October 2010 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from October 2010.

PATTAYA - THAILAND

 Hi All, We will be on vacation in Pattaya from 2010 until mid February 2011 if anyone is venturing that way please feel free to say Hi ! We can entertain or we can always meet at Rama-Kien swing resort where we have stayed a few times, we just love the place.... read more

are your friends/neighbors in the lifestyle?

We have been in the lifestyle for a few months now and while it is easy to find swingers in clubs and websites, we have been wondering how to ask or find out if a couple is in the lifestyle in our day to day life... I have a few friends where hubby and I are thinking they might be in it but are not... read more

Swinger Parties

What do you think makes a good swinger party?And what was your memory of the best and worst swinger party that you have attended? Is it the price, the people, location, music, the events surrounding the party?... read more

Terminally ill

How would you feel to team up with a sm who was diagnosed with a disease which is NOT sexually transmitted yetyou know that the man's time on earth is limited though physically you would hardly sense that anything is wrong. How sexy or morbid would tha be? ... read more

HARRISON HALLOWEEN PARTY

Last night at harrison was a blast. My hubby was a firefighter with a long hose (LOL). It was our first time over there and we liked that place but we did know anybody from last night. IF YOU WERE THERE LET US KNOW BY POSTING YOUR COSTUME PIC.... read more

Who wuddah known

Joe (And Shelley): I couldn't have said it all better than YOU. JnB... read more

Reviewing Spice Lifestyle Resort - Comments please!

Hi All, We (as dutchies) want some sun on our skin and are planning for a trip. The Spice Lifestyle Resort looks great, please provide us with some of youre experiances. On the other hand we might consider Desire in Cancun. Where to go.... Cheers, SB... read more

JUST WONDERING

no real big deal it just hit me and i wondered if celeberites or famous people in the lifestyle?... read more

Can't make it in for work today....

WHAT'S THE MOST CREATIVE REASON YOU'VE HEARD OR GIVEN FOR NOT GOING INTO WORK?... read more

Thoughts on swinging and condoms? Do you or don't you?

The debate over condoms is no different in the swinging world than in the vanilla sex world. Guys don't like them - plain and simple. They will use them - if its that or nothing, but they don't like it. As far as swinging with or without condoms goes, the issue is something each couple has to resol... read more

Sex in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia

Hi we are going to be back in Kuala Lumpur on Sat 30th Oct until Sat 6th Nov and looking to get together with singles, couples & groups for some nice sexy fun together. If you would like to meet up with us send email to our email address or a contact phone number then we can arrange to meet u... read more

Hardened swingers

We would welcome comments on this hot potato ! What constitutes an hardened swinger ? Our take on that is being hardened has absolutely nothing to do with numbers otherwise we would all fall fowl of that opinion given enough years in the lifestyle. Rightly or wrongly ( just our opinion ) we v... read more

face pics

Well that sparked a response !.........LOL Our comments about the government stand was based on research that we did for the book, we live in  France so things are a bit different here where it is commonly accepted so to get a broader overview we trawled the internet until we found that par... read more

Just wondering if anyone is going to Texas musicfest?

Is anyone going to Steam Boat Colorada to Texas music fest in January? 40 bands in 5 days lots of snow & great skiing. ... read more

Who is Rachel ?

Hiya, Im Rachel ! One half of an English swinging couple and the official SDC agony aunt and co author of The Beginners Guide to Swinging and also, our shortly to be released new book, The Swingers Companion. With nearly 30 years experience as a polyamorous couple we have seen the lifestyle ... read more

Open minded

When a couple posts they are looking for "open minded" males in their profile. What are they really asking for? ... read more

What is it with Single guys now posing as couples

Just when I thought the single guys on here couldnt get anymore desperate.  Now they are posing as couples because they realized so many real couples have blocked them from contacting them or viewing their profiles.  Its not all single guys because we know a few very cool respectful ones.&... read more

Hair Raising Affair

Ok so I dont get how black men hair drives some many opinions on this site and in public. This is really pointed at people who have no understanding of other peoples cultures. For instants My hair has varied over the years from short fade to short even all around to mini afro to braids to plat... read more

swinger woman or couple

where are the swinger woman or couple looking for single male cos am waiting to for us to meet and have a nice and sexy time together contact me... read more

LLive takeover in Tampa

Is anyone staying at the Hyatt Regency in Tampa a block from the Sheraton in November before the cruise?? Andi... read more

Swinging Skiing!

Does anybody know if there is such a thing as either a skiing swingers resort or swinger ski holidays in either Europe, USA or Canada?  If so, a website or info lead would be really useful. Thanks a lot xxx... read more

Our secret lives....

