June 2011 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from June 2011.

comments on swinging

i came accross an article on a mens magizine that qoutes that people who have other people in their reltionships tend to have happier marriges or relationships tend to stay together longer than people that don't experiment. what do you think.... read more

bedroom golf

Bedroom Golf Rules 1. Each player shall furnish his own equipment Normally one club and two balls. 2. Play on a course must be approved by the owner of the hole. 3. Unlike outdoor golf, the object is to get the CLUB in the hole and keep the balls out. 4. For most effective p... read more

NC this summer

 We will be traveling back to North Carolina for several weeks this summer -- specifically Asheville, Charlotte, and Raleigh. Would love to meet a sexy, young couple for fun while we are there! Message us! ... read more

Ibiza swingers village

we are thinking of going late Aug- but unsure -has anyone been and can give some feedback? we really like cap d'agde and unsure if this would be too quiet due to being small and from what we can see - in the middle of nowhere... read more

Orgies

Every been to one..I mean a real one.  Not like you see on HBO's RealSex, but one where you come in the room or home and clothes go off.  Do these exist anymore or is it required that you now do the social butterfly thing first.  Do you have a story you can share?  Good or Ba... read more

Boundries

Single guys.....Many of you put down that you know your boundries when playing with couples. I would like to know single guys opinion of what the boundries are when playing with couples. Couples.....I would like to know what boundries are expected when you play with single guys. Thanks... read more

Break in Thailand...

Hi... I am looking for a lady or a couple for a break in Thaniland or Goa for 3 some or 4... any one wants to join ?? ... read more

The New Party Page

The New Party Page Hi All We was wondering if anyone other than us believe the new party page is difficult to navigate around, when doing so it is difficult to see what parties are on in your specific area and when you do get to where you want to be the pages and party flyers are very diff... read more

The mythology of global warming.

I just wanted to get a discussion going about this mythology they call man made climate change. Most people know that climate patterns are cyclical, but do you actually believe that humans are capable of destroying this planet?... read more

Why did the gorgeous girl's pussy change?

Did anyone notice that the log in girl on the SDC site now has a much darker crotch? Her earlier image was an inspiration, what happened.? ... read more

Random Meetings

Ever meet a couple at a random place and wonder if they are a lifestyle couple? Do you approach them about it and if so how?... read more

Desire / Cancun

Hello, we are Justin and Cheri. We are going to Desire in Cancun August 14th and was wondering if anyone would be interested in meeting us there? We will be there for 5 days and 4 nights. If your interested in meeting up with us please contact us on here. Thanks Justin and Cheri... read more

Success

Dear Jane & Mark What a great vibe and attendance last night. Your organisation is excellent. We didn't get an opportunity to meet as many people as we would have liked to, but when we are chatting to people we like it is not easy to pull ourselves away and walk around the room. Therefore,... read more

Really?

 I can't believe the majority of people on this blog. I've never read any of them before until today, but, I think you all should be having more sex and doing less typing...just a thought.... read more

cape d agde

any indian cpl in cape on around 25th july... read more

temptations resort

anyone travel to temptation resort in cancun? what can you say about this resort. we have been to desire and hedo.... read more

Cancun Trip / Day two

  The next morning we slept late. Around 11am we decided to go and get some food. Kate said she was a little nervous that we might run into our friends from last night. I mean, what do you say to someone the next day, after a night like that? That was our first time, so do we all hang out the ... read more

Cancun Trip / Day two

  The next morning we slept late. Around 11am we decided to go and get some food. Kate said she was a little nervous that we might run into our friends from last night. I mean, what do you say to someone the next day, after a night like that? That was our first time, so do we all hang out the ... read more

I Had To Have His Cock

We'd just moved and my husband started his new job.  He would come home and tell me about his day, I felt like I knew everyone already.  I stopped by his job to take him lunch and met the guys, one of them I could not take my eyes off of and got wet just shaking his hand.  He was tall... read more

A single male.....

I realize we are on the bottom of the food chain and most of us accept that.  What is unfair are people that set us up for a meeting and then never follow thru.....I was accepted as part of  a get togther and then no details or or details were given period. I am a GOOD single mal... read more

Berlin Swing Clubs

http://www.joyclub.de/nightlife/swingerclubs/berlin.html Highly recommend Zugellos, they have two locations fairly close to each other.  If one is slow the other may be busy.  Just hold on to your receipt and it will work for both locations.... read more

Cum Play Bukkake Heavy cummers

how many couples out there are into cumplay or seeing there wife or girlfriend covered in cum....would love to set up a group for people locally that are into this... i met this couple on sdc that were so much fun.  i will tell you a little story about it... They IM'ed me one night and wante... read more

Cancun Trip, Day one

After 18 years of marriage our sex life had become null and void. We both wanted it to be better but with raising kids, working, and trying to make ends meat, we just didn’t have to for it. The other night while lying in bed together, my wife (Kate) decided that we needed to take a vacation w... read more

Lets Keep It Real - from our perspective

Interesting topic..as an "interacial" not "mixed" couple that's been in this for a bit..we've had the opportunity to live in Europe and in the Pacific for many years..Here is what we all know.  Swinging is a sub-culture of our "normal" culture.  In saying that... read more

Any suggestions on a couples friendly strip bar in South FLA area?

  We are looking to find any stripper bars that are ok for wife and I to attend together.  Any suggestions? Thank you. ... read more

Any suggestions on a couples friendly strip bar in South FLA area?

We are looking to find any stripper bars that are ok for wife and I to attend together.  Any suggestions? Thank you.... read more

Am I crazy???? Please I need female answers!

