... no money involved... read more

Speed dating. Worth it or waste of time?

I`ve been on this website for about 3 years or so and I`ve always been out and about at meet and greets, events, kinky parties and event hosted a few of my own but recently this year I decided to stop hosting the events and just attend them! No more setup/cleanup/emails/hosting/after duties etc etc ... read more

VANILLA HUNTING

The Urban Dictionary defines `Vanilla Hunting` as A term used when swingers, bisexual women&nbspare looking to convince a heterosexual or monogamous person&nbspto explore sexual alternatives outside of their otherwise normal , mainstream sexual beliefs.Who has done this and has a story to ... read more

Croatia/Dubrovnik

We are going to be in Croatia second half of June. We´d like to meet couples for fun.Vamos a estar en la zona de Dubrovnik la segunda quincena de junio. Será un placer conocer parejas que disfruten del ambiente liberal... read more

Desire Riviera Maya

We are leaving Sunday for Desire.  We will be there from 4-23 to 4-28.  Anyone else from SDC going to be there that week? ... read more

Party Weekend/ London & Amsterdam: 9/4-17/4/17

9/4 I woke at 9ish and read Times and as Rita still sleeping I headed upstairs to watch recording of Chinese F1. When it was finished I headed downstairs for a shower to get ready to head over to Home House for lunch with NandC. Took the bus and met them at 2pm. We had a convivial and fun lunch whic... read more

Club options

We are headed to Kissimmee/Orlando this weekend. What are some of the best swinger clubs nears these two cities?... read more

Naughty in N`awlins (NIN) 2017

We couldn`t find a thread for this year`s Naughty in N`awlins (NIN), so we started one. From the guest lists we`ve seen so far it`s going to be an epic event.Please use this thread to post if you are attending this year`s festivities. And if you are staying at the Astor or Saint Hotel (on-premise... read more

Take a shower and put clean clothes on

Going to be a bit of a rant.... sorry in advance....I sometimes feel like a snooty bitch or my standards are too high but then I realize taking a shower and putting on a non-torn shirt are not too much to ask.....I`m sorry guys but cut off shirts without sleeves, jeans that have been cut to shorts a... read more

Erotic Book Cover

I`ve just completed my first highly erotic and explicit book. I`ve had several couples read it and all report a high level of enjoyment plus great sex after reading any one of the chapters. Now I need a great book cover. I`m looking for something with couples and very sexy but not too explicit so th... read more

Cap d Agde

Hi there, we will be in Cap from July 20 to July 30, and looking to meet other couples. We have been every summer for the last six years, and love the place, maybe just people watching from a terrace, to foam party to beach fun and clubs. Hopefully by the time you read this our pictures have been pa... read more

Convincing vanillas

hey guys,Vanilla friends or any other acquaintances who simply dont know much about the lifestyle are quite a challenge to introduce them into it.there is this guy my girl saw in a party some time ago and they managed to chat on facebook later on, she meant to lead him into sexual talk but then he k... read more

What are they thinking?

Just returned from having drinks with a nice couple....who were old enough to be our parents.  Their profile clearly stated their age as just a couple of years older than us, their pictures seemed to back it up, and we had a nice exchange of e-mails for about a week before meeting this evening.  W... read more

cruise experience

Hello everyone, we are new into swinging and we would like to find out more about the cruises SDC organises. We would be very keen to discuss with other couples about their experiences.... read more

Big Party Week: 3rd to 8/4/17

3/4 Woke at 8.30am and Rita soon after. Got up after 9am and started to work. Rita got a call from Angelica who asked for a bed for the night. About an hour later she turned up. Rita left to shop and then A popped out and I went to gym. Got home after an hour and Rita a little later. Worked a bit m... read more

New List of Parties in Vegas check out the list

We are excited to announce the grand opening of Friday Nights Parties at the Alexis Park Hotel Pegasus Lounge &amp Club &amp Free Mega Suite Party. Both in the same hotel both open early 9 pm. Staring Friday April 14th. We also offering a discount code to book your room where the fun will be... read more

Touching without invitation?

