May 2017 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from May 2017.

campaña de verano

Hola a todos y todas, hemos decido colgar este blog para informarles de que hemos puesto desde ayer, la nueva campaña de verano. Para todas aquellas parejas que quieran aprovechar este descuento durante los meses de junio, julio y agosto.Besos... read more

Email Etiquette

We have reached out to some compatible couples via email, which they have read, but never responded. &nbspWe know that some write in their profile that if they don`t respond, it means that they`re not interested. &nbspWe respond to every email from couples (single guys-not always, unless it ... read more

Erotic photography

Hi. I am an Amsterdam based photographer shooting erotic/fetish photography.My work can be seen on www.katrinviil.comAt the moment I am looking for models that are willing to pose on some promo materials for SDC.I will make a contract and models will get a selection of photos for their own use for f... read more

People who think you`re on approachable

Not true! Why do we always here this. &nbspWe are just &nbsprespectable specially my husband , he is not the &nbsptype that gropes or says &nbspanything derogative . I am shy. Until you get to no me. &nbspPlease no rude &nbspcomments or you can shove them up your butt ! &... read more


Headed to Miami in a couple of weeks and we are planning to go to both Trapeze &amp Miami Velvet but we were wondering which place to go for Saturday and Friday night, any help on best days to attend each?... read more

Private party etiquette

We have been invited to a private party but we couldn`t make it , we were looking and noticed the option to invite yourself to the party. Is it the the norm for private parties? Seems strange to invite yourself to a private party. ... read more

Happy Memorial Day

We like to say thanks to all the Brave` Men`s &amp Women`s that served to help pertect our Nation! Thanks to all the sacrifice that they made for us! We also must give thanks to all there family member`s. Mom`s, Dad`s , Wife`s, Husband`s, Sister`s, &amp Brother`s. That supported them ... read more

Risque vegas

Can anyone tell me of their experiance at risque vegas estate. I came across it online and it looks very nice but I can`t find many reviews.... read more

Our Adventure into the Lifestyle

Our Podcast...Miami Swings....So we are Marco and Ranee, We have just started our first ever podcast to chronicle our adventures into the Lifestyle.We would love for you to seek out our podcast, listen to it and send us your feedback.Its unscripted and all real, mistakes and all.Its called MiamiSwin... read more


IS TANTRA MASSAGE A FAKE SERVICE? The answers are yes, maybe and no. YES, when the muscle groups not worked on no matter Tantra or other name of massage will be just oiling your body. NO, when the muscle group worked on and completed with sharing energy, connected, sensual awakened, respect as a ... read more

Slightly SDC related

Ok so I am a total technofeeb...I hooked up my TV to my wireless network so I can netflix etc. &nbspYeah me! I thought I would be able to therefore browse the net and get to SDC on my TV...not so much. &nbspInterweb search is this possible? &nbspNot looking for instruction... read more

Our Podcast...Miami Swings....

So we are Marco and Ranee, we have just starred our first ever podcast to chronicle our adventure into the lifestyle.We would &nbsplove for you to seek out our podcast, listen to it and send us your feedback.Its unscripted and all real, mistakes and all.Send us an email at miamiswings@yahoo.comW... read more

Sex with a Stranger

Before it was a different attitude I had.  Tonight, I wrote artie my telephone number.  No texting.I guess it`s a different form of hunger.  I unblocked every person that I had blocked.  A new beginning.  Of course, this man I`ve known for sometime and did not enjoy our intimacy.  I just don`t... read more

When the mennas have paused...

Bad joke. I know. But it`s reality.How have you (hubby or wife) dealt with it? Suggestions (other than, `Talk to your doctor`.... BTDT).Feelings (physical or emotional - or both)?... read more


15/6Monday morning. Work day with break for gym. Rita woke with a cold. Watched a little TV and then early bed. Rita`s coughing went on for over an hour and by the time she fell asleep I was awake and ended up with a restless night.16/6 Woke at 9am. Rita was already up. I relaxed in bed before doin... read more


Beware!  After buying one of their weekend deals found out it had alot of Blackout dates.And when we didnt use it they refused a refund and kept our deposit. $500... read more

Site death???

