June 2008 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from June 2008.

Thanks Everyone

Who partied with us @ Club Lick last sat for our SDC Couples Only Party and also Johno's (MARMITE) birthday bash !! It was a excellent night as always packed to the rafters with sexy horny couples and pumping funky house music all nite !!Club Lick is and always will be the best swingers/dance club v... read more

Paphos Cyprus

In paphos between 2 July and 7 July. Anyone know of any good clubs to visit or any decent nude beaches in that area?... read more

Thailand

Hey all fun young couple heading to Thailand for July. Let us know if you are heading over we might hook up.... read more

Sardegna hasta mediado de julio

Fino alla metà di luglio in vacanza nel nord della Sardegna.... read more

This Weekend At The Silver Minx

  We’re having a Pajama Party this Friday night. sexy , see thru or fun and comfy. Join us for a fulfilled night with music and friends.10.00 off suggested donation if you come dressed in theme!For reservations please call us!     Daisy Dukes and tee's are the theme for the night!!... read more

This Weekend at The Silver Minx

We’re having a Pajama Party this Friday night. sexy , see thru or fun and comfy. Join us for a fulfilled night with music and friends.10.00 off suggested donation if you come dressed in theme!For reservations please call us!     Daisy Dukes and tee's are the theme for the night!!!!... read more

Have a laugh

  Wife says to Husband "You make love like you decorate".   Hisband replies "What?  Very slow and professional?".  "No" she replies, "I have to finish the job myself".  ______________________________________________________________    Zookeeper says to Paddy... read more

Have a laugh

  Wife says to Husband "You make love like you decorate".   Hisband replies "What?  Very slow and professional?".  "No" she replies, "I have to finish the job myself".  ______________________________________________________________    Zookeeper says to Paddy... read more

Have a laugh

Wife says to Husband "You make love like you decorate".   Hisband replies "What?  Very slow and professional?".  "No" she replies, "I have to finish the job myself".  ______________________________________________________________    Zookeeper says to Paddy "The G... read more

Same-Sex Marriage

I'm always a bit flummoxed around here about how Swingers tend to be among the most socially conservative people I have ever met.  There seems to be a major disconnect at times between individual lifestyle choices and the extension of those choices and rights to others.  So, I'm wondering ... read more

Sheer Xcitement Friday and Denim and Diamonds Saturday at The Silver Minx

                              Friday Night Sheer and sexy is the theme and dress for the evening! Ladies,cum dressed in theme!See how many fevers are hea... read more

Naturist resort in the area of Athens

Hi We are flying to Athens the 10 of september and are looking for a naturist resorts within driving distance from Athens.  We have tried to find anything on the web but cant find anything near Athens. We welcome all information.  Thanks in advance L & M     ... read more

Fun in Mykonos

We are going to be in Mykonos  from the 21st of June until the 27th... read more

Fun in Mykonos

We will be in Mykonos between the 21st and 27th of June... read more

Las Vegas...June 18-22

Hitting Vegas June 18th-22....if you live there or will be visiting there during this time, let us know.   We are looking for HOT YOUNG fun people to hang out with!... read more

Lanzarote

Hi, we'll be in Lanzarote 21st to 26th June. Love to meet couple for drink / chat and see where it leads. D&J... read more

Lanzarote

Hi, we'll be in Lanzarote 21st to 26th June. Love to meet couple for drink / chat and see where it leads. D&J... read more

This Weekend and More at The Silver Minx

This weekend and other upcoming events We'll be having a different twist on truth or dare, with a lot of laughs. Join us this night to get this weekend started right! A fun Friday and an awesome Saturday!!!                  ... read more

This weekend and more at The Silver Minx

This weekend and other upcoming events We'll be having a different twist on truth or dare, with a lot of laughs. Join us this night to get this weekend started right! A fun Friday and an awesome Saturday!!!                  ... read more

Paphos, Cyprus

HI all,   we will be staying in paphos, cyprus for 1 week 11-18 june.   Anybody want to meet up for a drink?? and we'll see were the night takes us    p.s we are on a family holiday so discretion required   kelly+ian... read more

Short Term Memory Could Effect McCain

Hello everyone, long time no see..... I came across this little tidbit and thought it worthy of sharing, mostly because it's very indicative of McCains situational ethics.... In the forward to "The Best and The Brightest" John McCain wrote: "It was a shameful thing to ask men to suffer and die, to p... read more