Hey Everyone! Girls, I need to know if any of you ever had the fantasy that I'm having lately.... I will be quick. I married for 7 years! I consider my marriage the most perfect I ever saw. Before met my husband I used to be the most jealous woman in the world. After a year together he took me... read more

Devon Swinging club

Your help please has any one been to Secrets swingers club in Devon we are thinking of going this weekend if you can give us any feed back thanks for your help Jane and james... read more

Desire/Temptation Resorts

We have the the opportunity to go to Desire or Temptation Resorts on August 14th through August 18th. We were wondering if anyone could share some information regarding both resorts. We are trying to decide which resort to attend. Could you share your stories. We are wanting to go to a Lif... read more

lifestyle clubs in DC area?

Hi. Moving back to the DC area for a while. Are there any lifestyle clubs or parties in the area?... read more

Just a player in a country band

Started playing music againa after a long hiatus, playing in a couple of bands around DFW.  Mostly country/country rock type stuff, always looking for new friends to meet us at a gig!... read more

Caliente in Tampa FL

Hi all, Just looking for some quick info from folks that may have attended Caliente in Tampa Florida...is it an actual lifestyle club or just a clothing optional environment. If it's the latter, what are the rules about behavior? Are there any true blue lifestyle clubs in the US? We're not abl... read more

social meet and greet

 Hi all out there, we just saw a Blog from Fairview1966 about a social meet and greet they organised. We quite like the idea of it and would like to organise one too. This would take place in a nice pub in Brighton or surroundings and would be purely social. No action involved. Just to get kno... read more

Berlin

Hi, we are going to spend a weekend in Berlin. Any ideas besides the Kitkat and the Insomnia? Many thanks xxx... read more

Please, It's just simple courtesy

When someone writes to you, he/she/them have taken time to read your profile, they've tried their best to write something to you that would call your attention and sent it; you are not interested, you read their message thru the "history" icon on top of their profile trying to hide the fac... read more

Sober Swingers

Are there any sober swinger groups out there?  Would people here be interested in starting a sober swingers group or blog here?... read more

Swinging with the Finkels

 Did anyone out there watch this movie? Usually we like to see movies that take on the theme of swinging, most of the time they turn out to be moralistic and we end up not really liking them, but there have been a few times we really learn things from them. But the Finkels.... ... read more

Where is everyone going tonight?

Is anyone making plans to go out tonight? We want to go to Trap, but dont want to waste our time or gas heading out there, if no one shows up! Hit us up and let us know where the hot spot is tonight so we can all have a drink and have some fun.... read more

Toys....

 So...we're curious as a SWINGER community, what are your favorite toys/etc. that you like to use as a couple? OR...what toys do you like in general? ... read more

Young and un-dumb.

I truly do recognize people within the swingers community. Due to being new to the lifestyle, I always tend to welcome others with open arms whether I'm just saying a usual greeting or going more in-depth on a specific topic we all agree talking about. With my age, (and being considered young) I can... read more

Creampie Nice to See and lick

...while playing with another couple, we get turn on by watching them having a creampie... ...do you enjoy that too? ... read more

Pregnant and sexy....

Wow have you guys seen the pictures of Mrs Flintstonesit on their profile??? She is 6 months pregnant and she looks really stunning in the pics!!! So what do you guys think??? Thanks xxx... read more

Hedo II August 20 - 27

We were supposed to be traveling with The Fluffs in July but had to cancel due to work.  We couldn't wait until our Fluff February trip so we booked Hedo II for August 20-27.  If you are going to be there that week or any part of it, let us know.... read more

national harbor june 17 & 18

We will be partying at beer bourbon and BBQ festival at the national harbor that weekend. Hoping to meet some great ppl and have a great time. Summer heat plus food and booze what's not to love about that. If anybody is going let us know. ... read more

Hidden Beach Resort

We will be staying at Hidden Beach Resort in Mexico from the 5th of July until the 12 of July. If you're planning on staying around that time, let us know. See u there Freebird366... read more

Tampa Swinger Clubs

 Hello    We are looking to have fun in Tampa by visiting one of the clubs when we are in town. Being from out of town, we really don't know which clubs are good and which ones we should stay away from. Recommendations are welcomed!  Thank you, Harold... read more

Tampa Swinger Clubs

 Hello    We are looking to have fun in Tampa by visiting one of the clubs when we are in town. Being from out of town, we really don't know which clubs are good and which ones we should stay away from. Recommendations are welcomed!  Thank you, Harold... read more

Clubs and Tubs

 Every time my wife and I go to a local club, we like to get into the hot tub there.  A lot of people that we've met or spoken with look at us like we are crazy for getting in with the response "do you know what goes on in those? what if you catch something?" So I say this to ... read more

Here is the million dollar question...in your opinion what is SEXY?

Dear blogs readers, What is sexy in your opinion? Is it the attitude? Is it the self-confidence (I do not mean cocky)? Is it the sense of humor? Is it those piercing eyes? Is it the muscular and fit body? Or it is a combination of many factors including the ones mentioned above? Feel free ... read more

Temptation vs Desire

We are thinking about going to Temptation or Desire.  Which resort do you like better and why? ... read more

Night Spots

My husband and I will be visiting Istanbul and then on to Limassol Cyprus.  Was curious if anyone had any reccomendations on fun night spots.  Our day's are pretty covered but would love some ideas on night time fun!!!... read more

show your male!!!

I think there should be more male photos posted in couple profiles to give the ladies an opportunity to enjoy the site!!! Ladies like male eye candy too!!!... read more