Just no activity...have the cool kids moved elsewhere?... read more

Best Club worldwide?

&nbspWhat is your favorite lifestyle club you have visited anywhere in the world and why? Looking to maybe try some clubs in Europe next month.... read more

Rule on website ?

Is there any rule on this website ? What can I do and what I cannot ? Tell me what you hate from others (approach, type of messages, picture...). What its special on this site ? What are the general rules ? (I know I`m new sorry for this post). ... read more


We live in Miami and were interested in lifestyle vacation options for the Memorial Day weekend.  Thanks in advance!... read more

Miami Fort Lauderdal area

What are some fun vanilla activities in the Fort Lauderdale/Miami area? We`ve enjoyed Trapeze club and Haulover beach, but trying to find new spots.... read more

Acting separately

We have acted in the past separately on several occasions and have told each during our mutual sex act all details of our escapades heightening even more our sexual tension. As such we have decided to do that on a much more regular basis.We would like to hear from couples who enjoy same ... read more

Voyeur Cam

I`m struggling to get voyeur cam to work...When I log in there`s never anything being shown. Anyone have ideas to help? Thanks.... read more

A Certain Kind of fun....

We are wondering how to approach this. Our lady wants to be in the room, tied tightly to a chair...and watch whilst her man an another use and have fun with another lady...she wants to be made jealous but then let lose,,,whats the best way to approach this?... read more

Music Playlist for Playing?

This is inspired by poor music from one of those `radio stations` on Google Music last night. &nbspVery annoying to have lousy songs (not to mention commercials) come on and not wanting to stop to change it. &nbspSo, any thoughts on what should be on our own personal play playlist? &nbsp... read more

Best vegas clubs

Can anyone give me their opinion of the best las vegas swingers clubs today. When I was their years ago green door and rooster were the hot spots I heard. In researching for my upcoming trip I see several new clubs have opened... read more

How do you hookup couples?

HelloI`m really curious to know what do you do to hook up with other couples? Do you go to them and ask or you let it come from the other couple ?Many couples we endup talking forever for nothing.Kisses to all... read more

Best Clubs in Randstad

We are a couple living The Hague that visited many times Fun4two and a few times Fata, but besides these two clubs we don`t have any idea where to go.What are the best clubs for a couple mainly interested to play with other couples (ages from 30 to 50) in Randstad area? ... read more

Red Dress

A red dress rolled up while juicy lips are ready, waiting for the thrust Long manicured hands, stimulate, while head and eyes roll back in pleasure Labia is spread wide as I am riding west getting that deep rhythm right Television runs, no one watches as we make our own sexy sitcom As both par... read more

Sensual Massage Party and Vacuum Bed Soirée: 8/5 Ro 15/5/17

8/5 couldn`t believe it - We woke at 11.30am! Got up and got stuck into work emails straight away. Worked through remainder of the day and early evening Rita and I watched a really scary horror called The Hallow. After we started a naughty night and wasn`t long before we were naked and making love a... read more

Musings - Meeting your match

The huntress enters the arena. A new conquest. No worries. It`s time to slay himShe is dressed in her weapons of choice with nicely french manicured nails and lipstick. In the arena, the ghosts of her prior conquests watch on. She is so ready He enters slowly. Watching his prey move wit... read more

Musings -- Pale Rider

Pale Rider Sexy Pale Rider comes into town, slender and sexy with an angular jaw line So the rider is a lightweight, he orders his favorite spring drink Her body reveals, a life of exercise and self-discipline His focus is the mind, her deep life story will always draw men in... read more

51: Just Hanging Out

Play SinD, Reverend Jon, Bill and Alice hang out together in this post-action debrief bedcast.  It was Alice's first visit to a BDSM dungeon (we took her to "Dragon's Gate" in Los Angeles), where she got tied up and suspended, and had all sorts of things done to her.    We give our updates and... read more


Hi,We are going to Florence next week and we were planning to visit The New Gamer Club however, there is very little reviews on internet on them and also they do not reply to our messages. Have anyone been there and could advise if this is a good club? Or maybe you know a b... read more