Berlin Fetish Clubs

We are off to Berlin in the near future and wonder if any members can tell us of any fetish dance clubs. We go to Torture Garden in London often and are looking for something similar. Two4fun x x x ... read more

amsterdam

 hi we would like to go go to fun4two, anyone got tips on flights and hotels, maybe some of you have been before ,so any infomation would be great. thanks, hope you are all having fun... read more

Couples Resorts in Negril and Ochos Rios

Hi folks- any feedback on either of these resorts? We've been to Hedo II and loved the party atmosphere, amenities, staff, and overall vibe- like minded lifestylers within 10 years of our age. are the Couples resorts more for just people with no kids, or lifestyle friendly/oriented...? Thanks in ad... read more

Cap d'Agde

Will be in Cap d'Agde from 14th June to 21st June. Would love to hear from anyone there at the same time for sexy fun. Have been several times before so if you want showing the sites, you would be very welcome. XXX... read more

This weekend at The Silver Minx

Friday night School girlz gone WILD! Sexy and Naughty and so much fun. Class is in session for all you teachers and learners, don't be late! As always we are BYOB . For reservations please call us at 972-225-6792 at 972-754-8768 or Valorie at 972-530-0656 after 5:00 p.m. Rhonda and Ruel For special ... read more

This Weekend at The Silver Minx

  Friday Night School Girlz Gone Wild!  Friday night School girlz gone WILD! Sexy and Naughty and so much fun. Class is in session for all you teachers and learners, don't be late! As always we are BYOB . For reservations please call us at 972-225-6792 at 972-754-8768 or Valorie at 972-5... read more

in ISTANBUL this weekend from 5th to 7th June

any suggestions for fun or drinks ?... read more

THE ECONOMY (a poll)

saw where fuel prices are effecting the brothel business. seems one is even offering free gas to their customers. so this to be a poll. be honest................ read more

anonimous comments

Dear Elvis, I allways enjoy thorougly reading your counselor-items. We are in this swingworld for quite some time now, and i have noticed that apart from a lot of fun, there allways arise issues, most often because of communication... it is not the communication in itself, but often men understan t... read more

local swinging activity

hi, we are a chinese couple and it seen there is not much activities in locally. hope that those true swinging couple here can setup a monthly meet that we can organize to get the ball rolling. looking forwards for some reply.  ... read more

Is genital piercing exciting?

Hi I am quite excited by the idea of having a piercing in the clitoris hood, so I was wondering if women were having one for esthetic reason or does it also provide pleasure? COuld you tell me Dr Ziggy or you playmates all the constraints, so it might put me off? Cheers, Fl... read more

too many rules =

Bad sex! Well at least that is my opinion.  There are few people on here who probably don't have any rules and rules in them self aren't a bad thing.  In fact I'd argue they are condusive to good sex because if everyone is respectful and operates with in agreed limits etc then everyone ca... read more

just playing the game

                                             Playing the Game.   Her nerves w... read more

Book Review: Zen Sex - The Way of Making Love

Although primarily directed towards the monogamous couple, this book can also be useful to those exploring their sexuality via the lifestyle, especially those that are looking to deepen their understanding of themselves and their partner while sharing themselves with others.  The life... read more

HI

WE ARE LOOKING FOR A SWINGING CRUISE. CAN YOU HELP? ANY WEBSITE? THANKS, K&G... read more

What is a "Hot Wife"?

Credit for this definition goes to Hot Wife Allie. What is a "Hot Wife"?  The term hot wife is often used to describe a happily married woman who enjoys intimate relations with other men, with her loving husband's full and genuine support, but where he typically agrees to be comple... read more

To all of our HOTTT ASS Peeps!!

We just wanted to say that since we've begun the lifestyle; our experiences have been from atrocious, to mesmerizing.  Through it all, we're closer now than EVER!! Communication is the KEY to any SUCCESSFUL marriage, team, business, etc.  SOOOOO We wanted to say THANK YOU for everyone we'... read more

Rape/forced sex fantasies

Now I will admit that until I started playing I'd never thought that anyone would fantasize about rape/forced sex scenarios, except perhaps a few warped sick men.  But over the last couple of years I've met several women who have fantasised about forced s... read more

Speed dating

Will be interesting to see what do you think about speed dating. How many of you are actualy using it?... read more

Hetero-male anal pleasures

Does the desire of a Hetro-male to be anally pentrated by his female playmate with a finger , or toy of some sort , indicate Bi , Homsexual tendencies ..?... read more

You Find Out Your Boss Is a SWINGER!!!!

