July 2018 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from July 2018.

coming out as in the lifestyle

we have been in the lifestyle for almost ten years and still most people in our life have no clue about what we do. Most of our life is in a vanilla world with vanilla friends. Recently we came out to two of our closest friends, they said they suspected, but now the guy is a little weird around us, ... read more

Super Sexperience 2019 Cancun

Nearly 600 say they are going, but little information.Anyone?... read more

Sdc bracelets

Question for all; Does anyone wear their sdc bracelets in public in vanilla environments? Does it ever help you find or at least meet other swingers? Would love to hear some stories? ... read more

Lessons learned from this past Saturday (S1 E11)

Big pool party this past Saturday. 50 people, 30 we know already.Some friends want to spend the night at our house, and are scheduled to arrive at 6 pm to freshen up before the party. They show up at 2 pm. Do I really need to explain what happened between 2 pm and 4 pm? I take 100mg of Viagra.Lesson... read more

Camp NCN Black river falls WI

We were wondering if anyone has been here and could give us your opinion of the place. We are going next weekend and  hoping for the best. any feedback would be GREAT!... read more

Blog definition

Someone recently posted this definition-BLOG definition:" a website containing a writer's or group of writers' own experiences, observations, opinions.Its up to us, the users of this website, to help shape the content. If a post doesn’t meet the criteri... read more

Last Fun week in Cap: 18/7 to 27/7/18

18/7 Awoke to another glorious day and had a quiet morning till midday when we went to Gallion and lay on the beach. R&O turned up at 2. We had lunch - I had just a plate of bland tagliatelle. We headed home after 4pm and Rita was planning to meet R&O at Mississippi for dinner at... read more

Happy people

nothing special but failed basketball player never made it professional..now working in banking while studying fins off my MSC masters in economics..also full time Student.. personal shopper..i am funnier than Eddie Murphy... read more


I would really appreciate some friendly  and honest advice from people who have been in the area. We’ve been told by a m/f couple who love Cap D’Agde, that we would have no problem as a gay couple. I still have my misgivings though: a) are there things to do for a gay couple as a ... read more


hello guys, we in paris looking for some hot couples for drinks and more kindly message usCine & Nic... read more

Erotic Massage

Looking for a in home erotic massage for the wife in the Montgomery ala area. ... read more

Daily rental apartement in Cap d`Agde

Daily rental apartements  in Cap d'Agde https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drdI6_W95oA&t=6s... read more

South Florida clubs

Whats the best S Florida club for single men? We've been to Trapeze & Velvet looking to try hedo and rooftop, Any pointers? ... read more

BBB Butts Boobs And Boats

This will pertain to those in Texas and surrounding if you want to avoid reading something not relevant FYI-I just returned from Austin for my first BBB there (Attended Lewisville before) and it was a freaking blast!! Definitely one of the most fun events I've been to in the lifestyle and highly rec... read more

Profiles With NO Photos

Have received numerous messages from couples and a couple of single males whose profiles haveabsolutely no photos.  This is something new to us.  Sure, 99% of the time photos of mostly thefemale, that is the norm for many years, but no photos. How do they expect return interest?Anyone... read more

fun on Steanaline ferry on 23rd july

hello guys we couple traveling from Harwich (Stenaline) to hook of Holland any couple wan fun with us on Ferry  ( Cruse)kissesCine NIc... read more

Lessons learned (S1 E 10)

Last week we went to some friends house, an hour away, + traffic, on a Thursday night. It sounds like a big effort and we know it, but we couldn't host and we were horny. Traffic was worst than usual, the pizza took an hour to arrive, but the conversation was great and we love those friends.Lesson ... read more

Air B

were thinking of starting a Air B&B for swingers with our spare room not sure how to go about doing this any ideas? ... read more

Joy n Spicy Adge

Joy n Spicy AdgeWilling to meet and enjoy fun time and private party in cap d adge ...please contact if you like decent couple... feom 5 to 9th august...... read more

Joy n Spicy Adge

Willing to meet and enjoy fun time and private party in cap d adge ...please contact if you like decent couple...... read more

