April 2018 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from April 2018.

First time anal pointers?

We have done a lot, but have never done anal-i(female) am looking forward to our first time . First time pointers for us. Looking for techniques and for any products that may have helped you.... read more

Birthday Party Week: 23/4 to 29/4/18

23/4 Monday and a steady work day. Rita and I headed to the gym at lunchtime. Really enjoyed it but as it had been a while it left us a little store. Rita ended up feeling tired and so we went to bed around 9pm. Rita soon fell asleep and later I picked up a book and read for an hour before sleeping.... read more

Lessons from this past week-end (2)

A friend suggested I start writing a blog since we are pretty active in the lifestyle and seem to have fun stories to tell. Ok, here it is. This is the second attempt to tell a funny story and at the same time draw lessons from it that can benefit other couples. Rule #1 (again): if you don't like th... read more

Barcelona Swing Clubs

Hello, Can someone please recommend to me swing clubs in Barcelona where single men are allowed. I like gang bangs and I am looking for a place where I can fuck lots of men. ... read more

Questionable Couple`s Profiles

Something we have wondered about for some time, you look at a couple'sprofile, and the majority or all of the photos are of the male, sometimes even theprofile's lead photo.  Or if there are photos of the female, she is totally clothed evenif in a bathing suit, only  "conservative" photos.... read more

Lifestyle in Playa Del Carmen

Hey !! Just looking for any info some of you may have about Playa Del Carmen? We are headed there May 29th and just wondered if there are any lifestyle clubs there. Where to go what to do. Thanks in advance!! ... read more

Single Males Listing As Couples

is getting out of hand. I’ve seen more than 10 profiles like that. It’s to circumvent the single males block but it’s there for a reason. Damn!The mods who review the pics should catch these imposters. Keep their money and block their IP address ... read more

Lessons from this past week-end

A friend suggested I start writing a blog since we are pretty active in the lifestyle and seem to have fun stories to tell. Ok, here it is. This is an attempt to tell a funny story and at the same time draw lessons from it that can benefit other couples. Rule #1: if you don't like this blog, don't t... read more

Difference Between House Parties And An Orgy

Other than possilby the location, is there a difference?  In over 15 years have never been to an announced "orgy", but have been to house parties. Seems they are the same.After attending our second house party, and being made to feel you had to participate even if you did not find anyone attrac... read more

Be Aware! Kik users posing as SDC member

Just wanted to give everyone a heads up of what we have experienced a couple times now. Yesterday we received a Kik from someone saying hello. I asked them where did they find our info, they said they use to be members on SDC but are no longer on. They said they reached out to us before they cl... read more

My Third Lifestyle Experience

After my first lifestyle experience where hubby and a stranger in a club played with my pussy under a table, and the second when we went to a strip club and ended up at a bachelor party, I was no longer afraid that hubby would think less of me. In fact, I’d wanted to fuck some of those ... read more

My Second Lifestyle Experience

Following my first lifestyle experience where hubby and another guy played with my pussy under the table at a dance club, I was excited, but nervous that he wouldn’t respect me anymore, and wouldn’t want me. Over the next few weeks he kept talking about what happened at the club and h... read more

My Introduction to the Lifestyle

When hubby and I were dating, we went to a dance club and he made a bet with me. He told me to sit at the bar by myself while he sat at a table. If I didn't get hit on within 2 minutes he would give me $100, but if someone did hit on me, I had to do whatever he told me to do sexually. I wasn't very ... read more

What a Sexy Week: 16/4 to 22/4/18

16/4 Woke just after 7.30 and came too slowly. A mainly work day but one of those where you wonder what you actually achieved! Slight chesty cough but main problem of feeling drained. We watched a film early evening on TV which was basically incomprehensible and so watched the end in bed and soon a... read more

What a Sexy Week: 16/4 to 22/4/18

16/4 Woke just after 7.30 and came too slowly. A mainly work day but one of those where you wonder what you actually achieved! Slight chesty cough but main problem of feeling drained. We watched a film early evening on TV which was basically incomprehensible and so watched the end in bed and soon a... read more

SMs At Trapeze on Sundays

How long have this been in effect?Not even good-looking guys.Obviously the change was for monetary reasons but whatever.Just a heads up.... read more

Is SDC becoming the new Craigslist

So for those of you who don’t know what’s going on. Recently Craigslist personal section was shut down and most recently Backpage was seized. The reason for this is, “US Congress passed HR 1865, "FOSTA", seeking to subject websites to criminal and civil liability when third parties (users) mis... read more

travel plans?

hey everyone! we're back after a break, the site has changed somewhat. How/where to add travelplans?... read more

Profile essays WTF?