It was always a rumor that he/she was a swinger now it for sure?  You guys meet @ meet and greet.  They are plastered (Drunk off there Ass) and tell all there story’s of there swing lifestyle. Question is do you ask for the raise or just try there spouse out for the ride? Not your e... read more

Swinging in Ireland

This article appeared a few weeks ago in the Irish Indepentant newspaper. What say ye? http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/relationships/trading-partners-1402021.html?startindex=10#comments  ... read more

Pleasure Palace Tampa Fl- WTF??

East Coast Fl people don't waste any time or money on this place.  Took a group of 13 one weekend, spent money on a hotel, gas, foot etc. and disappointed was putting it mildly.  They advertised wrong prices on the website to start off and most clubs will give you a discount for such a lar... read more

Who ultimately decides - him or her?

I ask in the expectation that most people who reply will say that that the decision is a joint one, which each partner having the power of veto.  However, does the same stand if your looking to meet a single of either sex and who is it that spends most of the time managing your profile. A... read more

Who should pay for a hotel room?

If a couple is going to meet up for sex with a single guy who should pay for the room?... read more

Herpes

Should a couple who one of them has been tested positive for the herpes virus countinue in the lifestyle ... read more

Catching or finding out about friend, co-worker, PTA member, family member, or Teacher

I was thinking of the time I caught a Former high school teacher at swing club. Talk about being surprised!!! I've also ran into people from college that are now in the lifestyle.... read more

How to approach your partner about soft swinging

We are a married couple in a great relationship for over 20 years. We have been to Hedo and Desire, but have not participated in the lifestyle. I am interested in soft swinging with my wife. What are your suggestions on  how to approach her about this, and not make her feel like something is mi... read more

Whole New Meaning to POLE VAULT....

So it seems that Clemens needed Mindy for more then one reason. I was surprised and actually thought this was a joke, but when you actually look at the pathophysiology of ED meds., they could be some truth.   Father's little helper? Viagra may offer athetic edge FOXSports.com   &nb... read more

Sex with STD's

Is it common for swingers to contract STD's Would you as a couples play or have sex with a couple who had an STD using protection?... read more

herpes

Hello Doc.  I have a really hard question to ask but need guidance on this matter. Approximately 15 years ago I had a sore on my genital area that was diagnosed as Herpes.  It cleared up and I never saw it again.  This was while I was in boot camp and I just thought it was a fluke aft... read more

herpes

Hello Doc.  I have a really hard question to ask but need guidance on this matter. Approximately 15 years ago I had a sore on my genital area that was diagnosed as Herpes.  It cleared up and I never saw it again.  This was while I was in boot camp and I just thought it was a fluke aft... read more

How often do you play?

Is it twice a week, once a week, twice a month or just once a month? Are you an on and off type of couple or single? How often do you think you would like to play? Then what prevents you from playing as often as you would like?... read more

Can you top this stupidity? Actual email...

 This is an actual email we got tonight. We certainly aren't mad that this wonderful gentleman made such a sincere effort at grabbing "our" attention, but we have to sympathize with the decent single men that get lumped into the same category as this guy. After a few dozen of these, c... read more

SWINGERS IN FOX NEWS

after seen this video in fox news, what is your opinion going mainsream??? For us the society taboos and the clandestinity of the lifestyle spice the things!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-de7exq030  ... read more

lubricants

What is the best lubricant that is long lasting for using with a vibrator or condoms?  I'm looking for one that has a vasodilator, and the warming effect.  We have heard a lot of good things about the oil-based than the water based lubricants.... read more

Lubricant

What is the best lubricant that is long lasting for using with a vibrator or condoms?  I'm looking for one that has a vasodilator, and the warming effect.  We have heard a lot of good things about the oil-based than the water based lubricants.... read more

Female Sex Pills

What's the best female arousal sexual pill on the market that actually works?  Seems there are a lot of herbal remedies but which ones really work?... read more

Female Sexual Arousal Pills?

Dear Sexxxy Anni, We have noticed online that there are a lot of products on the market to enhance sexual pleasure.  We know that Viagra and Levitra definately work for men.  Are there products that actually work for women's ability to have multiple organsms and get extra wet?  We no... read more

How much do you pay?

Thought it would be interesting to get a more international perspective on basic minimum quality (regular) gas/petrol. 1 US gallon = 3.78541178 liters 1 liter = 0.264172052 US gallons   ... read more