FT Lauderdale Trapeze

Anyone have thoughts on the age of many of the folks at Trapeze Saturday nights? ... read more

looking for fun

we in London now looking for some fun please contact usKissesCine NIc... read more

Getting ready for Cap D’Agde: 9/7 to 17/7/18

9/7 Woke after a bad night. Still didn’t feel 100% but worked through the day. Rita and I suffering from Summer colds! Rita popped out at 10 to see the GP and got a referral letter and organised through our private health provider an appointment at the end of July when we are back from Cap. Watch... read more


Going to Vegas in a few months....any tips for clubs bars etc?... read more

Dislike feature must be added on profile

Many couples strongly dislike many things1-age of older couples 2-certain ethnicity 3-weight 4-single malesthese r few if this feature is added on the profile which will save rejection by many members and save time of both the couples ... read more

Swinger meeting bars and nightclubs

Mostly cities don’t have swinger clubs if sdc start recommending one such bar or night club with time 10-11pm in every city like minded couples will wear red colour code word can be made for each other couple if they respond u can go further rest depends on chemistry of all ... read more

My first true hotwife experience

I've had a few threesomes, but my experience from earlier this week was my first true hotwife encounter, so I thought you might enjoy it. This may end up being a little long, so you've been warned.I'm on a few "adult dating" sites, and as all single males know, it's a tough world out there. Typicall... read more


Wondering if any SDCers rent out rooms in their home on Airbnb? If so would you share that fact in your SDC profile or other ways on the site or other swinging site?... read more

Rent Apartement Cap D`agde

Hello. We have marked holidays for 04-08-18 until 11-08-18 and we want to go to Cap D'agde but we do not have an apartment.  If someone quits / cancels talk to us and we can stay with the apartment. Thank youT & BALUGAR APARTAMENTO.Ola.Temos ferias marcadas para 04-08-18 ate 11-08-18 e... read more

SDC basic communication Etiquette

Here are my $.02 about how to best start communicating on SDC to minimize wasted time and increase your chances of meeting people.The underlying principle of all that follows is: don’t waste anybody’s time. Be respectful and considerate.1. Likes: use them to indicate you would like to start talk... read more

Today’s Encounter

When you get home look in the mirror and see the indescribably sexy man that finger-fucked me until my limbs went numb an hour ago.My plan was to make that man feel better on a lousy day. But he managed, once again, to bring me to ecstasy with his masterful fingers and tongue.When he puts his hands ... read more

4 AUGUST MARRAKESH NIGHT FOLLOW US IN A BIG SUMMER EVENT! We give you an amazing experience.

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Fun Tour

Hello friends, we traveling to Europe, looking for couples, group, fem, and males(selected), would love fun, me and my hubby like to explore new things, i want to try different hot things , message me on whatsapp +919002678291 would love to hear ... read more

Dreaming of a Day Without Hiding: Living One Life Instead of Two or Three Part I

After the interesting responses received in regards to my last blog post, I have decided to take it easy and write about something safe and unlikely to stir any controversy....So today I think I want to say something about AltSex, drugs, drug laws, and the striving to live authentically. I did think... read more


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Anyone on the DFDS Seaways from Copenhagen to Oslo on 20 August 2018? ... read more

World Cup Week 2/7 to 8/7/18

2/7 Woke and spent day working and reviewing bits and pieces. Rita got good news just after lunch that her eldest had been found and was in a hospital in London receding treatment for his condition. Rita was overjoyed - ending a lot of uncertainty over the past few months. We headed to gym at 4.30 ... read more

WTF is happening at Cap D’AgdejQuery111009503147624117683_1531092831849?

We arrived a few days ago (for the SDC takeover) and have never seen so many clothes. We checked in to Eden and went out for supplies (water, champagne, Aperol, tequila, Cointreau, prosecco, limes...all the usual essentials) but for the first 5 minutes we thought we were in one of those scary dreams... read more

On Being a Single Guy...