In the past there 5 or so sections for profile essays. Description, what are you looking for, fantasies, other info, etc.Now it appears there are only two sections? It seems all our essays are still there as written, but now each section is mixed in order and all thrown together in the second e... read more

Member services

Has the member services been deleted. In the past we found a real estate, painter, and auto repair. Dose not seem to be here any more ???... read more

Lighten up...

We found one!  ... read more

Home Party

we always have great parties. In which because of it a huge amount of people want to come to the party. In which we have to draw the line at some point. So today I get this  Quote from MrandMrs bla bla bla " Evidently you prefer pigs and old dicks with guts hanging out over a hot kinky cou... read more

Squirting at clubs

We are a couple that only shares the wife so when we go clubs we make sure there its on nights that they have singles, We recently went to one of the local clubs and once the guys found out the the Mrs. squirts this is all they wanted to do, It came to point to a point in middle of the night when sh... read more

What makes you a BBC, BWC, BHC, etc?

First and foremost I just want to emphasize that I do not like these acronyms at all. I hate labels and it bothers me to see people refer to someone as an “object” rather than an actual human being who might be well endowed. But given the fact that many people refer to themselves as this or are ... read more

Stop the Madness!

I think enough is enough of the banter back and forth between certain singles and couples who post blogs. CLEARLY some of you are blocked for writing on others blogs. Maybe it was warranted maybe it wasn’t. I could care less. I totally understand blogs are for people to read and comment on. Whethe... read more

Speaking Of Thin Skin AND Short Fuses...

There you go, proving my point!!  Thanks guys, your response is appreciated.  Why did it take so long? ... read more

Speaking of `Thin Skin`

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Speaking Of Blocking.......

Time for the quarterly check "who blocked me" list. Everyone should try this, you likely will be amazed at those you never met, with whom you never connected or communicated, have blocked you.Some people just have short fuses and/or thin skin. So go to the left column, clic "connect", then "contac... read more

Power of the `BLOCK` Button

Reading through blogs, I've realized most of the questions regarding things that are irritating or even infuriating can be solved with a simple press of the "block" button. It solves so many dilemmas and prevents unwarranted stress. Harassment, unwanted emails, unwanted view of your profile, unwante... read more

Hedonism in Jamaica

Hey guys,My husband and I have our Wedding anniversary coming up next month and wanted some opinions on couples and/or singles who have been to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica. We were curious about the Age range of the crowd, the atmosphere, the parties or events and if you liked it or not. Any response... read more

To Like or Not to Like

So how does this work.  We look at your profile, find it very sexy and we like it. You look at ours and think, they will do and you like ours back. We then send you an email. You ignore it.  Why did you bother liking us in the first place.All very odd or are we missing something here. ... read more

Couples visiting BBCs in all areas

At times when couples come into town with an interary to play or go out on events during the week or days. Keep in mind places like where I live in Vegas. Working BBCs like myself try to bracket times to meet and stay in constant contact with a work schedule on times that are able and willing to pla... read more

Too close to `Yikes !!!` for comfort

We aren't much different than many lifestyle couples, as we keep discretion key, for all the usual reasons. We'd often envisioned  our worst nightmare being one of our relatives (all who live at least 500 miles away) showing up for a surprise visit while we were in the midst of lifestyle mayhem... read more

Pattaya Summer Party

☀🌈The Summer Party ☀🌈14th June - 18th JuneDaily Breakfast 🍞🍜 starts @ 8am - 11amBeers, soft drinks, water, cup noodles & bread 24 hours available.3 dinner provided accept Day 3 Saturday AA style Dinner @ Silverlake area.*Thursday* Day 1 ~ 14th June.Party 1 (Icebreaker Party... read more

You Looked at My Profile but Did Not Write To Me..so you must be interested..right?,,,wrong!

