August 2016 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from August 2016.

Swinger Action in Chicago

We will be next month in Chicago and we were looking for a swinger club or other action. Any good suggestion???... read more

Couples` Evolving Expectations in the Swinger Lifestyle

Visit our blog here: us on Twitter: @astridswings or @swingerdiary---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Soft Swap vs. Full SwapSome couples start off with ... read more

Wild Party in Perugia: 25/8 to 30/8/16

25/8 Woke at 8 and skimmed Times and then showered and left the flat at 9.15 to drive to Greenford to visit a client. Good meeting and home. It was another stifling, humid day and the flat very warm. Rita popped out shopping and came back drenched and with a new suitcase that we needed to pack MrsA`... read more

Single in the Lifestyle Survey

Visit our blog here: us on Twitter: @astridswings or @swingerdiaryClaire and I created this survey for single males and females in the Lifestyle. The survey covers topics such as stereotypes about singles i... read more

Swinger friendly hotels in Dallas area

Looking to have a small party for a few cpls and BBC males &nbspand need to see if anyone can suggest a swinger friendly hotel? &nbspWe have done several small get togethers in other hotels without problems but not with 12 or so people.... read more

What is this  

What the heck is this &ampnbsp and why is it in so many blogs.......Some kind of code ... read more

The Photo Shoot

Erotic story #5: Photo shoot                                                                   1/5/05   Photo Shoot by: J.T.   I love to photograph my wife. She has a model’s body, long and lean with firm and perfect tits.   For my birthday ... read more

The Swinging Paradigm

The Swinging Paradigm ©JM 2016   The Swinging Lifestyle is as diverse as there are species on this earth. Attitudes, cultures and expectations vary from one end of the spectrum to the other. While recognising this fact and accepting it, and after years of experience in ... read more


Please let us know, which swinger club is ok for first time sw. club experience in Germany? ... read more

Which Desire?!

Trying to decide between Desire Pearl or DM?We usually go to Temptations and like the party atmosphere, but since they are closed, have to look elsewhere. &nbspWould appreciate any feedback!  ... read more

October Cruise

Will be doing 11 day cruise beginning on Oct 27 leaving from Fort Lauderdale on Royal Princess (Princess Cruise Line) .   Let us know if you will be there. &nbspWe would love to have the opportunity to meet you (M, F, or MF) for &nbspa getting to know you cocktail early in the cruise if you... read more

Swing clubs, singles and aggressive people.

It`s been over 4 years since I have been to a swingers club... This pass Friday there was a party posted, &nbspI thought would be cool to attend.... What a very bad mistake !!!IMO the party was a bust!! &nbspSeveral people (couples )signed up but, only a few persons where in attendance !! Th... read more

new experiences

we will be in Cyprus 2nd week of Sept and looking &nbspfor some men to fuck my wife. Also couples with bi curious wife would be welcome... read more

Vacation in los Angeles....

We are on Sept. 16 in Los Angeles and would like to visit the SwingerClub Joi. Which Nice pair would like to meet with us and experience a hot, horny night, night?... read more

New pet peeve about couples pics

Ok. A `couple` with a nice profile emails us expressing interest,. They have no face pics on line which we totally get,. So we ask `face pics available?` We get `yes here is password` or `here is email` or `here is text number``. All totally acceptable means of transmitting face pics. &nbspWhat ... read more

What an interesting week! 16/8 to 25/8

16/8 Woke and took a conference call demo with a prospective client and then popped out to the dentist. Transpires I need a partial crown but the next appointment was in 3 weeks and so will have to put up with the hole in my tooth till then. Bought some flowers and later that evening Rita and I had ... read more

New Profiles / Where are the validations?

So the new profiles display lists the number of friends - Am I missing something, but I don`t see validations as clear as I had before ?!... read more

The Traveling Swinger: Hedo 2, 3 and Young Swinger’s Week, Negril, Jamaica

Visit our blog here: us on Twitter: @astridswings or @swingerdiary--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Resort Tagline: “Your Pleasure is Ou... read more

Are swingers the next group ripe for discrimination?

We had our swingers club in Greenwich shut down for operating without a business license. As a private organization, the club was not breaking any rules, but because it accepted donations, the Licensing&nbspDepartment of the Royal Borough of Greenwich was arguing that ... read more

Harrison`s Wine Bar- Dania/Ft Lauderdale

Hey Guys,After an awesome but unexpected full swap at a B&ampB in Key West a couple of years ago, my wife is finally ready to ease into the life style. We`ve gone from the fantasy stage and actually creating opportunities to experience more swaps. We`re discussing what we both want and don`t wan... read more

My bondage scene

`D` had big plans for the evening. While others were at the baseball game, family dinners or watching SNL, he had cooked up something more erotic - and memorable. He had prepared a bondage scenario designed with my pleasure in mind.   The outfit I would wear was pul... read more