Hi there ! I`m here looking to hook up with other men to have my wife who I watch! Big fantasy of mine ,she does know about it but is very shy so I have come up with an idea to surprise her, I`m looking for someone who will meet us when we go to car park for sex! This will come as a surprise and wil... read more

A fun old swingers talk

So I hire a personal in the gym at getting the core to fire and undo 35 years of bicycle racing...she is of course tonight she shows up in yoga pants and my infernal always in overdrive sex drive kicks in...any advice on how to turn the damn thing off?? 😆😆😆... read more

Sex with a Stranger

Hey, ho! Lo and Behold!  It is I&nbsp- a little&nbspsnail within a forest of trees, flowers and birds.  The birds are chirping, the snail has survived and attempts some slow forward steps.  And the trees and flowers pass just as the seasons, enduring all the distractions the world knocks ... read more

Sex with a Stranger

Hey, ho! Lo and Behold!  It is I&nbsp- a little&nbspsnail within a forest of trees, flowers and birds.  The birds are chirping, the snail has survived and attempts some slow forward steps.  And the trees and flowers pass just as the seasons, enduring all the distractions the world knocks ... read more

Flirt club in Rome

Hi! Traveling to Rome, Italy in June. Is it worth checking out/staying at Flirt in Rome on a Saturday night? Love to hear some feedback. How`s the location, crowd size, age, etc...Thanks!! T and R ... read more

Cap d`agde babysitter dog caretaker

SITTER FOR CHILD AND ANIMALSCould be perfect between the 15th of July 26th.Or 30 July to 27 August!Cap d agde naturisme (oltra and others)Looking for a reliable, funny, private baby kit or animal bag for a few hours during the day and at night.(Flexible in consultation)We are discreetly sincere and ... read more

Hidden Beach

We are going To Hidden Beach resort in Mexico and we would like to know if any one has been there and if so are you allowed to fuck on your porch or any where in the pool ,, ? we have been to Desire and desire Pearl and we were able to fuck just about anywhere , Please let us know Thanks... read more

Fun week after Lanzarote Party: 3/5 to 7/5/17

3/5 Alarm went of at 8.30am and slowly showered and packed the bags. Had a light breakfast with Rita before saying our goodbyes and then the short drive to the airport where we left the car, checked in and headed for the VIP lounge to chill for an hour before the fight was called. Rita provisioned u... read more

Honesty and full communication???

We were foolish enough to believe that of anywhere in society, the LS would surely be the place where those two characteristics would not only be abundant but the very backbone! Sadly it would seem that not only is it not the case but that some people have found more creative ways to be dishonest!... read more


Being in the LS is about truth and honest communication!!!If you`re not woman enough to say no and have to have another woman `rescue` you, perhaps you might rethink being in the LS!! I would expect this kind of shit from especially the single males!!... read more


We`re contemplating going there tomorrow night only out of convenience....yea we`re stuck in lower nowhere Marion/Lake counties...Any current feedback on this venue? &nbspShe tells me, and I`ve surmised as much form the web, &nbspthat the aesthetics are a bit lacking relative to places such ... read more

Partying at Juice in Lanzarote: 27/4 to 2/5

27/4 Alarm went off at 4.45am. Got up and quickly showered and left just after 5. It was freezing and the car was iced up. Drove the short distance to the airport and then got stuck in a queue which turned out to be the `Express` set down for the airport. Can`t see that lasting long as when the airp... read more

Quality of sex with others

How do you rate the quality of play/sex with others when you`ve the chance?... read more

Old pictures/fake pictures

Why is it that most of the profiles on Sdc have old pictures or fake pictures? Like why &nbspmislead other people when eventually if you meet they will just have wasted there time because you look nothing like your pictures. People don`t care what you looked like 10 years ago they want current. ... read more

The Safe Word is Kiwi.

Well, my girl and I have decided to expand our horizons. We`ve never been chaste or bottled up but we want to accelerate the process as opposed just waiting for chaos to strike. I guess to start off this blog I`ll describe us.Me: 6`1` White guy, age 45. Happily divorced and now in a relationship tha... read more

Las Vegas June 21 to June 24

We are going to sin City , let us know if any couples will be there ... read more