One thing that has always puzzled us, and yes single males do it more, but couples do it to, is when we view a proifle and do nothing else, and the person writes to us apparently thinking that us looking at the profile amd doing nothing is an indication of interest.  Isn’t it the opposite? &n... read more

Tips for hunting vanillas

We are headed to Mexico in a few weeks for a vanilla vacation but already the fantasy of finding and converting vanilla folk is creeping into our minds.  Are there tricks or success stories you could share?  We’d love to lure some couple into our suite and corrupt them. We’d love to fi... read more

Stamina Trating Party Week: 9/4 to 15/4/18

9/4 MsN left at 7.30, followed by Rita’s eldest who stormed out for no real reason. I had a conference call and then left just before 1pm to meet MrS at Home House. Met MrS at 1.30 and had a nice chat and snack with him. Saw MsV and while S was busy on the phone had a nice chat with her. Left jus... read more

Blog rules

I just sent a message to the help desk, but I’m sure it’ll be a while before they get back to me. Maybe someone here can help with the questions I asked them. Essentially, I asked if there are any rules for posting in Blogs, and if anyone with authority monitors the Blogs. It would be nice ... read more

Vegas Swingers Options?

Can anyone give more details on Vegas swinger options?  I’ve gotten this much info so far.  Which is best for meetings couples in their 20’s-30’s with minimal/no single males on site?Whispers- at a local venue but I can’t get more info because only an email list is available to sig... read more

Vote them ALL OUT!If ever there

!f ever there was a better example of why you should vote against all of your current congresspeople I have never seen it.  Sen Orin Hatch, trying one more time ( along with the other 42 hacks present from the Senate) to bask in the  limelight, rather than actually doing something, actuall... read more


Any suggestions for a massage place that Caters to couples from sdc ?... read more

Busy Week - Fun Weekend: 3 - 8/4/18

3/4 Start of what was a very busy week work wise. In fact worked flat out till early evening - supper and early bed.4/4 Another busy day with a break at gym while Rita headed off to youngest’s place. Early supper and another early night.5/4 Beginning to sound repetitious. Managed another gym break... read more

Concern about the Login Page Map

I just sent this to the Help Desk,I could be wrong but I thought I should share it for you to support or roast us...After much muttering you seem to have got the map on the front working and it's fascinating to see how many members there are around. However, once I click on one to see more I get the... read more

Cuckold clubs/parties in Prague?

hi, were wondering if there are any cuckold clubs/parties happening in Prague city centre? Will be there for work soon and any suggestions would be welcome.... read more

Starting new!! Want to get reviews..

Hello fellow Swingers,I am a single male here, as many others on this site. I have been here on this site before too and have gone about reading similar blogs from other single males.So, here's my situation, its pretty difficult here for beginners. How does one go about establishing trust and intera... read more

Men Speaking On Behalf Of Women?

Can not post on that blog, been blocked.  But really, this single male is thinking he is going to educate all other males as to how women really feel?  Really? How incredibly arrogant.  Most psychologists have no idea how women really feel, most men do not know how women really feel, ... read more

false ads

it's amazing how a few select people here can be on 3 different party guestlists for the same night..i wish i had such energy,how do they do it?... read more

The Story Behind Women Rights And Selection Of Their Partner Will Haunt You Forever!

The Story Behind Women Rights And Selection Of Their Partner Will Haunt You Forever! Women should get their rights to choose and the right to say "no" in the choice of their male partners. Most people do accept a "no" because that’s how the system works. It works because everyone wants ... read more

Fab Bank Holiday Weekend: 26/3 to 3/5

26/3 Rita had an appointment with a hypnotherapist I had arranged to see if she could help with her persistent snd I thought psychosomatic cough. She got back around 5 and we will have to wait and see if it did the trick. Had an evening in and had a sexy night together.27/3 A good day as a big deal ... read more

Sexy housewives club

 Amways wanted to have a housewives club,have a meeting spot to socialize have some drinks and enjoy the moment  !! Maybe latter go somewhere to have some fun !! 😈lol depends on the mood ! What you ladies think ?  ... read more

NAKED WRESTLING back to the basics

Remember when you were young 15 16 17 and you first discovered your sexuality your first girlfriend your first boyfriend and you too discovered your sexuality when y'all will go off somewhere alone and he would try and cop a feel  she would try to stop you  well pretending  to stop yo... read more

Sex toy question

My wife wants a toy 1.That can add to the impact she feels when my balls slap up against her when I do her doggystyle.2 also looking for a toy that can rub/stimulate  her clit when I take her doggystyle.we have the we vibe 3. But I don’t find it comfortable when me and it are inside her.... read more

SEXperience with @ LUHANN

@ LUHANN !!! > Wonderful & a fabulous couple…. Whom every friend shall envy to have.Accidently met this couple at the break time of a meeting. They have seen me surfing SDC looking for some. Smile on our faces was enough to reach each other’s mind. JMy first remark about them i... read more