We do grow on trees, and we can be purchased almost everywhere at the current price of a dime a dozen.My name is Single Guy, and we are legion. And we don't get much respect in the Swinging world.  If the Single Bi-Girl is the prized, elusive Unicorn, who is to be treasured, then the Single Guy... read more

Lessons learned from Friday and Saturday (S1 E9)

I want to try this new place, Legacy Food Hall. It’s supposed to be celebrity chefs getting together to create a super-high-end food court combined with craft beers, expensive wine by the glass and live music. Wife asks if we can get our great friends, Lawyer and SalesGirl, to come with us. They s... read more

LOL in the LS😆

So my wife and I hobby farm. When we talk to others about it, inevitably stock animals come up, then rabbits. So my wife starts rolling her eyes and giggling at this point. And not just beause her little pink vibrating rabbit is such a blast! There is more to it...Friend: So do you ever eat rabbits?... read more

The Swirl swinging suites

Countdown party invite list of list private party list I will invite for the Hot4BBC wives list for August in Las Vegas and South Florida.... read more


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WHITE PARTY around the swinming pool

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Secret`s Hideaway Resort Review

Please allow me to introduce us before we post a personal review of a recent Secret’s Hideaway Resort visit. We are your absolute “normal” everyday Couple and parents to four kids aged 12 to 18. Our Adult playtime consists of quick evenings out and an occasional weekend away withou... read more

MSC SEASIDE 8/4/2018

Let us know if you are in the boat...... read more

I won`t be hosting anymore BBC Gangbangs

I want to provide a great intimate party atmosphere with quality black men and a few couples. Discreet couples haven't had a lot experience with Black men.... read more


Going to be in the Windy City July 14-15-16  can anyone make a GOOD recommendation to a swinger club or meet and greet in the city.... read more

Happy 4th Everyone

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Happy 4th of July from Houston!

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Lessons learned from this past Tuesday (Season 1 Episode 8)

3rd of July = party time. There were 4-5 good parties going on last night. We pick the one Wife feels the most comfortable with. Not too far, not too many people, we've known the hosts for a while now, we've played with them, we like them a lot, we've played with 4 couples on the invite list....Less... read more

Happy And SAFE July 4th!

Have a safe holiday.  You people up north should fly down to Florida to beat the heat, only in the upper 80s in most places.... read more

Let’s not say a word

I’m sitting in the back of the room. It’s just me and the woman seated in front of me. She’s mostly engrossed on her tablet, like I, but picks her head up once and a while. I would describe her as slightly older than I, with stylish short blond hair. From what I can see she is wearing a see ... read more

Audio for Articles in many Languages

Hello all, As some of you may have already found out, we have launched a media based site to educate, stimulate and motivate your sexual senses.These articles will be of many verities and subjects, starting with this example - Habits of Highly Sexual Couples ( https://beta.sdc.com/habit... read more


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LOL in the LS 😄

Alright, going to try to get some levity into the blogs. JOIN US...So I accidentally rang my wife the other day:Wife: Hey, you called? Me: No. Wife: Hmm. Must have been a butt call. Me: Actually, the phone was in my front pocket. ... read more

Getting Blocked For A comment On A Blog

So he throws out the RACE card in an Email and blocks us......I guess it is not polite to comment on a poorly  written blog that made no frickin sense......But please hold out on using the race card unless your opponent has a full house. ... read more

What an Interesting, Fun Week: 25/6 to 1/7/18

25/6 Woken by phone at 8.30 after iPhone coming out of no disturb mode. Noticed it was the 51st call from this same number from 5.30. Going to report them! Worked through till after lunch - far to hot - around 29c. Planned to head to gym but my cold was coming out, so not in mood. We watched the Rus... read more

Sdc gettin Creepy

Has anyone else noticed a increase in just creeps on SDC and fake profiles? I’ve also been getting a lot of unsolicited KIK messages. Tons of Randoms. Also a huge amount of people not respecting others wishes example “looking fornicate a certain age range” and people 20 years your senior ... read more

Our Events

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Austin folk,  Can you please give us some recommendations on a nice place for lunch and drinks on the west side in the Steiner ranch area?... read more

Funniest/Strangest Message Of Interest You Have Received

So what is the funniest, or strangest, or most insane message of interest you have received since you have been on SDC?We got one the other day sent to Mrs. Euro: "Are you into cyber sex you have incredible tits and I am so horny".So, anyone else?... read more