Just wondered if anyone has any stories to tell about how their 'secret lives' got found out about in their normal lives (sorry not very eloquently put but not sure quite how to word it). Is this something that most of us worry about and how much of a risk is it really? Guess it depends on your own ... read more

Tampa cruise Nov 13--Who is going ?

We were on the first one out of Tampa last year--what a blast. Better than Hedo , Desires , and Velvet combined. Please contact Josie and Me if you'd like to talk or meet or go boating with us before the cruise. FYI..profile pic was from the last cruise...can't wait to see what she's packing this t... read more

What are the Swinger's clubs in Mexico City?

Hello, we are planning on a trip to Mexico City, Do you know what are the swinger's clubs over there? Thank  you very much...  ... read more

Validations, Testimonials, Certifications

I decided to bring up this question to get an idea on how the majority of SDC members feel about the subject of validations, because of a recent comment in a blog I've been following. A member wrote that they immediately delete an email from someone that hides their validations. I don't understand t... read more

Does Alcohol make all women horny

Does Alcohol make all women horny... read more

Swinging with Disabilities

I posted this a few years back but somehow it was deleted from the (ST) forums The word "disability" covers a huge range of conditions: physical disabilities like Spina Bifida, sensory disabilities like blindness, "invisible disabilities" like Multiple Sclorosis, developmental... read more

MIAMI

HI ALL.. we will be going to miami on nov the 4th and we were just wondering if anyone knew any good swing clubs? any parks where we can get our freak on late night? any lesbian bars? strip clubs? and anything thats interesting pls... its the mrsnaughty birthday and she wants to be really naughty an... read more

Who has the...

oldest full member since...on their profile? Ours says full member since 9/16/2000... read more

Visiting Vegas Oct 21-24

We Will be in Vegas from Oct 21-24 and wondering what clubs we should go to ! We Will be staying at the Encore . Looking forward to meeting Some new friends !!!... read more

Hedo II

 We're going to check out Hedo II for the first time in November.  Mainly because I couldn't get us a room at Desires.  Sort of wondering how it compares to Desires.....I mean, if I understand correctly, no playroom, no play area by the hot tubs,  can a couple find as much magic ... read more

Hate the new login

Is it just me or does anyone else hate the new login, this new screen just added three steps to loggin in......... Change it back.... read more

Sex-Proof Mascara?

Any ladies out there got any recomendations for mascara that'll actually stay put?  I use Boots waterproof mascara but after a steamy session I still get that panada-eye look. ... read more

regatta

wish we'd have read this before the regatta .. we had room//... read more

What the Dog Saw - introduction

 Hello my name is Monty I live with my people in a Lifestyle B&B in Canada. I was thinking of titling my tales “What the dog heard!” trust me, this place, the sounds of silence? An emphatic NO! It is rather a cross between a Southern Baptist meeting and a Teamsters convention, ... read more

Update October 2010

As a reference to anyone who is interested in how our ideas, reactions, thoughts and musings have changed along the way!  This is our profile from August thru October 2010.  Updates will be added as and when our profile changes! --------- Professional married couple, British, 20 yr... read more

BBC is OFFENSIVE! I AGREE!

I am a single Black male and I have not thought about IT  seriously until recently. I am not bent out of shape over it but obviously there are no labels for cpls or sgl fems that enoy playing with Black gents. Wish we could get away from BBC label .What can you do? I feel ya BRIGANT!... read more

BBC is OFFENSIVE! I AGREE!

I am a single Black male and I have not thought about seriously until recently. I am not bent out of shape over it but obviously there are no labels for cpls or sgl fems that enoy playing with Black gents. Wish we could get away from BBC label .What can you do? I feel ya BRIGANT!... read more

cut or natural

Hello everyone, This is to the ladies in the site. I would like to know how you like it, circumsiced or unciecumsiced? an why? they are many reasons like for example, the way they look, feel, religious thing, medical, or you just don't really care because a dick is a dick and it works the same.... read more

fata morgana

Fata Morgana is a really good club, nr Amsterdam about 20 mins away in a taxi. when we went it was 100euros entry and that is all inclusive, fantastic food, and any drink you want. It was very freindly and gets going on the dot at 9PM. Lots of dancing and at 11pm everyone dresses down to sex... read more

Barcelona Swinger Clubs

we would appreciate any useful information regarding the swinger clubs in Barcelona. We’ll be in Barcelona from 22/10 until 25/10 staying at the W hotel. ... read more