San Suoci. April 1 st to April 9 2017

We are thinking on going on these dates, if anyone is going let us know.... read more

Erotic Massage service

Hi swingers We are looking for professional Massuer service to give erotic mind blowing massage with happy ending , looking for meeting in set up massage studio service or arranging hotel meeting. Romantic environment meeting with lots of foreplay is our turn on ,so massuer should know how to press... read more

air BNB

hi just curious to know any members offer this oppurtunity looking for a place in belgium / holland... read more

Tantric trilogy

You captivated me without words... You sensed me before we met... I know what my energy projects and I know how you sense. You felt me. I powerfully project. You have the antennae that has been looking into the universe and I showed in perfect timing. The universe gifted us when it was least expec... read more


Thinking of going to SDC takeover in Crete in October has anyone been as we wondering what it was like . Also anyone else going .😀... read more

New Profile Format?

Is it only us, or has there been a change to the profile formats?   The profile photos are totally distorted.   Anyone else have this experience??... read more

Slowing things down...

So we`ve been `in the lifestyle` for a few years now.  It`s been amazing and overwhelmingly positive.  We`ve been to hedo.  Lot`s of clubs.  We live in Atlanta and used to live in Fort Lauderdale, so the Trapeze clubs have been a regular stop.  We have enjoyed lots of sex with lots of different... read more

Who the fuck is fucking WITHOUT condoms?

As of late, I have been noticing LOTS of movies / videos&nbspwhere people are fucking and NO ONE is using a condom. When did NOT using a condom become a GOOD THING?... read more


We just came back from a fantastic 5 night getaway at Hedonism. For our long flight to Jamaica of an hour and forty minutes. We flew Caribbean Airlines and I must say it was better than Spirit, Jet Blue, American, United or Delta because it had lots of leg room. many planes I am all crunched up wi... read more


Does anyone have suggestions on a good Hotel, B&ampB or resort to stay at while in the Keys? ... read more

Bisexuality in the Swinger Lifestyle

Visit our blog here: us on Twitter: @astridswings or @swingerdiary--------------------------------------------------------------------------Bi-curious, bi-comfortable, bi-selective, heteroflexible, bi-tolerant,... read more

Swinger Destination Survey

Hello friends, We would be grateful if those of you who have experienced the swinger lifestyle outside of your current home city or traveled to swinger destinations, visited swinger nightclubs while visi... read more

Party Weekend in Belgium: 8/8 to 15/8/16

8/8 Woke and got up to go to the doctor`s to discuss the result of recent annual blood tests. All normal and a closer check needed on one of the results. Then home and breakfast and after midday went to the gym for a gentle workout. As I left MsM came in and so I left some fun for them. When I got b... read more


hi does anyone &nbsphave any information of a club in belgium which is inside a castle.thanks... read more

Best resort in Mexico

We are looking for recommendations please. &nbspHidden Beach, Desire Pearl, Temptation or any others??... read more


I wonder if anyone can explain why some couples enjoy bulls and cuckolding. While we  occasionally enjoy mfm and I really enjoy sharing my wife with another man, it`s all pretty equal between the three of us. When couples ask for bulls or men advertise as such it seems that the man of the couple is... read more

SDC`s response to an email issue

The following is an email I sent to SDC yesterday along with Diana`s response and my rebuttal to her comment.  Let me know if any of you have had an email issue like this. &nbspAnd if you did, how did it work out?By the way, we`re lifetime members and have been on here since 2004.  Thanks.My e... read more


Sexy People Of The World, On behalf of MONDE OSÉ, in collaboration with SDC and DESIRE RESORTS, we would like to THANK YOU for your interest in our sensual society of events, and welcome you to participate in our GIVEAWAY to WIN A SEXY ESCAPADE FOR TWO in Mexico ! Here`s how to participate : 1) Lik... read more

The Curious Couple Podcast New Episode #49

Part 2 of our Naughty in Nawlins trip. More connections with fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder, We Gotta Thing, That Couple Next Door, &amp The Aussie Swingers. We talk about the conclusion we`ve come to that we are socio-sexual swingers, or at least for now that’s the best way to describe ... read more

Anybody going to `VEGAS EXCHANGE`this weekend in VEGAS,Please tell about your previous experiences??

Anybody going to `VEGAS EXCHANGE`this weekend in VEGAS,Please tell about your previous experiences??... read more

Clubs in Graz / Austria

Clubs in Graz / AustriaWe will be going to Graz This weekend, was hoping we could get recommendations for the clubs out in that area? Please help if you can.... read more

Gran Canaria Guide 4 Swingers

Swingers love Gran Canaria because it has naked beach spots to suit all tastes. Here`s our pick of the best places to get an all-over holiday tan. It has been claimed that Gran Canaria is the new Swinging Capital of Europe and hope you will understand the reason why this is... read more

Clubs in San Francisco

We will be going to San Francisco in October and was hoping we could get recommendations for the clubs out in that area?  Please help if you can.... read more

What does the 3rd guy feel and think?