I dabble in the kink world as well as the SDC world and in the kink world no means no and there is absolutely no touching someone without an invitation to do so... it`s just the way things are. Personal space, collars and all that mean a great deal....In the swinging world it`s the exact OPPOSITE of... read more

Couples for bi males

I feel that this SDC website is completely controlled by egoistic males who love threesomes with two girls.Do any of you control freaks understand that the girls also love the idea of being with two bi men? You expect females to be bisexual to suit your desires,but you are not brave enough to consid... read more

Amsterdam/Utrecht 14-18/4

Looking for singles/couples to enjoy some hot moments. Interested in clubs where lady can perform... read more

Kicked out of church

So I`m an agnostic, but maintain an open mind to the divine.  We were recently invited to visit what we thought was a very liberal, Episcopalian church and we accepted.  We loved it!  People were friendly.  The church was involved in a variety of social causes we believed in.  We found the mess... read more

ANY ONE KNOW OF A GREAT ADULT SWINGER PLACE FOR A VACATION??

WE ARE LOOKING TO GET AWAY SOMEWHERE AND DONT REALLY KNOW OF ANY PLACES OR BEEN TO ANY..I HEARD OF HEDO IN JAMAICA AND ANOTHER IN MEXICO CALLED DESIRE..WE JUST WANT A GREAT PLACE WITH GREAT SEXXY PEOPLE AND MOSTLY IN SHAPE THAT ARE NOT TOO OLD AND OUT OF SHAPE(BEACH BODIES MOSTLY AND PEOPLE WHO TAKE... read more

Whos Is Really On SDC?

So opinions, of all the couple profiles on SDC, what percentage of them does the female half know she is being used as bait?  She has no idea her spouse is using their private photos.Mrs. Euro picks the photos, I get my hands slapped if I try choose.And the second question, what percentage of `sing... read more

How do you know lifestyle friends have become real friends?

Warning: this is meant to be funny and true at the same time! Feel free to add to the listThere are signs that prove you are now real friends and not just a piece of meat:- you know their last name,- you met their parents at a regular party at their house,- you are invited to their wedding,- their k... read more

Taste Of Honey 7th April

last minute bookings for tomorrow party www.tasteofhoney.co.uk... read more

Sweet Swingers Club

The best swing club in Bucharest, and probably in all Romania!Reservation no : +40785.961.450Club Swing (by www.swinger-romania.ro&nbspand www.club-swing.ro ) is a private location, with a closed circuit, devised to satisfy absolutely all claims of the swingers community.To attend the parties o... read more

where are you?

I have never...never not once, run into anyone whom i`ve&nbspmet and mingled with in the the lifestyle&nbspbe it meet and greets or play parties out in the real world,not at a park,a movie or at the grocery store.where do you all disappear to? and if by chance i ever do,how should i acknowle... read more

Responses and Blocks

This is sort of a controversial subject among SDC members and that is the type of response you send or don`t send when someone sends you a nicely worded email. &nbspI have posted about this before and I thought my computer was going to blow up from all the responses so I won`t go to deep into th... read more

Party Time in Paris: 26/3 to 2/4/17

26/3 We didn`t wake till lunchtime and we just had a moochy afternoon in front of the TV and then early evening packed for our trip to Paris on Monday. Early night as we were both tired.27/3 We both woke early and had a frenetic few minutes of fucking which was delicious. This kicked of Rita`s perio... read more

Grlooking for young couples in Bangkok

Greetings... we are young cool couple &amp looking for cool lifestyle couples for spend nighlty movements ... well come couples &amp BI girls to text us.. we will be in bangkok until 18th April... :-) ... read more

Bangkok & Siem Reap Hotel Couples meet

We are free in Bangkok on the evenings of 4th, 5th and 14th April.We are free in Siem Reap on the 12th of April.We will are staying in a nice Hotels and would be keen to meet another couple for a drink in the Hotel bar, before seeing where it goes from there. Couples only pls (no single guys)! ... read more

Bangkok & BDSM

Hi, we are looking for bdsm-fun in bangkok: Informationes, places, meetings and more... read more

Thursday Party Starters

If you like to get the party started right on Thursdays...that`s what we are talking about. Some of you can not join the weekend party, so why not start early? Let us know if you wanna bring your swing during the week...we got a plan for ya. What do you say?... read more