Kinky Xmas Dance and Charity Food Drive, Saturday, December 18, 2010

The Grand Tradition Continues, Saturday, December 18 in Danbury with a Total Kinky Xmas Bar Take Over Party. Get your room today by calling the St. Croix Casino Danbury (formerly the Hole In The Wall). Enjoy fun friends, great food, drinks and sexy people. Terrific DJ and Dancing all night!... read more

Full vs Soft

One of our favorite things about the LS is the opportunity to discuss, with one another, issues most vanilla couples never get to explore. Our latest interesting topic was "how society has ingrained the belief that intercourse is more intimate that oral play". In all actuality, most pene... read more

Swingers in Amsterdam

Hy...we are in Amsterdam for about 1 month..we think there are many swinger-couples in amsterdam...but why are the most clubs outside the city?? we are looking for some couples to meet in town, for sex and fun together!!!kiss, B&C... read more

why all the drama

After reading the blogs and profiles on SDC, just wondering why the drama. This lifestyle should be about having fun.  If others offend you or are not your type, why not just move on until you find what you are looking for???... read more

Visiting Amsterdam

I'm going to be in Amsterdam next month for a weekend. I was thinking about visiting a club while I was there. Does anyone have any recomendations? In particular I'm looking for somewhere that has a slightly older clientele (I'm 42) and that is going to be safe for a single woman.... read more

Piercing pics

My lady and myself, both have a very keen interest in getting genital piercings. We would like to ask for everyone's help, by commenting, based on personal experience, and picstures on both the appearance and the good and bad points of male and female genital piercings. Again, please send us your co... read more

Prince Albert Piercing

Dr Ziggy, We were wonding if any men, that are pierced or have been, could give us their take on a PA piercing. What was your true healing time? How long did you use condoms to protect your pierce? Does it affect urination at all? And other such things. Thanks for any and all input! ... read more

Amazon Kindles

Who has one? What are your likes/dislikes.....any problems with it etc... read more

Fantasy Fest - Motorcycle Ride Wednesday 27th

Motorcycle Ride Wednesday 27th Anyone interested in doing a sexy ride during Fantasy Fest. We are planning on taking a ride on Wednesday during the day up the keys a ways and stoping along the way for drinks. Girls in bikinis (smaller th... read more

Fantasy Fest - Motorcycle Ride Wednesday 27th

Motorcycle Ride Wednesday 27th Anyone interested in doing a sexy ride during Fantasy Fest. We are planning on taking a ride on Wednesday during the day up the keys a ways and stoping along the way for drinks. Girls in bikinis (smaller th... read more

Is Swinging about looks or the fun

People have asked the question is swinging about looks or is it about the fun you have please tell us... read more

CHATROOM BOREDOM

I think the chatrooms on these sites are the MOST boring places on earth , full of Sad people telling each other lies about thier fictional lives, They just make up stories about what they do except what they really do is sit in thier sad little rooms exploring fictional lives with fictional people ... read more

CHATROOM BOREDOM

I think the chatrooms on these sites are the MOST boring places on earth , full of Sad people telling each other lies about thier fictional lives, They just make up stories about what they do except what they really do is sit in thier sad little rooms exploring fictional lives with fictional people ... read more

Blogssss ?????

In SDC's defense, I was also at the Meet & Greet and at the bottom of every party calendar on the home page it states this: All parties, events and other content are provided for informational purposes Only. Swingers Date Club does not control the venue or the events themselves and cannot gua... read more

Zurich

We would welcome some fun in Zurich to night, monday 11th. Post us back:D... read more

SwingFest - Orlando 2010

We just want to know...how the rest of the SDC Community feels about the promoters of the SwingFest 2010 event and whether you have been treated fairly? Especially how you all feel in light of their heavy promotion of future events. We jumped on the bandwagon early. On March 25, 2010, after SDC m... read more

where is the OMG WTF VALIDATION SECTION!!!

There is a section to validate people on here that are who they say they are, but where is the section to write about people who are completely misleading. We met a couple who we were excited to hook up with, they looked HOT in the pics on the site; ohhhhh so misleading!!!!! The pics must be 10... read more

Toy chest for parents

Hi All    We have had a bit a change in lifestyle in the past few months in that our 11 daughter has moved down and in with us semi permanently.   My question is, how we hide the fun toys so we don’t find the handcuff/blind folds suddenly being part of some other type of g... read more

The Husband Store

A store that sells new husbands has opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates: You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the sho... read more

Can’t Possibly Be True

Can’t Possibly Be True • Until August, Nettleton Middle School near Tupelo, Miss., had a strict policy for election of class officers for 6th-, 7th- and 8th-graders: Only white students could be president, and only black students could be vice president. (Other officers were segregated... read more

Hey you, yes you, where the hell ya been?