We have chosen to enjoy MFM as our LS choice. This is by far the most unpopular as we have been told. It does bring much excitement and enjoyment into our relationship. We literally have the craziest sex after we play and are by ourselves. There is nothing hotter than a guy almost begging for her bl... read more

Shore Excursions

Those of you who have been on the Royal Caribbean 7 day cruise through the Eastern Caribbean, which shore excursions should not be missed?... read more

lifestyle cruise

i really wanna go on a swinger cruise,any recomomdations on which boat is alot of fun?... read more

Advice on my first DP

We are asking for some real advice from those who have actually done double penetrations on the best way to do it. We have finally found the other male that we are both comfortable with.  Anal sex it not new to me and yes we have seen photos and pornos but this will be my first double penetrat... read more

Android VIP - Build 2016-08-04 10:20:00

RE: Android VIP App Update - Build 2016-08-04 10:20:00Device Used: Samsung S7 EdgeJust downloaded the update.  The glitchy returns and sudden app crashes have been improved along with the other minor tweeks, thank you very much.  However I am still having issues with Laidar.  It shows my location... read more

SLUT OLYMPICS: GOLD - Am I Not the Luckiest Guy in the World ?

I am the husband of April a beautiful MILF who has become the Sub-Slut of dreams and am the ex-husband of a true Slut (who was one for the 20 years we partied together). I have posted many stories here on SDC, along with over many explicit pics of April fucking and sucking many of the over 2,000 me... read more

Newbie Thursdays at Colette`s

Has anyone ever been to the Newbie Thursday`s at Colette`s in either Dallas or New Orleans on a regular (non-special event weekend) Thursday?  Is there anyone there or is it extremely slow?... read more

Wild Party Night and 10 days of Contrast: 29/7 - 8/8

29/7 We both woke reasonably early and after we made love headed up for breakfast. Rita then did a shop and I starts to deal with some work issues. Had to reorder another printer as the current one was broken. Had a quiet afternoon and dozed and early evening we started to get ready for the HH part... read more

Are You A Couple Who Wear And Sunbathe In Thongs Together ?

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Does Husband Cuckoldry lead to his Bisexuality ?

Keen to know the general views?... read more

Joke Thread

Trying something new, might not work, but.....A light hearted thread, post a joke with some sexual content.OK, here is ours:After twenty years of sex in the dark, a woman discovers her husband has been using a dildo all of this time.`Whats with the dildo prick?``Whats with the children bitch?`Yes OK... read more


We are both 25 years old and so on many occasions couples have responded with sorry you are to young and even add we have children older than you. My partner and i have discussed this on many occasions and find it rude I mean were not out there saying you`re to old if your not interested in someone/... read more

September in ROME.

Any ideas for best places...Thanks a bunch,... read more

`I will NEVER......`

Ok, so we are relatively new to this whole LS thing, and we are Soft Swap at this point. We have been to swing clubs a total of 3-4 times. My question is this for you ladies - when you were first starting to experiment or play in the LS, how many of you went in with the mindset of `I will ... read more

Holly Insecurities. We`ve Been Blocked!

Ok, I have seen this mentioned here before but never gave it much thought until I just tried to comment on a blog and found I could not do so because we have been blocked by the poster. Wow. The topic of blocking has come up before and why some block and why some don`t. We normally don`t block and i... read more

Soft Swap Suddenly Changes to Full?

In the past few weeks we have seen an epidemic of couples that write to us, listed as soft swap. We have no issue with anyone`s limits and boundaries. However when we decline their advances based on them being soft swap they suddenly admit to being full swap. &nbspThis just seems a little too co... read more

Places to stay in Maspalomas

We are heading back to Maspolomas in Gran Canaria for a week on the 11 Oct.  However both La Mirage and Venus are totally booked out so while we be able to visit both of them on a day pass we are looking for recommendation where we should stay in the absence of these two Swinger resorts.  We plan ... read more


In the LS is it best not to approach a couple unless you both like what you see, even if neither of you mind sitting one out? I ask this because I find it difficult to find couples we are both attracted to and most guys have the attitude that if I can`t have yours you can`t have mine(which I don`t h... read more


We think EUROMEXCOUPLE Is 100 cool and should win the SDC Blogger of the Year Award. Hopefully we can meet them some day.... read more

sexual appetite?

Has your sexual appetite changed since you`ve been in &nbspthe LS? I see couples and singles change their profile as they go along their journey. Have you become more adventurous, more open, more kinky?Less of those I mentioned? maybe other ideas?... read more

Beauty and Salon

do you think its smart for me to post and invite clients from sdc to the salon ?... read more

Los Angeles

We are looking for a nudist or lifestyle friendly resort or hotel near Los Angeles.  Within 90 miles of LAX would be ideal.  Any assistance will be greatly appreciated!... read more