ST (Swing Talk) Old guard,where ya been and what ya been doing since the forums shut down? Stop in and say hello. ... read more

White goddesses.....Black Thugs

  Sorry about the title but there really is no level of racism involved....HONEST I noticed there is quite a few physically impressive white women that could have easily made the pages of an... read more

A question of Ethics.

Most Medical Boards recognize that the practice of medicine entails a unique relationship between physician and patient. The patient's trust and confidence in a physician's professional status grants power and influence to the physician.   Licensees are expected to maintain a professional man... read more

A question of Ethics.

Most Medical Boards recognize that the practice of medicine entails a unique relationship between physician and patient. The patient's trust and confidence in a physician's professional status grants power and influence to the physician.   Licensees are expected to maintain a professional man... read more

Dante's

How wild do this get, meaning, is the underwater touching, or do they keep a lid on that stuff? Also, Please tell us, if we can't get there till 4, would we miss everything? Have a commitment that it doesn't look like we can get out. Would a shear suit be OK for the pool, or does she have to have a ... read more

Sex & Massage

After getting a good massage from a man or women sex should alw ays follow.... read more

Fuckbuddy

I think that is the most derogatory word ever used in the context of a lady Fuckbuddy sounds like a leg of pork to take to the seaside... read more

Ladies sucking cock

Hi I would estimate that 85 - 90% of the vids on here are of Ladies sucking cock while it may be quite an enjoyable pastime dont you think it represents what the male thinks we are for Sucking cocks can be borring if that is all that is required There are more exciting things to do but obviously n... read more

key west

We just love Key West.  Fantasy fest is by far the most awsome playground for fun adults.  and the rest of the year , there are Fun things to do like riding the bull at Cow boy bills, get naked at Eve's roof top, enjoy a lap dance , Extreme fury tours, and of course the endless pictur... read more

Columbus Day Regatta

Were looking for to tag along. Anyone have space , let us know. Thanks... read more

Columbus Day Regatta

Were looking for to tag along. Anyone have space , let us know. Thanks... read more

Most Exciting?

Too many to list. I guess I got started with my attraction to extreme PDA's when I fingered my gf on the track bus in junior high school. Lately, my gf (no, not the same one from 35 yrs ago) and I enjoy Trapeze. True, it's not risky, but we love to start with her sitting on my lap in the loun... read more

Brown men??

Life isnt that black and white these days. With so much attention on these two colors, we brown guys are just wondering where we stand :) We do stand a stiff comparison in size, offer the brown vs white/blck intoxication, and are long stayers and repeaters too with equally captivating kink and sens... read more

Visiting Dallas

I've heard that Dallas is a sexy swinging city....will be in Dallas for about a week...starting Oct 11...what are to best ways or places to get out and have some sexxxy fun?... read more

CEBU - Philiphines

Hello, I look for a Swngerclub or a swingerparty in Cebu, can me help? Walter... read more

wastelands

we're off to wastelands in november.would love to hear from people who have been,or who are going.we enjoy all aspects of swinging.what will we find? ... read more

The Great Chili Cook Off.

Chili Cook-Off  If you can read this whole story without laughing, then there's no hope  for you. I was crying by the end. This is an actual account as relayed to paramedics at a chili cook-off in Tex... read more

just a thought

Maybe its your Spelling... read more

We love black men!

Why does there seem to be a secret love and open hate for black men in the lifestyle. when I'm out and about everyone seems for friendly and engaging within lifestyle circles... big events and small parties and threesomes...and color of your skin doesn't seem to matter and sometimes..black males see... read more

October Meet & Greet

Another great evening with 29 in attendance! Hope everybody had as much fun as we did. =) Jim & Heidi... read more

What is a Bisexual Couple

It was recently brought to our attention that not all understand the term Bicouple (Bisexual Couple). Some seem to think it is a couple with only one of the couple being Bisexual (Bi Friendly, Bi Sensual, Bi Curious, Etc.). There are so many different shades of Bisexual it boggles the mind but that ... read more

Desire Resort Riviera Maya Dec 20-24

Hi All We are going to Desire Resort Riviera Maya December 20 -24. This will our first lifestyle holiday ( have been to clubs) and it would be great to know of anybody else going during these dates. Perhaps exchange emails just to break the ice before we get there. Also any tips, ... read more

Who is really on your side?

"Like the clear results on a pH test strip, the vote in the U.S. Senate this week on the Creating American Jobs and Ending Off-Shoring Act showed Republicans' true color: Red. Red for China. Or Mexico. Or Indonesia. Or anywhere multi-national corporations get tax breaks for exporting American ... read more

Pafos

In Pafos for 2 nights - 1st-2nd Oct... read more